Chris's Guestbook

December 2000 - March 2001

Bless all the wonderful people who are taking part in the News Survey and writing some really great letters both pro and con. I've just finished reading the new batch that just got posted. How nice to know that we are not alone in our feelings in our small little part of the world. Trying to imagine what Chris is thinking about all of this. I've posted this before and it surely deserves repeating - Never underestimate the power of Franklin family and friends.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Regarding the remarks of certain individuals here and on the Detroit News message board:

I would like to make it crystal clear that the next person to suggest that I'd rather have any amount of money than my brother back will be dealing with me in person a lot sooner than they think. I maintain this site, and here's a free hint to those who persist on harrasing us during the darkest hour of our lives: signing 'anonymous' doesn't take care of all the loose ends when you're using a computer.

That said, I'd appreciate not having to remove any more overtly hateful messages.
Adam Kempa <adam@kempa.com>
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How wonderful to hear that a win-win situation is in the works with the City of Livonia and with the blessing and help of ORGHA.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Forgot to mention, family and friends will be meeting with Mr. Kirksey on Wed.2/28 to discuss an on site permanent memorial to Chris. We will be meeting at 4;30. Mr. Mike McGee, President of ORGHA had a wonderful suggestion. I think we'll be able to come up with something that will please JUST ABOUT everybody. More details after our meeting.
Fran Kempa
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The Chris Kempa Memorial Art Scholarship is a definate go for this year! The final paper work was dropped off to Franklin today.I hope there are many applicants. I'm very excited to see who the recipient will be!
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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That memorial I was refering to in an earlier post that I remembered being up in Livonia for well over a year is indeed still up today. So there's some more proof that Livonia has singled out Chris's corner and any other argument they claim to have about safety seems to be contradicted.
Rich
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I can't believe the hateful words that are being expressed here. This site is not for people to bitch about what someone else has said. This site is to memorialize and remember Chris. If people continue to make this site the place for hateful words, then they are pretty much doing the same thing to the web site that the city has done to the memorial. Just remember Chris for who he was. If you feel the need to bash someone for what they have said, either do it some place else or contact them specifically. Don't do it here and ruin this beautiful and wonderful site. Plus, if Chris were here and this site was for someone else, I think that we all know that he would not be saying cruel and hateful things to others. Maybe we should all think about that before placing anything here. Just remember that this is for Chris...don't let other people ruin it and don't lose sight of what we're fighting for.
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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Please accept our condolences on the death of your Chris. We also lost our daughter to a tragic accident. There is no greater pain than the unnatural occurrence of having your child pass before you as a parent! The city of Livonia is very unfeeling in it's decision to have you remove the memorial. A major part of grieving is giving recognition to the existence of your loved one. May God give you direction and strength in these difficult times. Former Livonia residents now in Lawrenceville, GA.
Dan, Betty, and Sarah Bryl <danbryl@bellsouth.net>
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All that i have to say is that John S. has no right to say that Chris was the problem to the accedent!! How can you say that Chris was the problem and the victim was the driver! That is not possible!! I don't know how he got this thing that Chris died because of his own recklessness and not by the man that was driving the truck. Chris was a good kid...he has the right of way while walking across the street not the car! Have you heard of the law on you have to yield to pedestrens?? I think John S. should burn in hell!!
Katie B. <Nightdreamer9928@aol.com>
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John S. in the Det. News and Mellowman both seem to have the same poor command for the English language. Chris was not an irresponsible pedestrian either; I think that's also been made clear in the police report.
George Watson <Holly,MIUSA>
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In case Mr. S. is checking this website I beg to differ on public Memorial Sites. Just quickly off the top of my head - Columbine, Oklahoma City, Princess Diana.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Check out the News Survey site for letter from opposing view. This is the person who loves dialogue on this tragedy.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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To Truthseeker, You're right, this website is not the place for such dialogue, but if you really want to waste your time and have dialogue with these people, just leave them your email and they have been known to respond back, especially on opposing views.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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First, let me say how sorry I am for your loss, parents should never have to bury a child. I'm not sure if I got the whole story but from what I heard your town "demanded" you remove chris's memorial?I think it is a grave injustice to remove such a precious tribute. Besides the obvious infliction of hurt you must be feeling I think the whole community will lose out. A memorial such as chris's serves not only to help keep his memory alive but also as a reminder to all who see it that life can be painfully short and that we should all try not take it for granted.All to often we don't take the time to appreciate our children, parents, siblings etc..A road side memorial also increases a drivers caution. We are driving leathal machinery and should be as careful as possible. I know that words can do so very little for your grief but I am so sorry for your loss.Good luck. Greg (remembering matthewjamesmowen9\2\99
greg <gmowen@aol.com>
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Dear MellowMan, I tried to send you an e-mail today, but you left a false e-mail address on this webpage. What I wanted to do was to dialogue with you without junking up this memorial page. If you care to identify yourself, please don't be afraid unless there's something that you're ashamed of.
TRUTHSEEKER <Waitingformellowman>
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Obviously 'Mellow man' isnt so 'mellow'....
a very good friend <--->
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hey chris. tonight is not a good night. i got off work at about 4:30 and went to the store. i was in there for about 5 min and the song "angel" came on by sarah mclaclen or whatever her name is. they played that song at your funeral. in the beginning there is a stroke of piano keys right before the song starts. as soon as i heard that a tear rolled down my eye. i have been out of it ever since that point. i pray for you and i love you. god bless you and your family. until we meet again. i love you man love woody
jason <avsrule1449>
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Chris- its been awhile since I've written but that doesn't mean I dont think about you several times a day. February 14th this year was truly a horrible day for me because that the anniversery of the first time we ever talked 2 years ago. I miss you so much and I hope the memorial doesn't get torn down, even though I'm not there to see it its comforting to know that everytime someone drives by there you are thought of. I miss you and love you so much chris, by the way, death cab for cutie came here to do a concert about 2 weeks ago, I was away the day they were here but if I wasn't I would've gone and thought about you the whole time.I love you
Tink <Poetgurl84@aol.com>
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To MellowMan and his family,(telcomguy, foyofun and Mr.tir.com etc.)

Why don't any of you ever have the guts to leave your REAL name? Could it be it's the same name as the driver and you don't want it printed here? If you TRULY have nothing to be ashamed of,you'd leave your name!
Mary Bushami <Livonia, Mi.>
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To whining mellow man person: the truck is not the victim in this story. You are doing a great disservice to "your side" by acting like an idiot. The victims in the story are the family and friends who had the Memorial Site ripped out from underneath them. Probably as a result from people like you. How many times do you think you are actually going to win? Why not get your own news story to complain. I'd surely love to read it.
A Mom
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I was outraged to hear that the memorial had to be taken down. But then again, it was probably the Old Rosedale Gardens Association who complained. They don't want our high school students building houses in their neighborhood because it would mar the beauty of their old homes ... they probably didn't want the memorial either ... wouldn't put it pas them to complaint to the City about that, too. I bet if the memorial had been on the other side of Merriman, no one would have complained. Unfortunately, those in Old Rosedale seem to be elitist snobs. So a memorial on the Kempa's lawn would also be "unacceptable" to them. Did the Association even know that Chris Kempa was one of them???
a mom
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Who knows if the truck was speeding. But it was the only vehicle moving on that side of the road while others were stopped, right?
ANON
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So Mellow Man, just what is your beef? Thought the truck was absolved of any wrong doing by the Wayne County Prosecutor. Isn't that what you wanted? Why are you whining here?
A Parent
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CHRIS!!!!!!!!! i just successfully downloaded yum yum's doot doot song.... this has been the best weekend of my life. i miss u so much, but now i have our song :) this means the world to me. i love u, christopher! i cant wait to see u soon. all the love that i have.... sara brianne
sara nolan <grandmanip@hotmail.com>
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For the record, the range of speed of the truck given in the police report includes speeds higher than the posted speed limit. The Detroit News reporter had access to this report, and probably drew his conclusion from that information. No one in my family said anything about the driver to the reporter.

Those who insist on harrassing us would do well to peruse this site.
Adam Kempa <adam@kempa.com>
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Dear Mellow Man, You should learn how to spell and use proper grammar before posting your opinion in a public forum. Any educated person knows that in order to be taken seriously one must first put together a written argument without grammar and spelling mistakes. It is very amusing to see how someone who posts a comment that is obviously ignorant proves how ignorant he or she really is by spelling heard “herd” or by any of the other mistakes throughout your message. Keep on doing yourself and your cause proud. Erik
Erik <BigK316@aol.com>
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Dear Mom, I don't want to open any deep wounds, but I need to know something. Was Chris, your beloved son, an adopted son? I was skimming through the News last night and was struck by the beautiful picture of your son. Beautiful to me because he looked so much like my son. My wife and I adopted our son knowing that he had a "blood brother" a couple of years older than he is. My son is a freshman this year. His sibling would be a junior. Your son's photo stopped me in my tracks. After reading about his life and his talents, I just have to know. No matter what, one thing is certain, your son is looking down on you each day from heaven! God Bless!
A Reader
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Mellow man - if you have a problem please take it up elsewhere instead of junking up this one beautiful memorial that we do have! You are sooo lame! It's a shame I have to write like this on this wonderful website!
NLS <Nicoliolio82@hotmail.com>
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To Mellow Man and his family......leave Chris' family alone......you've done enough to them already. And please, PLEASE, all of you.... learn how to spell!!!
A Disgusted Franklin Student <~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`>
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To "Aciticen@livonia.com"...you are a poor excuse for a citizen of Livonia Michigan. You are a cruel and unusual excuse for a human being. You try and deal with this loss. You are a heartless jerk. Do a little soul searching and maybe you will understand what this family is experiencing. Have you not ever lost??
JoAnne
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Dear Mellow Man

If you have a problem with the story take it up with the reporter. I never mentioned the driver or what he was doing. The story was about the memorial.
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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I don't get why one complaint can take The memorial down, but however many Complaints that it isn't there do Nothing. I would really like to know How many people have been killed or Even hurt because they were looking At a memorial from their car. It just Does not make sense to me.
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To Mellow Man - the issue of the News Story is the Memorial Site, not the truck.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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There was a memorial in Livonia for well over a year on I-96 West just as it turns into the I-275 junction. I'm not sure if it's still up or not. You would think a memorial on a freeway would be a lot more distracting then one on West Chicago.
Rich <valhallaent@aol.com>
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I'm a bit confused it seems that someone is spreading mis information to the news media. I have herd from many sorces that Chris was killed by a speeding truck. Now thats different then the police report. I guess a speeding truck sounds better. Yes it's the truth we are after and our side will do what ever it takes.
mellow man <formelow@hotmail.com>
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Survey Says: 62%NO vs. 37% Yes. Keep voting NO
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i find it somewhat strange how quickly the city reacted to a complaint issued about the memorial site, when it took them at least 4 days to fix the malfunctioning cross walk lights at the merriman and west chicago intersection... apparently, the city has their priorities stuck directly up their asses.
ryan allen <ryanrawk@hotmail.com>
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hey there Chris!! how are you doing? i went and visited you yesterday and i tried but i couldn't hold back my tears. i left you some stuff and i know that i will be back to visit soon and i think i'm going to bring dustin. i know that we both miss you so much. i miss working with you and seeing you in the halls. so guess what? i made it to ccs!! it won't be the same without you going to be there a year after me. i know that's where you wanted to go. well i guess i can say that i'll be going for you. you're always in my thoughts. and so is your family. i still can not believe some people. calling and complaining that your memorial cite was causing a distraction. whatever. i know that whenever i went passed it, and i still do it, i say "hey chris." nothing is going stop us. all of your friends are going to be up there. i'm going for your birthday and every other holiday. mrs kempa, i'm glad that you love the pictures and i'm glad that you got them. i keep on emailing the mayor and telling him that we want something up there by the corner saying something like,"in loving memory of Chris" but i haven't gotten a reply yet. well Chris, until next time buddy. P.S. everybody at larry's says hi. love you, jenny
Jenny <dustinsangel2001@yahoo.com>
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Hey guys the poll is at 66% NO!
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Does the city fail to see that the morning that Chris was taken from us that there was nothing on the corner distracting drivers. Chris, I think of you often and keep you in my prayers. I hope the site from heaven is a good one. To see all of your friends and family fight to keep your memory alive. No matter what happens you will never be forgoten. All my love, Jill
Jill <Jlasndul@aol.com>
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Wonder if the Mayor has any supporting evidence or if a study was ever done about roadside Memorials creating accidents/injuries?? I just finished a 350+mile trek today. Westland to Canton to Mt.Pleasant, to Canton, to Downtown Detroit, to Westland. Of the many roadside Memorials I drove by, not one of them caused me to have an accident, nor did I or my passengers sustain any injuries on the heavily traveled roads at speeds of 55-70 mph. I sure did say a lot of prayers though for each and every one of those Memorials. The Detroit News Article was good, I read the article at the Mt. Pleasant Big Boy, but it does not address the issue whether it is a proven fact or not that roadside Memorials cause accidents/injuries.
Mary Stanczyk <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Fran, I still can't believe that YOU should be the one to contact the Mayor in regards to placing something permanent in Chris's memory. As i said this afternoon, HE should be on the phone contacting you offering to do whatever he can to honor Chris. Love you, Claud
Claudia <CLU455>
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The following is the post I made in the Detroit News Forum. I don't know how long it takes to show up on their page, so I figured I'd repost it here for those interested. After reading some of those comments, I wanted to break something. -------It is unbelievable how coarse and insensitive some of the comments on here have been. How dare any of us complain that a small memorial in honor of a lost son is an eyesore. Oh horror of horror's, not an EYESORE! Many of Chris' friends are not old enough to drive to visit his gravesite, and the roadside memorial helped these kids cope with this unfortunate accident. Why should the family, the neighborhood, the school, and the community have to be told how to grieve because ONE person complained about it? I'm sure if given the choice, the parents, family, and friends of Chris would gladly switch places with those who are forced to endure an "eyesore" for the two seconds they pass by that intersection, rather than have to cope with the loss of their son and the barrage of insensitivity that they have faced when trying to grieve for him. My thoughts are with the Kempa's and all those who have had to endure such tragic events. My thoughts also go out to those so callous that they felt it necessary to post inconsiderate and rude comments in this forum. I sincerely hope that in your times of grief you are not met with the same harsh insensitivity that seems so easy for you to show others.
Jim <jfunk2800@aol.com>
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I intend to see if Mr. Kirksey is true to his word as printed in the paper. He said he'd be willing to work with us in planning something permanent there. This was NOT the way it was presented last Fri. morning by Mr.Bill McDonald.He simply said ,"it has to come down." I specifically asked him ,"are you telling me I can't have one flower, one candle there,nothing?" His reply was ,"that's right nothing." The story seems to have changed in a week. We'll see when I ATTEMPT to contact Mr. Kirksey early next week. I thimk phones are much nicer than form letters.
Fran kempa <Notfranny@ aol.com>
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It is truly sad that the city has forced the memorial to be taken down and then not even allow a simple flower! I think the city forgets that when Chris was killed there was nothing on the corner and still there was an accident. I don't believe it's the surroundings that causes problems, so much as those people who are driving. Those who complain obvioulsy have no idea what it's like to lose somebody so tragicly!
Janine <heartshappedboxx@aol.com>
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kendall voted and now we are at 50% thank u kendall
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We are up to 48% from early this morning at 33% Keep voting in the CYBER SURVEY
kp <kp>
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The Detroit News Cyber Survey needs some serious support for our cause!
Kathy <MsKateP>
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Did anyone really think the Livonia Observer would take any other stand but one of support to the city? You must know that that would NEVER happen, it would be biting the hand that feeds.

Let's see how the Detroit News views the story. Their story will run tomorrow (Fri.) as a feature. Some have said front page, possibly of the metro section. I'm not sure. It will be somewhere in Fri's News.
Another Legal Eagle
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We received our form letter from the Mayor's office in today's mail.
Fran Kempa
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I can't belive not 1 letter to the editor involving Chris's memorial made it into the Observer. I know my journalistic background is mainly scholastic but I did learn if you got many letters on a single topic to at least represent it with one letter. Instead they wrote some sappy "editorial" which wasn't even an editorial cause the editor didnt have the nerve to take a side on the issue which you're supposed to do on an opinion page. And besides it would have made more sense if the Observer would have chosen some letters from people who actually have feelings on the situation instead the editor who gets all his information 2nd hand and is removed fromt he situation.
Rich <valhallaent@aol.com>
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please, let's not encourage this persons behavior. the person WANTS a reaction. that is why he/she left that nasty message here. he/she is trying to break us down by getting us upset and angry. what knocks us down will only make us stronger! chris's memory will live and florish FOREVER.
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to "who knows" i think the exact same as tracy. you dont deserve our hatred but rather our sympthy. i feel sorry for someone who is so low and heartless and i know you will get yours soon. i feel sorry for someone that is as sad as you. you are a horrible person and we dont need your comments on this beautiful website that is tributed to an awesome person and our greatest friend. but why am i telling you this. you dont care. you are selfish and mean. if you had a kid that passed away im sure that you would want something in their memory that their friends can visit. if you do have kids i feel sorry for them that they have such a horrible parent as you. you are very sad. its people like you that cause more grief because we have lost a great person and you dont even care. i hope that you just crawl back in the whole you came from before i get to you because when i do you will wish you were never born chris i love you and i am sorry for this coldhearted person. we love you and are praying for you. love woody
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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"But it's all about safety", officials say in regards to the Memorial Site. I'm afraid safety went right out the door with a history of malfunctioning lights.
A Parent
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Just finished reading the Livonia Observer Editor comment on the Memorial. This part makes me angry: "Perhaps if the memorial had remained smaller, nearer the ground like other less obvious tributes we've seen set or RE-EMERGE around the city it would not have gotten the attention of city inspectors and would have been left alone." Then why did the City not ask for it to be scaled down first instead of ordering it to be totally taken down? Does the comment suggest that this Memorial may RE-EMERGE on a smaller scale without penalty? Mrs. Kempa did plan on scaling this Memorial down, but the City didn't even give the Kempa family that option last week. As far as I seen, it had been a continual scale down process. While I'm at it I'd like to personally thank the lovely resident on Joy Road who has never had a problem with Alycia's Memorial on her front lawn or the kids who have visited it for 3 straight years.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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hello Chris. I just thought that I would say how much I miss you today. I was thinking alot about your memorial being taken down lately. I cried at first, but then I realized that whether there were things at the site or not, each time I drive past that intersection, I am reminded of what happened to you. I don't need flowers there to know that you were taken so unfairly. It is too bad that someone thinks that seeing items placed there to show our love for you is such a bother to that person. Perhaps it pains them too much to know how horrible your death was. I know that you are up there watching all f this, and looking down on all of us. Whoever this "Who Knows" person is, doesn't diserve our hatred, but our sympathy. I really feel bad for someone how has such a disregard for your family and friends. I love you Chris, and I continue to pray for your family.
Tracy <CheshireCat354@excite.com>
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When we read entries such as the one from "Who Knows" we shouldn't get angry. We should take great comfort in knowing Chris truly is in a better place. God doesn't allow people like that up there. They go somewhere else.
I Know <..........................................>
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To CITIZEN - Looks like you don't even have heart that could be ripped out. I guess good for you, you don't feel pain. You've never really lived unless you've felt pain. Be grateful that you even have a life as miserable as you sound.
Mary Stanczyk
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Dear "A CITIZEN" you are obviously a mental midget for posting such a nasty comment on this beautiful webpage. I'm sure you have better things to do with your time, so leave those of us that love Chris alone.
Robert Wilkins <BW3-12-84>
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To ACITIZEN@LIVONIA.COM GET A LIFE! I notice that you are too cowardly to leave your real e-mail address, which leads me to think that you are perhaps the mean-spirited individual that made the anonymous nuisance complaint in the first place. What goes around comes around. Hope you have some support when you get yours.
Aunt Kathy <MsKateP>
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don't worry. "a citzen" will get there's one day. do not let words break you. keep your head up because we are stronger than those who insist on knocking us down. and for those who have nothing better to do than see pain in our eyes.
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And even if the Memorial was moved to the Kempa's front lawn, there would still be people like you to complain about it. I hope a tragedy never strikes your family and rips your heart out. Life is for the living, but you have to heal first before you can move on, something you seem to know nothing about.
MCS
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To: "Who Knows" You are very rude and insensitive towards a family who has already suffered enough. Please take your selfishness and meanness elsewhere. ~A Concerned Neighbor
A Concerned Neighbor
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I'm happy to see this eye sore has been removed. Life is for the living so lets get on with it.Why not move this thing to the Kempa's front lawn.
Who Knows <Acitizen@livonia.com>
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I did not know chris very well yet I did attend school with him and whenever I saw him in school he had a smile on his face or was laughing with some friends.I think I might have said hello to him once or twice in the hall but never really got the chance to meet him and talk with him! I wish that I did take that extra couple mintues to talk to chris. I visit this site everyday and love to hear all the great things that people say about you chris,you are missed and loved and will always be in our hearts and mind! We all miss you chris and love you very much!!
Chrissy Bartlett
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Sorry, here I go again. P.S. to Mr. Mayor - you haven't a CLUE to what this all about. Glad the Detroit News is listening. Did anyone find out why the UPN van was at the site yesterday??
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Well Mr. Mayor, the Scholarship Fund is already in effect. Planting a tree is a lovely idea. The Pom girls planted one in memory of Alycia on Franklin school grounds, but they STILL used her Memorial site for their vigils especially before their Competitions and on the anniversary date of her death, on her birthday and at Xmas. 3 years running right now. There is something spiritual about a persons last living place on Earth. A tree on Franklin's grounds is a wonderful rememberance too and should be considered, but it still won't be THE place to remember.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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We were contacted by a reporter from the Detroit News this morning.They are going to run a story on the City's order to have the Memorial removed. I'm not sure when it will run as they want to make it a feature.

A BIG thank you to Jenny Gervasi for giving us today's picture. It was taken during this year's Chicago trip. She alo gave us several others. As I tried to explain to her, these recent pictures are now cherished!
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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hello. i got one of those emails from the mayors office that said to start a scholorship fund and to plant a tree. im sure there is already a scholorship fund in effect so that shows how much that the mayor payes attention. also i know that alot of emails were sent but i thought maybe they would take the time to address each one personally. doing the exact letter to everyone shows how much they really care. oh well at least they changed the names. thats surprising. well i am still very angry as well as everyone else. so keep writing i love you chris love woody
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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The mayor's office has started sending out form letters to everyone who has written. Basically they say 'Start a Scholarship Fund.' If the city had taken the time to contact us, they would know that we already did this. Feel free to write to the mayor's office if you haven't already. At least they have to take the time to address all those identical e-mails.
adam <adam@kempa.com>
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Monday night on my way home from work, I drove past the memorial site and there were four candles going. Later that night my wife and I went up to the site. There were 30 or 40 candles going, it looked like a little camp fire. There was a large group of kids who came and left in little groups...

I know that this won't or can't happen every night Tuesday was too windy. It made us feel good Monday night. Thanks to everyone for remembering Chirs. He had many good friends.
Dad <afk@aol.com>
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Cary, NC new fan here. Visit this page often. God Bless the family and friends. Would love to have been to your memorial the day after they made your parents remove it. Keep the candles burning.
B.Westfall <BW31284>
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I did not know Chris. I missed out. I do know that he was an incredible artist, and the world is at a loss. I do know that I found this site through Adam's site, and I added my own candle last night, to the beatiful tribute at that corner. As I walked back to my car I cried for a life that should not have been lost. I cried because the city in which I live has chosen politics over humanity. I left a candle as a tribute to this fine artist, but also as a reminder to our community, that the city has still not fixed that light. It does not matter if it works fine 95% of the time. It's that 5% that it's not working that matters. I am angry that they can find the time to send a police officer to guard the tribute, but cannot find the time to replace the signal. And my suggestion is that until something is done about that light, the memorial should continue to be rebuilt. And if that means I buy a year's supply of candles, I will. I cannot understand the pain Chris's family and friends are going through. But I will fight with all of you to see something done. It's all I can offer. I wish there was more.
A Visitor
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It doesn't matter if they take the candles...we'll just put more out. We'll never forget...and we won't let them forget either. They will just have to keep coming to get them.
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Why weren't they sitting at the corner when the lights were malfunctioning?
A friend <>>>>>>>>>
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I drove W. Chicago from Farmington to Merriman at just a little after 3. LP was sitting midway at Rosedale Church facing Merriman.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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UPN. Isn't that channel 50? News coverage maybe??
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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I just drove by the corner myself. Everything is indeed gone, and a UPN van was parked nearby. Anyone know what's going on?
adam <adam@kempa.com>
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Dear Chris, Your family had to comply with Livonia Police the morning of your accident, then they had to comply with a very lengthy wait for an accident report, they also had to comply with a wait to have the intersection signals checked out for fear that someone else would be hurt, they have had to comply with the Wayne County Prosecuter's decision and have recently complied with the City of Livonia's order to remove your Memorial site. Just how much more must your family and friends have to comply with in addition to you not being here? PLEASE keep shining down on your family and friends, as we will continue to shine right back at you. These people cannot and will not break our spirit and the spirit you left behind.
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Just passed by the corner. (3:15). All of our stuff is gone and they had one of Livonia's Finest apparently guarding the pole! He was sitting in his car by the curb watching the site! Don't we have more serious things for our police to be doing???
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hey chris. whats goin on. yesterday some of us went up to the memorial and lit a bunch of candles for you. we talked bout memories and its the first time ive been up there and not cried. last night was also the first night i havent cried. i was coming home from franklin today and i passed the memorial. they took all of our candles and jones bottles. they dont understand that we will keep going up there and thats just how it is. that upet me that everything is gone. but there will be more tonight and forever. you are always in my heart and on my mind dear friend. i love you. love woody
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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Dear Chris: If I was in Michigan last night, I would have been there with your Mom holding a candle. I am very sorry that the politicians are so heartless and they made your family take the memorial down, but you know that everyone will still think of you and pray for you every day. You will never be forgotten. How could you? Look at the many lives you have touched. Keep shining down on us Chris!
Aunt JoAnne <jgvpri@aol.com>
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Never underestimate the power of Franklin High School students, their friends, and family.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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i wish i was at home this week chris, i wish that i could have been there tonight, i wish that lori could have been there tonight... i know that would have helped her more than any hospital... thank you chris for watching out for her and the rest of us. i love you and miss you terribly
sara
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Hey Chris! I bet your loving the view from above tonight!! Look what everybody did for you tonight...their keeping your light shinning bright! I brought tears to my eyes. All of that at the corner Chris is for you! Love Always, Katie
Katie B
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Hey Chris, It hasn't really been all that long since I've last writen in your guest book! Its finally started today I didn't cry once well its not over yet but hopefully I'll pull through! I wrote an email to the mayor and this is exactly what it said: You people confuse me! Someone very much loved is killed because someone didn't have the brains to slow down one nothing happens about it and now just because a couple people slow down to look at the wonderful memorial put together by the many people that loved chris you had his family take it down! I'm sorry but thats just pathetic! You people need to start worrying about something that really matters if you can take the time to make a family take down a harmless memorial than you should be able to take the time to fix or have someone fix that stupid cross road! Thank you, Virginia Moshos Who knows if it will have any affect or not but hopefully if enough people send or email him we might be able to at least have a small memorial! I loveyou and miss you so much! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com/gorgous_girl11@hotmail.com>
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UNBELIEVABLE that a mere 9 year old child created today's AWESOME ARTWORK !Everyone at work has been admiring today's picture, which is my new wallpaper for the laptop in my office. I save all the pictures, and many become wallpaper and screensavers. I HATE what the city did for the memorial. It was an inconsiderate decision at best. Whomever the anonymous man is that caused this ....I don't think removing the memorial items will cause us to forget Chris for even a second. You may have friends in high places in the city, but we who mourn Christopher have a special angel in a much higher place called heaven....Chris is our angel.
Kathy <MsKateP>
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Just was by the corner.....there must be fifty candles there and almost as many people! We love you Chris, we'll never let you be forgotten as hard as they try! I know you love it!
One Of Chris' Many Friends Who Won't Let His Light go Out <..................<>.............................>
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miss you....
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my girls and i drove by today and they noticed that the memorial had been taken down. no matter if there are things on that corner or not we will always remember chris and pray that every day his family heals a little more. so many people have told me that seeing the candles up there have reminded them to slow down and watch for people walking across the street. we drive by at least once a day just to think of chris. i hope he is happy and drawing up a storm in heaven.
D.C. <dcronkhite@aol.com>
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I am sorry if you took offense to my quote, it was just something I herd I am not saying that it is not going to be hard and everything is going to be the same without chris I am just trying to say that no matter how bad things seem right now don't worry things will get better. I love chris very much and miss him very much I will never be the same again without hi, I come to this site everyday and love reading all the good things people say about you chris, you mea a lot to me and everyone!
annonymous
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Your intention may be to help us in this darkest time of our lives. However, I don't think your quote applies to the death of a child.

At the last meeting of a support group a man whose child died 24 years ago spoke. He stated that "you never get over the death of a child you just learn to live with it."
Dad <afk49@aol.com>
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when an emotional injury takes place, the body begins a process as natural as the healing of a physical wound. Let the process happen.Trust that nature will do the healing. Know that the pain will pass, and, when it passes, you will be stronger, happiers, more sensitive and aware.
anonymous
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To the citizen or citizens who complained about the Memorial Site. Let's hope this never happens to a family member or friend of yours. Now explain to me why intersections are still, and always will be hazzard even without a Memorial Site on any of its corners. Think about it the next time you approach one. Look around you. How many red light runners do you see, how many drivers talking on cell phones do you see, how many might quite possibly be drunk and you don't even know it, you also don't know when a high speed police chase may cross your path. The Memorial Site was NOT an accident waiting to happen - the accident already OCCURED.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Just drop those stuffed animals off to Mr. K at Franklin's Student Activities Office and they can be donated to one of the many Community Service Projects that the students work on like the COTS Shelter.
MCS <mopcopsop>
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Chris, we had to take down your memorial today, someone complained...... and the city said either we remove it or they would. They gave us until Monday

Many good friends and neighbors were there to help. The "many hands" made the work go quickly which was a big help to your mother, brother and I. Many thanks to each and everyone who helped us.

I feel the real reason that we had to take your memorial down was that people don't want to be reminded how quickly their lives can be changed forever.

I miss you every minute of every day. I just wish the driver had missed you, on Monday, November 20th 2000.
Dad <AFK49@aol.com>
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Now there is another hole in my heart...because of the memorial being taked down. I always went there just to place a flower and say a prayer and think of Chris and try to think about what he's doing right now...i still do that when i'm not at the memorial. But it still kills me inside knowing that a place where we can grieve and let our emotions out is gone. That memorial was there so people wouldn't have to drive so far just to grieve...it was right around the corner. Some of kids at FHS don't even own a car or drive yet! That was our place to remember Chris...our beloved Chris Kempa. I still don't understand why this memorial is gone and the other 2 are still up! I just don't understand. But still no matter what...with or without a memorial i will always think of you Chris and i will always keep you in my heart and mind! FOREVER! You are the wind benieth my wings Chris! Love Always, Katie
Katie B.
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I am a Mother of a Franklin senior, I was at his funeral service, I never knew the young man yet I will never forget him. The memorial is important because it reminds drivers to pay attention and Children to be careful crossing the street and it always reminds me to thank God everyday for what I have. Noone knows day by day or minute by minute what can happen, but all things happen for a reason. The memory of Chris is there and should remain there for the sake of all children. God bless The Kempa's from one parent to another.
Kyle <kwralph@aol.com>
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In my history of passing memorial sites,I know it only takes one glance to know what it is for. I always leave a few words of prayer for the victim and their family, whoever they may be. It consumes but a few seconds. It reminds me of the reality of death, because to most young minds it's something so inconceivable and light years away. What a tragedy in the midst of a tragedy.
NLS <nicoliolio82@hotmail.com>
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Just visiting the site and thinking about Chris...he has brought so many people together...emotionally and spiritually...I will always remember Chris as a gift to this world...how blessed we are to have been touched by him. May the website live on as our "memorial" to leave our thoughts, prayers and memories... With love...Ms. Hillman
Ms. Hillman
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It upsets me greatly that Chris's memorial had to be taken down. For many of us, it was a place where we could go and "be" with Chris...a place where we could go and maybe see a friendly face and give or receive a hug from either a friend or a stranger. It was also a place or remembering. I know that I have driven past that corner numerous times and it doesn't seem to be a distraction to me. If anything, it is a reminder to be a cautious driver so that no one will ever have to go through what Chris's family and friends are going through. We all know that we don't NEED a memorial to remember Chris, but we all know just how much we will all miss it. I also don't understand how Chris's memorial is such a distraction while many others near by aren't. But with all those thoughts aside, we all know that just because the city made us take it down, they cannot stop people from going there and remembering or grieving. I also have an idea for Mrs.Kempa...you could take the stuffed animals to the children's ward at a hospital...I think that many of them would enjoy a new "friend"...not only that but I think that they would also have an angel watching over them. Chris will be there with them just as he is with all of us every day.
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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The Memorial is gone now. I hope the city officials are happy and relieved.The citizens of Livonia are safe now!

Does anyone know a good place to donate stuffed animals? They have been washed ,fabric softened and look brand new.I'm sure there's a need for them somewhere. I know the people who left them wouldn't mind them being donated in loving memory of Chris! Please let me know.
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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No matter what happens to the memorial, Chris will always be in our hearts..you will never be forgotten Chris....
caleb <calebdeady@hotmail.com>
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Well, I must give a huge round of appluse to Mike Deady. While the article wasn't what I had hoped for either, I think the comment on the George Burns Theater being a huge eyesore was a great point. This whole issue makes me hate Livonia. Anyone notice how the new motto for Livionia is "Families still first." What a joke! I'm still going to go up to the site and leave a flower, just as I always do. My dad said that he jogs by there all the time and it always looks well kept, he doesn't think its a problem either. I'd also like to mention that the pick up times for leaves on my street is on Wednesday, Or so the sign says. Its been hanging there since September. Maybe I should make a complaint. I'm behind the Kempas all the way. You guys have an army of kids who loved your son and are willing to help you in this fight. I'm happy to be one of them.
Cyndi! <Goldfingercjl@yahoo.com>
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I say we all go out and buy flowers. Lets flood that corner with nothing but hundreds of flowers. Are people really going to complain about flowers being a distraction?
a girl <________________________>
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hey i just wanted to say that i read the article in the observer and it seemed like the city has no compassion. cant they show any love. do they have hearts. i dont no why they are doing this i drive by that memorial at least twice a day and go up there at least once a night. it is no road hazard or anything and im a teenage driver so if it isnt a hazard to me it shouldnt be one to a 40 year old. i just feel its very pointless. i hope everyone as i will will continue putting items up there in rememberance of chris. love woody
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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Sorry, both of the girls Memorial sites are in Westland.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Alycia's Memorial is in Westland on the border of Livonia. But I do believe that Nicole Magurian's is in the City of Livonia since it is west of Farmington on A.A. Trail. Right?
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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I just wanted to say that this whole thing still makes me mad. Why wouldnt they take down Alycia's memorial on Joy or Nicole's on Ann Arbor Tr?? Is it not the same? I know i would rather go to a memorial than the cemetary. I think we sould be a bunch of pains in the asses when it comes to the taking down of the memorial. But as everyone says Chris's memories are not portrayed by a bunch of materialistic items on a corner it is the memories he himself left in our minds and hearts. ~Jamie~
Jamie Harb <JLynn3217@yahoo.com>
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I was rather disappointed by Mr. O'Connor's article in today's Observer. He chose not to print the two main points I wanted to make during our brief telephone interview. I realize there are far fewer readers of this web page than readers of the Observer, but I still want to make my points.

I told Mr. O'Connor that I can hardly bring myself to go to the cemetary, and the kids are certainly not going to go. The kids go to the corner; this has been one way for them to deal with their grief. It's still early in the process and as I wrote to Mr. Varga, I wonder what a child psychologist would say about taking this Memorial away from the kids at this stage.

The other point I wanted to make dealt with one thing I've learned from this whole ordeal. Since that first horrible day, I have learned that there are many people in authority with very cold hearts.
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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It's never too late to voice your opinion or concern.
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I just found the mayor's email mayor@ci.livonia.mi.us It might be to late but I am sure anything will help.........
Caleb <calebdeady@hotmail.com>
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Letters To The Editor are only published in the Thursday edition, so if you haven't let your voice be heard yet, there is still time to email your letter.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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I'm so sorry that the memorial for Chris was ordered to be taken down. I don't think it's fair. Yes, I'll admit everytime I drive by that corner I slow down...I do this so I remember to be careful and so that I remember Chris. Other memorials around town are still up...why can't this one stay as well? It's a beautiful reminder of someone who touched so many people...the person ordering it to be taken down and the person who complained obviously didn't know Chris...if they did maybe the story would be different. Well no matter what happens...Chris will always be in our hearts and minds forever!!
Jamie Proctor <princess2472117@aol.com>
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Why is the City of Livonia so different in their ruling of Memorials than most other cities? And why did they impose this order based on only 1 complaint? I'm sure the students would be more than happy to visit Chris' final resting place if they could get there. Most of these students don't drive or have cars yet. Why not allow them this place to gather and grief their loss? This tragedy is still as fresh as the day it occurred. Give the kids more time to deal with this loss. Let them have this one tiny corner that is so beautifully and neatly done and let that large cross of Peace Lutheran Church shine down upon them all to keep them safe on their journeys.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Although I'd hate to see memorials removed for other tragic accident victims, it must be an all or none deal; otherwise, the city is guilty of being prejudiced.
Legal Eagle <Knowyourlaws@mindspring.com>
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Is it possible the complaint was from ORGHA? They have inappropriately complained about such things in the past (which is, in part, why our family and many others do not belong to this association). The reason I am asking is that they seem to be more concerned with pillars, and architectural esthetics than they do with the safety and welfare of children...Just a thought...
A Rosedale Neighbor
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Let us all wait and see how this story unfolds in the Sunday edition of the Livonia Observer. Should make for some interesting reading and keep this tragedy from being swept under the carpet.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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"Death is a challenge. It tells us not to waste time...It tells us to tell each other right now the we love each other"
-Leo F. Buscaglia
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They said it had to be taken down.... I say move it... to another corner. The one that is there was taken down... would they then have to wait for another complaint before they could ask for the new memorial to be removed??? There are 4 corners.... as Adamn said "we can at least be a pain in the ass".
Sharon
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people, I read what everyone is saying about the driver. Please lets not be angry. lets not fault anyone. Mrs. Kempa, It was not your fault, please don't blam yourself. lets just bring peace. It herts me to see, and here angry/upset people. Chris is with all of us. put a smile on our face, and lets think positive about his life, and everything he was here for. Chris was the most beautiful person I/we knew signed, someone who cares.
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we never know what roads life takes us on, some are bumps some have mild speed bumps and some end in huge detours, this i consider non of them. tonight i am thinkinhg of how inconsiderate life can be, but realizing that nothing anyone can do will change that. even though your memorial will be taken down, we all have you in our hearts and souls forever, as we go past those horrible roads at your accident,we know, what happend we will never forget how you have touched us. all i can say to anyone is this all happend for a reason, wich we may never understand and probably will never understand and the only way to carry on chris is to coe to the realization of we all love him, and no matter what anyone tryes to take away they can't have our memories of him, take down the freaking memorial, as they say they will. i am not in anyway meaning i think the idea is a good one cause i don't at all, my v day ribbon i tied up there before i went crazy, around someone's candle in someway helped me to deal with it, but even though our mametos will be gone it's not as though i won't visit the site as usual, or like i won't still stop driving and slowing down for that few minutes to remember what happend, or the fact that because someone life ended and anothers ruined i am still going to stop slow down cause my disturbence (such as was said) to realize how precious life is and how we take advantage of it everyday) all i have to say is i talk too much and that his memorial should be a disturbence, because to those it is our the people out there that cannot think beyond their meaningless life to realize once you hurt one person you hurt many others. don't let this be a bad thing use it for what is ment to be used for " finding life's meaning" and keep going to the memorial,leave your flowers, slow down and pay attencion to where your going and what your doing before you do it. nobody ever got anywhere by "letting the man get you down"- damn the man-emprire records. stop at the site often, and let everyone look and stare while there busy lifes pause for that mid second. remember the angel that touched us all and let his wings and his weezer shirt guide you to where ever it is your suposed to be. with love and consern a thankful friend love is in my heart lori boros thank you mr& mrs.kempa for a wonderful friend and a perfectly wholesome young man.
lori anne boros <pragmatize@aol.com>
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I know it's been a while since I've written but I've been thinking about you more than usual lately. I just tought myself to silkscreen yesterday and that made me think of you because... What would you have done with it? I'm sure you would have come up with some great ideas to impliment it. There's also a neat photo exhibit at C-Pop that you definately would have liked. Lauren and I are going to see Death Cab for Cutie soon. I wouldn't know who they are if it wasn't for you. I must say I'm quite dissapointed to hear about your memorial having to be taken down. Aparently some people have no compassion. But the best memories can't be stapled to a light post. Those memories are in our minds and hearts and the city can never take them away.
john h <cvj_hicks>
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Its funny how it takes one complaint to have a memorial taken down because of the accdents that MAY occur. But 100 complaints to the police and newspapers about a faulty crosswalk that killed a kid (our friend) does nothing. -Derek Nowicki
Derek <Nowickid@kearsarge.navy.mil>
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The order to remove the Memorial was handed down by the City of Livonia based on only 1 complaint? I wonder how the person who handed down the order would feel if it was their child's Memorial Site being taken down due to 1 lousy complaint and many complaints pleading otherwise.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Looks like the driver and his family have a lot of CLOUT in the administrative legalese of Livonia. MR. DRIVER....you can cover all your guilt in any way you like but you will never convince any of us that you are not blameless for this needless death. In your heart you KNOW the facts and as the Lord says in the good book.....VENGEANCE is MINE.
Mridon'twantanyhatemailfromthe driver <Iamanonymous@yahoo.com>
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As I can see, many people are aware we have been ordered by the city to remove the memorial this weekend. Mr. Bill McDonald from the inspection department contacted us at 8:30 this morning to give us the news. He said they had received an anonymous telephone complaint describing it as a "nuisance." The caller didn't have the courage to give their identity. I can only think of a very few people who would consider it a nuisance, and they are all related. Perhaps some have a guilty conscience.

We will reluctantly comply with the order. I know if we don't the city WILL remove it. The way Mr. McDonald put it was, "Do you want to remove it or do you want us to?" I told Mr. McDonald the city had better not touch the memorial. I know they would just come along, bag everything up and throw it away. The memorial will come down some time Sunday. If anyone wants to make one last visit please come tonight or Saturday. I intend to have MANY candles burning in memory of my sweet son both nights. Thank you all for your support.
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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No matter what happens with the memorial, Chris will be in our hearts forever...
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If the memorial is torn down this weekend, I hope many friends will create a new one with me. CHRIS WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
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How quickly did the City of Livonia act when it was determined that the WALK light had become "a nuisance and a hazard"?
Anon
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I hope the City Of Livonia will realize how devestated many will be. Heaven forbid people slow down while going through the intersection. If people were slowing down in the first place, none of this would be happening; and we wouldn't have to keep Chris alive through our memories. This is terrible.
Anonymous
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hi. i wrote an email to the guy at the observer and i hope it helps. i was wondering if there is any legal way to fight this because that memorial among other things lets us remember what a great person chris was and tearing it down will be pointless, and will upset everyone a great deal.
jason <avsrule1449>
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Keep sending those emails to the Observer. I've just spoke personally with Mr. Varga and there will be a story about the City of Livonia vs Chris' Memorial in the Sunday edition. While I was out doing errands I noticed that Nicole Magurin's Memorial is still in place on A.A. Trail as is Alycia Madgewick's on Joy Road. Both of these sites have been in place since 1997 and from what I can see, are still currently being visited.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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what a sick world we live in. where we can't even mourn a death in our own way. we follow the "rules"..the rules that "they" make. we have no choice or say in how we LIVE OUR OWN LIVES. we are not hurting anyone. it's just another way for "them" to control us.
angry, and embarrassed to be, livonia citzen
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It is terrible that you are being asked to take the memorial down...There are other such memorials that have remained up for years, e.g., the one to the Franklin girl who was killed on Joy Road, not too far from the school....why does yours have to come down while that one and others stay up?
Jean B.
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Nuisance and a hazzard?? I'd say garage sale signs, Realtors Open House signs, Political signs, Craft Show signs sitting on corners could be considered a nuisance and a hazzard. Don't drivers slow down to read them? Geez, heaven forbid someone might slow down to read a street sign. Why are there many Memorial sites left up for a year or more in other areas? Because they are good reminders for all!
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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dear chris, Hi how are you? I'm fine. I read that the city is ordering us to take down your memnoria or they will take it down for us. thats just wrong I mean thats there to remined us of what happened and to tell us to becarful when we drive at night and during the early morning times, and to look both ways before starting to continue to drive. I have an IDEA that might work to keep your memorical up. (sorry my spelling is bad) we should start a patition to keep up your memorial if your brother will write back thank you
silvertab <swarthout@tacom.mil>
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Please get your emails to the Observer!! I've already heard back from the Editor and they are going to use mine and I'm sure others if you get them in!!
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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I have sent an email of displeasure to the Observer and sending off a letter to the Mayor of Livonia. I suggest all do the same who visit here as swiftly as you can. I'm pretty angry right about now.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Hey Chris, I don't know what to say... I was depressed yesterday for many different reasons, My brother doesn't have a brain I've come to that conclusion because he wouldn't stop talking about you yesterday, Of all the days he could have been a retard yesterday had to be the one... I was crying and he was mad because I wouldn't stop. I couldn't help it really I just couldn't stop listening to your funeral songs and the one I suggested yesterday on my last message! I can't tell you how thankful I am to have had you as a friend! You inspired me, I am in Art now... It's great my teacher loves all your paintings and drawings that I have copied off the site! I put them on my folder covers and stuff like that! I miss you Chris more than you'll ever know! Your my song come true! I love you! Ginny!
Ginny!
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Hey Chris, I just wanted to say Happy V-day a day late. I was just starting to get to know you and i think you would have been a great friend. And I really feel for everyone that was close to him. I totally can relate to everything because of my best friends death four years ago. My heart goes out to you all and Chris was a wonderful and talented person and will never be forgotten. I remember sitting at the bean with him one night as he just quickly sketched a picture of i think it was cori. And i just sat there and thought wow, this kid is amazing. I just wanted to say You will be missed chris and happy valentine's day! ~Jamie Harb~
Jamie <JLynn3217@yahoo.com>
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2-15-01 Today's photograph is so precious! The photo of Chris today is a strong resemblance of you, Franny. God bless and comfort you. Love, K
Kathy <MsKateP>
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You just do what you have to. You wake up everyday,and you summon up the energy from somewhere, even when you think you haven't got it, and you get through the day. And you do it day after day after day.
From Someone Who Can Relate
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Hey there Chris!! How's it going? I miss you so much!! I was at work the other day and a friend of your family came in. Well Rachel started talking to her about YOUR corner. After she left, me and Rachel just sat there and talked about everything and ALL the good times we had with you. I miss those so much. I have clay now. I think that, thanks to you, I turned into more of an artist than I was. I see things at a whole new light. I haven't told anybody this (not even Dustin),but YOU helped ME become a better artist and I guess all I want to say is THANK YOU!! I know that you are looking down on all of us and that some day we will all join you up there. I hope that you didn't give up your dreams. And I applied to CCS, and if I make it, I will go not as myself but I will carry in there a part of you too!! And I think that I'm going to make you famous. I'm going to blow up one of those pictures I took from Chicago and send it in to Jones Soda and see if they will put YOUR picture on their bottle. I really hope that they do. I will be giving you the picture of what you wrote on the walls in Chicago soon. I promise you that. And Mr. and Mrs. Kempa and Adam, those pictures of Chris I'll be sending soon. I've been really busy. You will get them soon. Promise. Well Chris, I love you and I miss you. Thanks again and I'll write again soon. Love, Jenny P.S. Happy Valentine's Day!!
Jenny <dustinsangel2001@yahoo.com>
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I don't know what to say, but I feel like I should write something. I suppose that this is a really good day for most people, and it should be for me also. But, no matter how many people I have to love me, and "Be Mine" I feel a spot there, that belongs to you. I've thought about you, what seems to be a hundred times today, and I don't know what to think...I'm sure if you were here, we would have bickered at eachother for some stupid reason or another, but it still would have been a better day. I meant to go to the corner tonight, but it was raining. I have a gift for you, I know you would like it. You'll find out what it is tomorrow. Happy Valentines Day, I hope you know how many people love you and are thinking of you today, you would have been everyones valentines. Love, Cori
Cori <guiltysociopath@aol.com>
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Chris, Happy Valentines!!! You have been on my mind all week, I guess because for the last four days, on my way to school I hear Weezer and on my way home I always hear that song,"Natural 1" by Folk Implosion, you put it on my tape and the first time i listen to it, It was the ONLY song i knew :) So when every I hear it I think of you.... I received my buttons a couple of days ago, a blue one and a yellow one,( how appropriate being U of M colors-where I'm @ if you forgot) and I shead a few tears and pinned the blue one on my peacoat...I have had alot on my mind lately,..from school and my hectic life...I haven't had alot of time to do much. Everynight this week, as I worked on my art history paper(which reminds me of you and the times we'd chat in rhault's room with hicks...), I have downloaded a new "chris" type song of napster. Today's song was "Valentine", by the get up kids...made my day a little easier....I guess I just want you to know you are always in my thoughts and prayers and I hope you are well. Miss ya! *Oh yeah, a few nights ago i went up to your corner and brought a new candle...i see my old ones have been used up. I left a pic of you,too.Remember it? I also met your friend Calab( i think that's how you spell it?!) He was real sweet, up there with his mom, they were droping something off too and lighting some candle....we tryed to light mine, but like today the weather didn't agree with us...hope you know we all miss you...and care so much! Happy V-day Kempa~ ME:)
Amber <Amber218_18@yahoo.com>
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NOT a good candle night Chris. We were hoping to really illuminate the memorial tonight (more so than usual) but the weather didn't cooperate. Dad's going to try but I don't know. You'll just have to look down and see the one on the mantle. A special THANK YOU to Scott Allen for providing today's picture! I love you!
Mom
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Happy Valentines Day, Chris. I miss you with all my heart. Please know that there isn't a day that I stop thinking about you
Tracy <CheshireCat354>
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chris, happy v-day! i love you chris and i think of you everyday. love lori b
lori <pragmatize@aoll.com>
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Chris, I can say plan flat out that this was my worst V-day! I wish you were here so bad its pathetic! I wanted to be able to call you and say wow look at that we made it! but you know what we didn't! I miss you so much! I keep trying to find the perfect song (for us) you know our situation kind of thing I'm not sure but I think I found one! It's called- Till the ends meet by:loggins and messina! its a great love song! No matter how hard I try I'm never going to get you back! That's what hurts the most! I love you so much! I miss you even more! Happy Valentines Day Chris! Ginny!
Virgnia Moshos! <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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Happy Valentines Day! You are missed by many in many ways. I hope that some day I can think of you without this much sadness. The driver took you away forever and left a hole in our hearts and lifes.
DAD <afk49@aol.com>
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Hey chris happy V-day. you were always my valentine! hehe! He had lots of laughs togethere. I love you so much and I hope your haveing a great v day...The picture of you playing keyboards today is so great to see. you were a mastermind at electrionics. You picked it up so easly. I still can't belive you figured out how you learned all those songs 3 day before the tri-high...that my friend, is talent. I think about you every singal day buddy. There is not a day that goes by that I have a conversation about you with someone. people are always talking about how good of an artist you are. Everytime i look at the school picture you're mom gave me, I look into you're eyes and see somthing beautiful. I saw a person that understood so much.take care... love scott
Scott
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Happy Valentines Day Again Honey!

I talked to Ms. Phimister today! I hadn't spoken to her since your wake.Adam wanted to know if she wanted some Chris buttons for her kids. She was very happy to get some! She said she was talking to Mrs. Welch yesterday. She said the Art Room just isn't the same without you. You were "the glue" she said.You brought so many people together. There is a huge void there also.

People who didn't know you well or not at all have NO IDEA how special you were.And as this guest book shows that is not just my opinion. You were SO LOVED by so many.I still think about you every minute. I pray you are happy and safe. I love you.
Mom
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Hey Chris! I just want to say Happy Valentine's Day and that i love and i miss you a lot! I hope that your having a great time in heaven and that i think about you a lot. talk to you later!! your friend, kaite
Katie B <Nightdreamer9928@aol.com>
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Hi Chris. I was thinking of you while listening to 89x today. There is a Weezer concert soon. Its already sold out.Lots of fans I hope you look down and watch it. I wish you were here. We all miss you so much! And not a day goes by that I don't think about you. You were so special.
ashley <ashley2003@yahoo.com>
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Happy Valentine's Day Chris! I was thinking of you today, and hoping that you are still flying with the angels. I go to this website several times a day, and wanted you to know that I think of you and your family daily. Be happy Chris! We love you!
Aunt JoAnne <jgvpri@aol.com>
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You left us so quickly

There were no goodbyes

How long this forever

Your death and our lives

The sadness, the anger

The lonliness of three

Preferring four always

How small this new we
author unknown
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Happy Valentines Day Chris!

You were and still are the love of my life. I pray every day that you are safe, and much happier in heaven than you were on earth. That's hard to imagine though, you were sooooo happy all the time! I miss you and will love you forever!
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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hey chris. happy valentines day. how have you been. im ok. we miss you so much its been hard to think about how much you meant to everyone. i still go up to the memorial alot just because it makes me feel a little better knowing that you are so loved. everything i see or do makes me think of you. well i dont really know what else to say. i miss you chris and i will always love you. i was thinking about you last night while i was trying to sleep and i remembered some fun times we had. i will never forget you chris and you are in all of my prayers have a good valentines day. love woody
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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Happy Valentines Day Chris! I have never actually written anything in this guestbook but i read it almost everyday. I just dont really know what to say.Well for now, i miss you alot and hope that you thought of me as a nice, good friend because even though we didnt hang out alot you were still a great friend and a nice guy and we had alot of fun times togeather :)I miss ya buddy .Love Andrew Schinsky
andrew <sk8spankerpoo>
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Well, Chris...it's been a long time since I've really talked to you. But I think about you almost everyday. Everyday, I visit this site, usually more than twice. I always look at the new pictures that are up and read the newest entries in the guestbook. I think I went through a little bit of denial for a while. I don't know how to put it. I've tried to tell my self to get over your death...that we were barely friends. But how could I get so upset about someone that I didn't care about? I remember that Sunday before you died. I was so bored that day. I was online about 50 times that day...and I remember debating whether or not I should IM you or not. You screen name was just sitting there...waiting for me to talk to you. I don't usually regret things that I do...but I wish I would have IMed you that day. I should have talked to you. I could have talked to you one last time. Yesterday, I drove past West Chicago and Merriman. I was giving my friend directions...and I lead them the longer way there just to drive by. I do that a lot. I remember going there on November 21...I brought you a teddy bear. But I walked up there...and it took so much strength. I was so afraid. I remember there were a few girls there and a man. I felt so weird...they probably knew you so well and I hardly got a chance to know you. If only we would have met sooner. I remember the Autumn Bash. It was fun, wasn't it? Heh...I was in such a good mood, I just came right up to you and started talking to you. You were talking to Terri, so I knew you would appreciate it and not blow me off and think I'm like some kind of freak like most people do. I remember that drawing you had on your hand. It was so interesting. But then I remember that our class got pizza that day. You tried to get some, but Boone yelled at you for it. So then I gave my piece and some pop. You wouldn't take it at first, but I insisted you would take it. But my favorite part of that night was when the performance was actually going on. I was in such a bad mood because Mr. Boone was being so hard on me...and the live edit wasn't going right at all. Then, you walked up to the window in the MCR and just smiled so big and waved...and it made me so happy. :o) Whenever I think of you, thats the one image I will always have in my head. Later that night, I remember everyone was cleaning up after the show and I was just walking around talking to everyone. Then, I saw you again...and I remember I wanted to talk to you so bad. Then, I finally did...and we started to talk about techno music! It was so great...we started talking about Daft Punk and it was so awesome! I didn't know that anyone liked them as much as me. Sure, everyone knows around the world...but you actually knew about other songs on their CD! Do you know they came out with a new single? I still haven't head much about it but it came out in December...or so I'm told. So then, we exchanged Emails and I never saw you in person again. I so wish I did though. I remember getting an Email from you that Saturday. Then we started talking online...I don't forget anything we talked about. From why I liked Britney Spears to girls he liked, work...a lot of things. We talked about techno a lot though, too...I wish that I could have heard that CD you were making. You would always ask me when we could meet up so I could hear it...but I'm so damn busy! I didn't have time! I only wish I would have called into work or something...just so I could have talked to you in person one last time. After you died, I remember going through all the Emails we wrote. There weren't many...but there were some. But I kick my self for not responding to your last Email. I know I'm bad with Emails...I always read the Email and keep it as new to respond later. The last Email you wrote asked me when we were gonna hang out and if I ever got your last Email. I did...I'm so sorry for not responding. I hope you didn't think that I didn't want to talk to you again....I hope thats not how it seemed. It was like I was ignoring you! I'm so sorry...I never went to your viewing either. That Friday, I got off work at 5 and I was going to go right after that...but I didn't have enough balls to go! I was so afraid and I don't know why! Instead, my friends took me out of my birthday. It was the worst birthday I've had...and I tried to get my mind off everything...the stoopid way. but the next morning I did go to your funeral. I dragged my friend with me because I was so afraid. But Saturday was the first time I went into a church in a long time. It was so hard...and I was so freaked out. I don't know if I was just tripping out or it was because I was so upset. I didn't know anyone there and I felt so out of place. I didn't feel like it was right to be there since I didn't know you very well. I get chills when I think about it. Then , I met up with Terri...and she wanted me to come back with her to go back to your house...but I didn't want to drag my friend there...he had to go to work later anyways. So, I told her I would meet up with her later. I drove past your street about a hundred times. I don't know why I was so afraid...but instead, I went home. I sat there so upset...I just starred at my stoopid fish for hours, just thinking about everything. Why was I so afraid to go? I wish I would have! I did that with your benefit show to! I drove out to Ann Arbor and as soon as I got there, I told my friend that I didn't want to go. I was afraid! I don't know why! Maybe I would have felt better if I would have went with Luke. It helped my go to that art show. I wouldn't have gone without him. I don't know...I'm just sorry, Chris. I'm sorry for not responding for you Emails...I'm sorry for not being a friend. Every time I hear "Around the World" I think of you...and I hope that you're having a blast in the after life. Miss you...
A Friend <IamAgoddes@aol.com>
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Memory is the only friend of grief.
Author Unknown
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Mrs. Kempa - As I wrote to you once before; you are a wonderful mom...what happened to your son was not your fault, nor your doing....Chris knows that still, and he loves you; he wants you to keep fighting for the truth...
Jean B.
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Mrs.Kempa, it breaks my heart every time that i read what you have written to Chris. I know that it's hard not to think that it's somehow your fault that Chris was killed since you asked him to walk to school. But for some reason, it was fate that Chris was taken from the world. The Lord needed him more than we did...we may not all understand why, but one day we will. I pray for you and your family daily. Know that you are loved and thought of often. Chris, we miss you so much.
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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TWELVE WEEKS today Chris! your absence is still glaringly apparent. Some people have asked me why I write so openly to you here. Less than two weeks after you were killed we started attending a support group called Compassionate Friends. It's a support group only for people who have lost children. At the first meeting they recommended I keep a journal for at least a year. They said it was very theuraputic. We've also been seeing a grief counselor once a week. She also recommended a journal and when she found out about the web site she thought it would be a perfect place for it. She felt it would not only be theuraputic for me but might help someone else in dealing with the grief process.I am finding it's more valuable to me because it will help me remember the wonderful times we shared leading up to that horrible day, and even that day itself. I NEVER WANT TO FORGET ANY OF IT.

We spent so much time together the week before you were killed. ON SUN.11/12 we raked the leaves together remember? You had just discovered that Art Gallery in the Livonia Mall where they exhibit works from people in the community. AS USUAL you had BIG PLANS! As we raked you figured you'd draw one picture a day and sell them for only "10 or 20 bucks" That way you could earn more money than you were at Foodland and eventually quit so you could devote all your time to art. Mon. the 13th you started Drivers Ed at Bryant Center. I had to drive you there and back. That's a long drive so we had a lot more time to talk. You were SO EXCITED about learning how to drive. You tried to figure out when you'd have your liscense and when you'd be given Dad's car. I told you Adam wasn't given a car until March of his Senior year and I thought the same would hold true for you. You thought that was TERRIBLE! "Mom,that's such a long way off!" And I said "You're right Chris it is a long way off. You don't even have a learners permit yet. We have plenty of time. Let's not worry about a car just yet." And that seemed to appease you . We wern't home more than an hour and it was off to your guitar lesson. We didn't talk much on guitar lesson nights. That's when we listened and sang to the radio. On the way there we listened to your music(usually a tape)and on the way home we listened to my music (usually 100.3) You would complain some times but we had fun! Tues. thru Sat. was a whirlwind. There was an Orthodontist appointment on Tues. It was tech week for the play, and in between you worked a few days! But we spent so much time driving around talking . I cherish those memories now. Fri.11/17 I worked until 3;00. I stopped and got gas on my way home in preparation for another driving marathon. You had drivers ed first so I drove you and picked you up . Then it was off to Larry's to pick up your check....had to buy the girls their Jones soda! Then it was off to Mcdonalds for a large chocolate shake for you , then finally to Franklin for the opening night of ANN of Green Gables. I asked if you thought I should go ,you said "No Mom I think you'd think it's boring!" You reminded me that "you like musicals" you advised me to "wait for Peter Pan It's a musical AND I MIGHT TRY OUT FOR A PART!" So we agreed i'd wait for Peter Pan.

We were expecting Grandma, Bill and Molly for THanksgiving. In some way I thought it could possibly be Grandma or Bill's last Thanksgiving so I wanted EVERYTHING to be perfect! In between my regular work schedule,yard work and driving you all about town I was trying to clean the house within an inch of it's life, plan the perfect dinner....even the perfect table....I even bought chair bows! Believe me I now know how unimportant all of that is now but at the time I wanted what could possibly have been their lsat Thanksgiving to be special. Never in a billion years did I dream you wouldn't even be with us on Thanksgiving! I was tired. Sat.I worked until 5;30. You were down in the basement with Adam for a while. You had to be at Franklin at 6;30 for the play. Adam said he would drive you so Dad and I could eat dinner. You were rushing around as usual gathering up all your stuff. You finally got everything together, said your goodbyes and you were out the door. Not two minutes later the door burst open, Dad and I looked at each other,you simply said in a very rushed ,out of breath way "FORGOT THE JONES!" picked up a Larry's Foodland bag and ran out the door with the bottles clanking together! For some reason you didn't go to a cast party that night. I never really found out if there wasn't one or if you just didn't go. You played video games and watched DVDs in the basement. I think maybe Ron came over but I'm not sure. I went to bed before you because I had to be to work at 6:30.

Sun 11/19/00. The last day we'd have together but how were we to know? You ,Adam and I all worked that day. I got off at 3:00, you got off at 5:30 and Adam at 9:00. When I came home I continued my Thanksgiving preparations. Dad picked you up at 5:30 and we ate about 6:00. We had hamburgers. We talked about work,the play and drivers ed. It was during dinner you asked me to help you with your drivers ed. You said you had a sheet of 25 questions that were VERY HARD and it had to be in by your 5th class. I said I'd be happy to and we decided 7;00 would be good. That would give me time to do the dishes and you time to check your E mails. At 7:00 we got together and I asked you if you would mind doing it on our bed. I was so tired . You said that would be fine and away we went. The questions were very hard. We had two books to look the answers up in.By 8:30 we had done 15 I think and you were ready for a break. I asked if you had noticed I had nodded out on you a few times and you said,"No but I did notice your voice got real slow a couple times!" 8:30-9:00 you were back on the computer. I stayed in bed and watched T.V. At 9:00 you came back in the bedroom. Milliomare was on.It was celebrity night. While we watched we talked about Christmas and what you wanted. You were very slow with your list. You said you had found a new hand held game on the internet you thought you might be interested in. You said the only problem was they gave the price in pounds and as soon as you found out the price in dollars you'd let me know. I told you to do it soon because I wanted to get going with my shopping. Adam came home from work then and joined us. I hadn't been in bed with the two of you in years but it didn't feel strange. Adam was rooting for Norm Mcdonald. Soon you started going between the bedroom and the computer room. Adam and I Stayed to watch Norm. You'd flit in and out. At one point you stood in the doorway and said," would you guys start buying Altoids?" I said "Maybe Why?" You said "because I want to do an art project out of the containers!" Adam and I looked at each other and smiled. By now Regis had talked Norm out of trying for the million and Practice was on. Adam had left the bedroom but you continued to flit in and out. You stood at the foot of the bed and very proudly held up a large card you had made. You said,"Mom here's the card I made for Cori!!" and I Said " ohhhh can I read it" knowing full well I couldn't! You said "no way Mom" and were gone again in a rush. The last time I saw you that night you were trying to decide what to wear to school the next morning. As it turned out, selecting the last clothes you'd ever wear in preparation for school.They never did make to school. You came in to the bedroom again. You had on a biege sweater wiht a T shirt underneath. You stood in front of the mirror twisting and pulling on the shirt. You said "Mom do you think I've lost too much weight lately?" And I said , "No honey, I think you look just right." You said "O.K. well maybe I'll stop buying my shirts so big." AND THAT'S WHEN I MADE THE BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE. THE ONE I'LL REGRET UNTIL THE DAY I DIE. I asked you if you would mind walking to school in the morning. I ALWAYS DROVE YOU ON MY DAY OFF! WHY DID I PICK THAT DAY TO ASK YOU TO WALK! Because I was tired. And you very sweetly said, "Mom, if you help me with my drivers ed for an hour tomorrow night that will more than make up for me walking." I agreed and the rest is history.
Mom <Notfranny @aol.com>
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Chris, I just wanted to let you know that I still miss you VERY much, and I think of you everyday. My thoughts and prayers are with your family also. Chris, I just can't get over it...I just can't believe that you are gone! I get so mad sometimes because it seems so unfair. You were the worst person for something like that to happen to. You had everything going for you, and I just get so mad. How could that driver had not seen you? I just don't understand. I try to think what must have been going through his mind when he wasn't looking. The only sympathy I have for him, is that he has to live the rest of his life knowing that he deprived the world of such a wonderful person like you. I miss you Chris. I don't think I will ever know anyone like you again for as long as I live.
Tracy <CheshireCat354@excite.com>
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Chris, you have been there for me when I truley needed a friend, you where there for all of your many friends. you put your feelings aside for us, you don't know how much we ( the people of the world) need a person like you. I know your family has been so incredibly nice by writing and allowing me to have a picture of you from school. I don't know how I will celibate high school graduation without you. I know I will never forget anything that you have tought me. I thank you for everything that you taught me. You made art fun to me when I thought I couldn't do it for crap. but you made me do the best that I could. and that I thank you. But one thing that no one can touch is your musical talent. The tape you made me last year was cool, i mean I never thought that a 16yrs old could be that talented. wow was I wrong. the only thig is the tape got destroyed it fell in the sink when I was doing the dishes. But I am going to see if I can get a copy from your family if they have one. once again thank you for eveything that you've taought me about life and art
silvertab swarthout
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hey chris. whats up. guess what. i was listening to the radio and i found out weezer is coming to town on march 8th. im gonna try soo hard to get tickets. i know how much you would love to go and ill be thinking of you. make sure i get tickets. im sure you can arrange that. we all miss you chris. until we meet again. jason
jason <avsrule1449>
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Hey Chris! I heard this song today and i thought of you. It's called "tears in heaven" by Eric Clapton...here it is. Would you know me name if I say you in heaven? Would it be the same if I sae you in heaven? I must be strong and carry on, 'cause I know I don't belong here in heaven. Would you hold my hand if I saw you in heaven? Would you help me stand if I saw you in heaven? I'll find my way through night and day, 'cause I know I just can't stay here in heaven. Time can bring you down, time can bend your knees. Time can break your heart, have you begging please, begging please. Beyond the door there's peace I'm sure, and I know there'll be no more tears in heaven. Would you know my name if I saw you in heaven? Would it be the same if I saw you i heaven? I must be strong and carry on, 'cause i know I don't belong here in heaven. I miss you A LOT Chris. I think about night and day and it still brings tears to my eyes knowing that your gone. My thoughts and prayers still go out to the Kempa family! Keep your star shining bright in the clear night sky so i can see it Chris! I love you and i'll write back soon. I promise i will!! Love always, Katie
Katie B <Nightdreamer9928@aol.com>
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hello. chris i havent written in a while but ive been thinking about you alot lately and what an impact you have had on my life. i put your christmas present at "the corner" the other day but i went up there today and it wasnt there. i didnt have a chance to give it to you but it was kinda corny. it was a magnet that said "in searching for the rainbows end i found not gold but you, my friend" it made me think of you. i miss you so much. i think the peter pan play is gonna be really good. i know u wanted to get in front of the camera for a change and its too bad that you arent here to do that. my guitar playin is really coming along good. i have to say life just isnt the same without you here. everywhere i go i think about you. you've been such an influence on me and i know ill never forget you. with much love- woody
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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As you can se from today's photo,{2/9/01} Adam was thrilled to have a little brother. They remained close until the day he was killed. Adam was Chris' idol. he ALWAYS wanted to cut his hair the same way , listen to the same music and dress just like his brother. Often times Adam found this very frustrating and would become angry when he found his new CD or new shirt missing because Chris had taken it. I would always say, "don't you understand? he wants to be just like you!" When Adam switched from wearing jeans to Dockers we joked that it wouldn't be long before Chris followed. But Chris Said,"no way Mom, I'll never wear Dockers. In about two weeks Chris was in Dockers just like his brother! I thank God for Adam's numerous friends who have helped to fill the void but then tere are the times I see him sitting alone in the basement watching a DVD knowing that Chris would be right there with him if he was here. It hurts me so much to see it and I know it hurts Adam so much to have to experience it.
Fran Kempa
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Dear Mrs. Kempa, I recieved your letter today! I have a question to ask you, was i suposed to get the buttons in the letter or were they coming seperate? I just wondered because I didn't get them in the letter so... Chris, I was debating wether i should come back to Livonia this summer or not... I didn't know if i could bare being there knowing I won't wake up and see you smileing next to the door... not being able to push you into the pool and say, "oh did i do that?" But i thought about it more and more and I relized i had to come back I wouldn't forgive myself if i stoped coming to the place we shared the best time of my life! I love you and miss you so much it's unbelieveable! Ginny
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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have you ever felt snow fall.on your face.melting in little puddles.between the tears.kissing your eyelids.tickling your nose. floating gently down.from the sky.only to disappear.and for that brief moment.you are touched.by beauty.that vanishes forever
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MORNING WILL COME Brokenhearted.... How can I bear the pain? So many plans....permanently interrupted. So many dreams shattered. Hopes...dashed. All gone Why? Why this? Why us? Why me? Helplessness...hopelessness.... Life will never be the same again. Is it even worth living? Where are you, God? I'm right here beside you my child. Even though you may not feel my presence, I'm holding you close under the shadow of my wings. I'll walk with you through this dark night. Do not shrink from weeping. I gave you tears for emotional release. Don't try to hide your grief. Let it become for you a source of healing, A process of restoration, For I have planned it so. Those who mourn shall be blessed. I'll be holding on to you, Even when you feel you can't hold on to me. Seek my face, child of mine. Receive my promise, impossible as it may seem now, That joy will come in the morning. It may take much time, but I will heal your broken heart. I know the night seems endless. But MORNING WILL COME. I have promised. ....from The Haven of Rest Newsletter
Aunt Kathy <MsKateP@aol.com>
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After all, most wounds heal, even deep ones, but not the death of a child.
Author Unknown
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TO my son, since your eyes were closed,mine have never ceased to weep.
Author Unknown
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A nobleman once asked a Chinese philosopher to grant his family a blessing.The famous scholar thought for a moment ,then said,"Grandfather dies , father dies, son dies."The nobleman was horrified, but the philosopher shrugged his shoulders. "What other way would you have it?" he said?None.
Someone Who Cares
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God Bless your family and I hope the days a head will be easier than the past has been. I will continue to pray for your family . A friend of Chris's friend.
A Friend
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Chris' old band.
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Dear Chris,

I finally had a dream last night where you came to me in the flesh. Unfortunatly it wasn't at all what I hoped it would be. I thought it would make me feel good but this dream made me feel very BAD. It showed me very clearly you did NOT want to leave this world at this time of your life.

I was standing at the kitchen sink and when I turned around you were sitting in your usual spot at the kitchen table smiling at me. You were dressed in your navy blue sweater with a white T shirt underneath and jeans.I was very startled but very calmly said, "oh honey,don't you know you're dead?" Now you were the one who looked startled but you never said anything....it was just your look.And I said to you ,"Honest to God honey in November you were hit and killed by a man driving a pickup truck." Neither of us said any more but YOU were the one who started crying and cried alot. Then I woke up and I was the one who was crying......again. I love you.
Mom
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Close your eyes, and listen. In the whistle of the leaves, and the songs of the swallows, you can hear the sound of angels doing their chores. For when you smile look closely 'cause an angel was surely there, delivering the touch of joy, and loving you with care.
Author Unknown
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Chris, I have spent so many days and nights, trying to figure out exactly what to say, to express to you.I still have nothing that is quite perfect... JUST THAT I MISS YOU!!! It's weird, we all seem to go through life living each day, but maybe not to it's fullest,but we live. And we struggle to keep and make friends,to show others we care, and to make ourselves and others proud. We walk the crowed halls and pray that people will remember us. For you, I know you will never EVER be forgotten. You have touched so many of us! I will always remember you...for all of the memories you have given me.( they may only be a handful, but they still mean a lot!) Like that mixed tape you made me last year, that hasn't left my tape player since i found out. I will cherish that forever and ever.I still cry every time i listen to it... I wish I would have thanked you more, for all those kind things you did. For myself and all of your other friends. you were always so giving! I don't think you realized how much you meant to me, to all of us. Sometimes we all have this idea, that thanks and apprecations can wait, we had to learn that the hard way. I will miss they ways you made us smile and laugh and the videos and photos and artwork and all of those great parts of YOU. I will miss them, I will miss you forever. You probably never thought you had touched so many of us, I wish you could have seen. Maybe you did?! I still remember the first day we met,( shawna B. introduced us in the theater), It was tie-dye day @ FHS, and I had this horrible tie-died shirt on. I remember that you couldn't remember my name, and for about a week you called me "tie-dye-gurl", it was cute and kinda stuck for awhile. Things that that, those memories I have can never be forgotten or re-placed. They will always be in my mind, just like you. I will NEVER forget you! I couldn't. I guess I am angry, or sorry. But most of all I'm sad,b/c you aren't here and so many of us wish you were! I am forever greatful to have had you as a bud, even though we weren;t the closest, you still meant a lot. I want you to know that! YOu will always hold a special place in my HEART!! I will continue to pray for you and your family, every night and visit your memorial ! I will not forget you , nor, will i ever let you go...all of my Luv :) I will be thinking of you Kempa, today and ALWAYS!
Amber ( "Tie-dye gurl") <Amber218_18@yahoo.com>
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Hey Chris, God It's been a while. I have been so busy It's not like I don't pray to you every night and all but I was in Florida the past 5 days and stuff so i haven't been able to check the sight and all. As soon as i got home i came on and read all the messages i missed and all the pics. i missed! I was in a shop in Florida and was buying things for all my friends i came across this really cute magnet ( it was a guitar) I know you would have liked it so i bought it! I don't know what to do with it now... I'm kind of confused! Adam, you probably don't know me but I would love one of the Pins I'll send you a mail with my address k! Thanx! Love always and forever to all of you! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <Lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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Dear Chris, I received some more horrible news today. Our neighor across the street died just a month after you were killed! Three days before Christmas. She was only 33 and had a three year old daughter, a husband and two beautiful dogs. The night you were killed our nextdoor neighbor sent over our dinner and she sent the desert.I didn't know her well at all but every time I saw her she always had a kind word. I would see her out side with her family and pets and she seemed very loving. I was so caught up in my loss I didn't even know she had suddenly become ill after you were killed.

It's impossible to understand why God would take such a young, kind ,talented boy from his mother and family and a young, loving mother away from her sweet little girl and husband.It doesn't make sense. As long as I live I will never get it. They say there's a reason for everything but this boggles the mind.

You were such a wonderful boy I know you are now a most wonderful angel. I hope you welcomed Kim and I hope you both now look down on your families and will help us all through these most horrible times. No parent should ever have to experience the loss of a child and no very young child should have to experience the loss of a parent. It just doesn't seem right but most unfortunatly it DOES happen.

I will write again soon.You are always on my mind and always with me. I miss your presence and love you so much.
Mom
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chris... i met this really cool kid in my metals class. he is gigantiously tall and he has brown hair that is in the oddest shaped cut... the sides hang below his ears and the back is long but it is shaped around his ears so u can see his ears and he has bangs...and blue eyes. he is the oddest kid i have ever seen but he seems so cool and is actually attractive in a peculiar kind of way. his name is brian... for whatever reason when i see him i think of you. whenever i see anyone in the art school i think of you... whenever i see art i think of you.... every time i listen to the music u liked i think of u. every time the silence of the room is deafening loud... i think of you. whenever my roomate wears her spiked dog collar i think of you... gosh chris i wish u could have seen that, well i am sure u did, but i wish we could have shared that moment together in the flesh. you are such a cool kid. i saw smokestack in mt pleasant this past weekend and it was the most incredible show and i thought about how you and cori couldnt have come with us bc u arent 18 and i wondered about how much fun we would have had the day u turned 18 and me and shawna could take u and lori and cori all around michigan doing crazy things. there was so much life left in you that i can only think about how unfair it is that it was sucked out of you. i just always figured we would have more time... that there was always more time to do everything... i see that isnt true for anything. the moment is now. this moment is life. i miss you chris... and i am sorry i took you for granted. i wont ever make that mistake again. i love you and i love every single one of my friends and my family. thank you, chris, for all the wonderful moments we ever shared.
sara <grandmanip@hotmail.com>
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I just wanted to say that i thoroughly enjoyed the picture of Chris. Thanks Cori--it made me smile and brightened my day. Love u Chris, keep smiling down on us.
Shawna B <coffeeshopgal@hotmail.com>
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I love you Chris and I miss you so much. Franklin is just not the same with out you.
ME
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Chris, My dad found a picture you made a few days ago. It was a picture you made for Rich back in 1993. I couldn't believe it. It is a picture of a hockey player. Rich kept it all these years. I thought you might like to know that Chris.
Holly <Dolli87@aol.com>
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Chris,

Special thanks go out to Cori for providing today's picture, which I LOVE! I'm having it enlarged. And special thanks to Lauren for providing today's drawing. Boyh of you girls will get the originals back, we just want to make copies.

Also a big thank you to Cori for providing me with two of your original CDs. Not only did I get to hear you talk, but sing and play guitar! Both CDS contained 32 original songs performed by you! What a treat. I remember hearing you make them in the computer room and I'd think to myself "sounds AWFUL" But then you'd ask, "Hey Mom, what do you think?" and I'd say, "You are so talented!" Thank God I never discouraged you or I may not have them today. They are music to my ears now!

I love you and miss you soooo much!
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Everyone has lost someone who they have cared about and never forget, well i know how that goes, i had a grandma who has passed away about a year ago and she will never be forgotten. All day i hear my sister talk about you Chris, her name is Brandy, I hear how much everyone has loved you and ect. I may not have known you chris, but i will miss you, and im sorry family, that you have lost such a talented soul!!!!! Chris , I'll miss you!!! You shouldnt have gone soo soon, but im glad your in a better place, "heaven" , i cant wait to get there and see you.!! Scott allen has done a benifit show for you, i bet you are very proud of Scott and the rest of the band!! Good Job Scott! Well you will never be forgotten, with love - Heidi Bartlett
Heidi Bartlett <freddiesgurl14@yahoo.com>
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Chris, We have heard from many people about how your death has affected them. However there are two members of this household who have not been heard. Your cat Felix and dog Charile. Your cat has decided to become my best pal. He is always looking for a head scratch. During the super bowl he sat with me for almost a full quarter.

One day when Mom was at work and Adam was out, I was upstairs. I saw Charile go into your room and sniff your bed. He then went into our bedroom. He left our bedroom again went to your bedroom and sniffed your bed. He then went to Adam's room. He repeated this for the rest of the rooms on this floor. I watched him sniff your bed and go downstairs through the house several times. Soon he came back and lay in front of your bedroom door with his head on his paws. I believe he was looking for you, and he was upset when he couldn't find you.

It is too terrible to believe that your gone. I will miss you always......Dad
Dad <afk@aol.com>
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Mike and I saw LES MISERABLES last night, and the music reminded me of a time about 8 or 9 years ago when we were riding together to somewhere family function-wise in Buffalo while playing the music from LES MIZ and PHANTOM of the OPERA. Chris was 7 or 8 at the time. He was singing along with the music and knew every word by heart...he sang justlike a professional.We all wanted to ride longer because we were enjoying his concert so much , and I believe that was the day we all realized that he had a gift for the performing arts. (We had already figured out the visual art gift years before)That ride has always stood out in my memory. I know Chris is among the singing choirs of angels right now. My love and prayers continue for my you guys.
Kathy Putnam <mskatep@aol.com>
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chris I drove past your memorial today and everything is still there and your parents light the candles everynight for you, I think about you all the time and I miss you so much I know that you are in a better place and your safe away from harm and that matters so much to me! You are a person that will NEVER be forgotten everyone loves you and misses you Chris.I even have dreams of you at night sometimes still I can here your voice in my head and I wake up to find your not there and I go back to bed. I love you Chris and always will!
chrissy
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I just wanted to leave a message in here to let Chris' friends and family know that even strangers are still being affected by the tragedy and his artwork. I never knew Chris, I didn't know of him until earlier this week when a classmate of mine, Cyndi, gave a speech about him and showed a video of his work to our public speaking class at Kendall College. Chris' work and the dedication of people working to preserve his memory left an impact on me and after visiting this site yesterday I wanted to do something. I have placed a link to this site on my own website (www.surreality.cc). Also, I understand that Chris loved Ben Folds Five, which happens to be one of my favorite bands also. I am a member of the Magical Armchair, the oldest and biggest mailing list of Ben Folds Five fans around. I posted a message to it and mentioned this site and told other fans to visit. The owner of the mailing list, Frank Maynard, is from Novi, Michigan and is also a close friend of Ben Folds. Frank e-mailed me to thank me for the post about Chris and this web site, and told me that he would also be placing a link to this site on his own Ben Folds Five site at www.fmaynard.com/bff I hope this is alright with Chris/ family and friends, I thought it would be great to spread the dedication to even more people and help get more support for this site. I am amazed at the network of friendly people who have been touched by the life and death of this talented young artist. My heart goes out to Chris' family. Thanks for reading, Karen Rilett
karen Rilett <krilett@yahoo.com>
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someone told me before that life is too beautiful and too short to waste. for most of us, we take that for granted. not chris. he lived his life with so much beauty. so much happiness. he painted smiles on our faces. he painted the sparkle in our eyes. and when he left us, he signed his name to show us his masterpiece - the happiness he brought to his family, friends and so many others every day. remembering chris missing the smiles
someone who cares.
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Ryan, Doing a show in Livonia would be the ultimate. Make sure you find the largest place you can for it as it would undoubtly be a sellout. I've always known you and your brother's talent separately, but just recently, how popular RSB is. I read a great review in CMU News about RSB rockin New Moon Records. You have many a FHS fan up there. You are using your talents for wonderful things. Keep rockin.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Hey Chris! I'm sorry that i haven't written to you in a while...it's just been so hard on me knowing that your gone. I couldn't put what i was feeling into words...I still hold back the tears while i'm in school. I think about you everyday and remember the first day that i met you to the last day that i spoke to you...we had so much fun in Ms. Hillmans class. I was so ready to do the "Spray Away" commercial for the tv segment that week with you...i couldn't wait! But i was put on hold for a week and done it without you there beside me. It's like a tape that keeps on playing inside my head from the beginning to the end...but i didn't want it too end! I DIDN'T! It's going to be so hard for me and the rest of the juniors to go threw our senior year with you! We all know your not going to be there with us in person to get our deplomas...but you will be there in spirit and in our hearts! I miss you so much...i don't think you knew how much i caired about you as a friend...but i think you realized that i did when i broke down into tears the day you died. I hope you do because i still do...i still brake down into tears just thinking about you. Well Chris it was great while it lasted but saddly it had to end. It's like a book, your story ended right in the middle. We never got to see the end of your wonderful story. But i realize that it will take time for the woons to heal. **My prayers, love and support still go out to the Kempa Family!** I miss you and i will always,ALWAYS love you Chris. Your Friend, Katie
Katie B <Nightdreamer9928@aol.com>
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this message is in regards to a message a few days ago from kellie: please don't think that you were "pushed away" at the stormy records benefit show... that show as completely insane, and there was nothing anybody could do about it, seeing as that we were close to breaking fire code... however, we are so glad you came and tried to get in, and we all (the bands, stormy, the people who helped set up the show) appreciate it so so so much... hopefully we can do one more show with some of the bands from Franklin, Stevenson, and Churchill, who were friends with Chris, somewhere in livonia, so everyone has a chance to get in, have fun, and most importantly, remember Chris...
ryan <ryanrawk@hotmail.com>
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I gave my presentation on Chris to my public speaking class last night. I showed the video of his art to my friends/classmates and they were amazed at his talent. I got a little choked up in the middle off my speech, but i get an A. I know that Chris was in the back of the classroom watching all the20-30 year olds drool over his artwork. He was also my cheering section. Thanks Chris.
Cyndi! <Goldfingercjl@yahoo.com>
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(the entry I wrote below,goes with my with one too.) I wrote a song today...It would of been a song that I would of played for chris. we wanted to start a band the weekend before he died... That song would of been a song I would like to play with him. The lyrics would be diffrent though..the song is about our dear friend chris. I've written three songs about chris sence he's past away. I recored one. I want to record a hole album about him, and sent it to people. Maybe it might help everyone that has loved him so dearly. it will not be ready for a little bit though,(i want it as perfact as i can get it.) but when it is i will make sure to let everyone on the site know. You can e-mail me also if you want me to send a copy. Mrs. Kempa...about the tape of chris and everything I have of him, is gona take me a little time, it's very hard watching them, and I've been kinda busy with the play. i apologize. I will have them sonn though. i think I might also have some recording my dad did uf us when we were younger. I will give you a box of that stuff. I promise! I love you chris, and we all will never forget you... With love, scott robert allen
scott <pillfur@aol.com>
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Seeing chris and I togethere in the picture made my heart warm with joy. That parade was a lot of fun. I can remember being jeliouse of chris's costume. He had a cooler one! ha. those were the times. holloween was a lot of fun with chris.
scott
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Just a quick note to say that you have all been in my thoughts...Chris is on my mind every single day for one reason or another. His buttons that were made by Adam and Lauren are everywhere in the school.. on bulletin boards, sweaters, jackets, purses and backpacks as gentle reminders of a person who is so loved and will not be forgotten! Chris...May the Force always be with you! With love and treasured memories today and always...Ms. Hillman
Ms. Hillman <Woobie0070>
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Chris, I felt so terrible about what happened. I had just talked to you on the saturday before you died. I told you I would e-mail you so we could discuss the movie we were making, but I took the little time you had for granted, I said bye like I usually did with a casual see-ya later. If I could just go back, if I would have known, I would have said something more, I would have told you what you meant to me. How much you encouraged me to keep making movies and drawing,if I could have given you just one more hug, if I could have just said goodbye. All I have left of you is a photo of you and a couple of picks you left at my house. I never thought how much I would have cherised these small material things you had left behind. I wish we had made that "lego Boy!" movie we had planned. We were starting that new movie, but we never got enough time. That's all I ever really wanted was time. I always thought of you as a good friend of mine. You always liked me for who I was, you could hang out with the "popular" or the "better" kids and it didn't matter. You would still be my friend even if I didn't fit in with them. You never judged anyone, you were always above trivial things like popularity, yet everyone loved you with all their heart. At the funeral I tried to sit close, but there were no seats left, so I sat behind and watched from a distance. I waited in line to see them play a tribute to you at Stormy records, but I got pushed away, I waited a while longer, but there was no room. It seemed almost in the end that if I wasn't someone other people liked I wasn't invited to mourn your death. All I wanted to do was say goodbye. I miss you so much and I never got to tell you what a wonderful person you were. I miss you so much, thank you for believing in me. Goodbye Chris. Love, Kellie
Kellie <Asrai14@yahoo.com>
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Please let the Memorial stand just as those in other cities do. It is a reminder to all whether they be local citizens or strangers passing through just how dangerous our roads have become and to be extra safe and careful when using them.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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TEN WEEKS now Chris! Sometimes it still feels like two minutes ago and sometimes it feels like one hundred years ago. The pain is still present and on different days in varying degrees. It feels like I've been kicked in the gut and someone has reached into my chest and pulled out my heart. And I guess that's exactly what happened. I feel like I was in the midst of a wondreful, wonderful dream for sixteen years and then I woke up, the dream was over, and you were gone. I didn't want to wake up....I was violently awakened by a stranger. He gave me no choice.And now everyone is forever changed.We all must redefine our lives. Lives that no longer include you and that is the most difficult thing I've ever had to do.

I still worry about you every day and pray to God that you're O.K. I have always believed in heaven but I believe in it so much more now! I measure time differently. Things happened now either "before Chris was killed" or "after Chris was killed". I have "good Chris days" and "bad Chris days".The bad Chris days are BAD. Until Friday I had always been at home when they hit. When they hit, they hit hard and without warning. Nothing seems to trigger them, they just come. Friday I happened to be at work. I couldn't stop crying and the pain was much more intense. I had to go home early.

Many of your friends are still E mailing me. Some are mailing me. Some have pictures to offer me and some want pictures of you. I've been slow to respond to some of them {I mean you Moriah} but I plan to answer everyone.

The Scholarship fund is off to a great start! We plan to start it this year.I know you love the idea but it would have been so much nicer to see you ACCEPT one rather than have to GIVE one in your name! I think for the first two years at least, Mr. Rheault will know who YOU would want it to be given to which I think is great! It will be like you selecting your fellow student from heaven!

You would love what Adam's done! He made your portrait out of Legos! We don't know quite how he did it but it's amazing! Soon after you were killed I couldn't bring myself to look at your picture or even worse, watch a video with you in it. It was much too painful to see you alive knowing you weren't. Now I have a need to do just that. I'M ALREADY FORGETTING YOUR VOICE AND IT BREAKS MY HEART. Does any one know if any video exists from THIS years Chicago trip? I believe it was Nov.9th and I know Chris took the video camera. Even if there is no film of him.....just his voice, I would love to have a copy. Please let me know!

I was up at the Memorial last night as I always am and Mike Harding and two of your other friends from school were with him. People still come! I've asked a few of your friends if we should take it down and the reply was a strong NO! Mrs. Deady, Mrs. Allen and I are going up Saturday to clean it up a little. Eventually we'll scale it down but as long as I live here there will be something left there in your memory.

The house is so quiet! You were a whirlwind! Adam has no one to fight with at night. Some of the fights you two had were hard to watch! Remember I would say, "please stop, it hurts me as a mother to see you two do that " and you would always say, "Mom, we're just fooling around!" That doesn't happen any more. Your poor cat Felix is starved for affection. I feed him and take care of him but sorry Chris, you know I'm NOT a cat person. I can't give him the love you did. I can still picture you every night after your shower walking through the kitchen in your boxers with the cat under your left arm and a drink in your right hand saying "Goodnight, Felix and I are going to bed" and you did! I still buy too much food. We don't need family size any more but some routines are hard to break.

I still think about you every minute of every day. It still hits the hardest when I first wake up in the morning.I'm forced once again to acknowledge the fact that you ARE indeed gone.I will miss you for a lifetime. I will always love you more than you'll know and I will NEVER let you be forgotten!
Mom <Notfranny @aol.com>
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Hi Chris - Well tonight I thought, for variety, I'd write you instead of having my usual talk with you. I heard all about the musical show, and I was so happy that it went well. Your Mom tells me Hey Mercedes is coming to Buffalo, and you can bet George & our cousin, Kathy, & I will be at their show. I'm looking forward to meeting them !! Hey, thanks for helping me out with my job search !! You know, it's scary, but I think I'll go for the new company & hope for the best !! Thanks also for saving me recently from a lot of heartache. I admit, I was confused a few weeks ago, but I really think I now know what you were trying to tell me !! What would I do without you & Gramma Missert looking out for me up there ?? I bet you two get a lot of laughs when you see some of the goofy things I go to do. Well, besides my job, you two know what else I'm scared about, but I also know you won't ever let me down !! And you know what ?? Your family and all your wonderful friends won't EVER let you down either. The truth WILL come out..........it's just a matter of time because good ALWAYS triumphs over EVIL !! Love you with all my heart !! Aunt Molly P.S. - Don't forget to give Gramma her hug from me :)
Molly Vaughan <MEVaughan@AOL.com>
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chris... i miss you so much. it has taken me a long time to leave you a message. i sometimes i wonder if what i feel is unimportant, but i you always made me feel important and i know that i was, am...i know that i am. saturday i prayed for a sign that you were in heaven. i think last saturday i finally realized that you were in fact gone. it was a horrible day and i was so sad and i just wanted to know if you were okay and were given everlasting life... He gave me a sign chris.... i know that you are in heaven... you are safe and happy and secure and .... chris, everyday is so hard lately. i just want to curl up in a ball and just cease. school is not the same, it never was good... i didnt want to leave Livonia... the comfort of this summer at the bean.... how i wish those fun times could last forever. i cant remember everything about you and i think that is why i am so sad, i always thought we would have shared more memories and had more time. had i known that was going to be your last summer i would have changed everything i would have absorbed all i could from you. now all i have is the memories and i am absorbing up everyones memories of you. i miss you so much. i hate to tell u this but i was never one to hold back from you.... i want to go to heaven when i die bc i want to be able to see you.... this thought is what keeps me alive. if there were no hell to pay i would. i wish you were here to listen to all the crazy crap that has been happening to me as of late... i think that you would laugh at some of it and then offer some solid advice... i dunno... i just dont know anymore. what should i do next chris? is there anything else?
the DOOT-DOOT song
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Chris..its been awhile since I;ve written but that doesn't mean I don't think about you all the time. When I read the stuff your mom writes it makes me cry and when I listen to certain songs by certain bands it has the same effect, you totally introduced me to the most incredible music on earth and I owe so much happiness to you. Thanks so much for being a part of my life and someday we'll see each other again. I think of you and your family everyday,my prayers are with you. This is the most beautiful tribute and Chris, tedabear, you deserve every bit of it. I love and miss you so much... Tink
Elyse <Poetgurl84@aol.com>
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That is pathetic! how could someone not like what they see here? I mean everything in that is put in the guestbook is from someones heart!!! Sorry I just thought i would coment on that subject! Chris,love you so much I'll write again sooner than you think! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos! <lemon_head14@hotmail.com/gorgous_girl11@hotmail.com>
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AMEN Franny! I agree with you. This site is for all to read and add wonderful thoughts about Christopher. If you do not like the contents, don't complain, just stop visiting it! This site has given all of us the ability to share our thoughts about Christopher...and to share our wonderful memories of him......and to view all of his wonderful artwork!!! We love you all and continue to pray for all of you daily, and continuously think of Christopher.
JoAnne <jgvpri@aol.com>
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Dear Fran, After 10 weeks I thought this might give you some comfort:

It seems an angel slipped out of heaven and spent the day roaming around the earth. As the sun was setting, he decided he wanted to take along some momentos of his visit. He noticed some lovely roses in a flower garden, plucked the rarest and most beautiful and made a boquet to take back to heaven. Looking on a bit farther, he saw a beautiful little baby smiling into his mother's face. The baby's smile was even prettier than the boquet of roses, so he took that too.He was about to leave when he saw the mother's love pouring out like a gushing river toward the little baby in the cradle and he said to himself, "Oh that mother's love is the prettiest thing I have seen on earth; I will carry that too.

He winged his way back to heaven, but just outside the pearly gates he decided to examine his momentos to see how well they made the trip. The flowers had wilted, the baby's smile had faded, but the mother's love was still there in all it's warmth and beauty.He discarded the wilted flowers and faded smile , gathered all the hosts of heaven around him and said,"HERE"S THE ONLY THING I FOUND ON EARTH THAT WOULD KEEP IT'S BEAUTY ALL THE WAY TO HEAVEN,IT IS A MOTHER'S LOVE.

Stay strong and keep fighting for the truth. We love you.
Me
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Has anyone received any response to using Chris' artwork on Jones Soda labels?
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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It has come to my attention that some people don't like some things they've read here in the Guestbook. If that's the case, the solution is simple.....just like your T.v...if you don't like what you see on T.V. turn it off....

if you don't like what you read here in the Guestbook....DON'T VISIT THE SITE!
Fran Kempa
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Today's picture {1/29/01} was taken on 10/2/91.... Charlie's second birthday. Never in a million years did I think Charlie would out live Chris!
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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We are changed now. Not because he left us, but because he touched us.
Author Unknown
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i didnt know you chris, i dont know if this is my place to address you directly, but those who loved you write to you, and i feel i should, too. i never had the pleasure to meet you, but i have seen the sadness in a friend who knew you, and told me that i oftentimes remind her of you. im honored to think anyone sees me in you, and it makes me smile to think people care for me as people care for you. i sat here and read your guestbook and cried while listening to leatherface's "not a day goes by" and more than anything felt happiness, to see such a celebration of life, and an understanding of love. your life was too short, who knows what else you could have given, but because of those who loved you, your still making an impact on others, and its because of how you lived your life that makes it all possible. so thank you chris, for helping me to remember the most important things in life. I can clearly see you lived yours, and set a fine example. i give much of my artwork away, as you seem to have done, a guestbook entry by one of your friends finally gave me a reason, before i never really had one. lastly. maybe one day i can meet you, and it will be rock and roll, and maybe we can enjoy a set by some amazing band or just sit around and doodle. to chris' family and friends: im truely sorry for your loss, but you seem to understand that all you can do is be happy for what you had and remember chris forever. so i dont have anything really worthwhile to say. -jay
jay <moltar2k@hotmail.com>
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It's werid seeing chris holding some of my artwork. the glad comics...that toches me. I love you chris
Scott
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When a child loses his parents, he is called an orphan. When a spouse loses her or his partner, he is called a widow or widower. When parents lose their child, there isn't a word to describe them.
Author Unknown
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Today's picture shows Chris at the cottage holding up two of the GLAD magazines he had made. If Scott Allen was there that year , 1992 I'm sure he helped! He was ALWAYS creating SOMETHING!
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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This site is a to comfort us all, to share memories, to get everything out in the open. It is not a site for 'friends of the driver' to stalk people and threaten them. How low. Please keep this site the beautiful place that it is. We do not leave our email addresses to receive threats, but to offer a listening ear, and perhaps create our own networks of comfort in this tragedy. Thank you.
Nicole Stanczyk <nicoliolio82@hotmail.com>
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Dear Friend of The Driver, Received your threatening email and I am not afraid by no means.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Chris, For a long time I haven’t been able to show my feelings in public. I would hold them in until I got home and would come up to my room and cry. The other day it was so unbearable I took one look at something in the Art room and started to cry and I didn’t stop crying for about 2 hours. They made me go talk to the councilors for about an hour and I can honestly say it didn’t help what so ever. I miss you so much I wish this was easier to get over but I know deep in my heart I will never have that chance! I love you and miss you terribly! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com/gorgous_girl11@hotmail.com>
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There is no way the driver could tell any story good enough to justify his actions, especially when everyone else did the right thing and he chose not to.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Please do not leave messages on this site telling us how to feel. My son is dead as the result of an aggressive and reckless act. I'm sure the driver tells a good story, but the whole truth will come out.
Chris's Dad <afk49@aol>
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I never really knew Chris, but I know he loved so many of the people I love. Mrs. Kempa, you don't know me, but I read your messages to your son, and tears come to my eyes, I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope that someday the pain will be less. Chris, my cousin is about to die. She actually may already be gone. Please show her around heaven, ask her to look down on me and my family. please tell her I love her and I miss her - I wish I could have seen her one more time. I hope your doing all right.
Allison Casey <dancerith@hotmail.com>
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No one can ever replace a precious life lost through a tragic accident, but we can learn from it. When we are young we think we will live forever. As we grow older we realize how fragile life is and how much we must protect it. To all those who have loved Chris and treasured his special talents please love one another and take care to understand and love all your family as they love you. Be quick to offer understanding and compassion. Be wise and do not place blame where no blame is due. Be careful and be safe, in memory of Chris. Aunt Fran
Aunt Fran
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Live your life so that when you are born, you are crying and everyone around you is smiling, and when you die, you are smiling and everyone around you is crying.
Author Unknown
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I did not know Chris, but reading of him and reading the grief his family and friends have suffered in their loss, I felt I wanted to send a message of comfort to them. When a young man so dear to me lost his life not that long ago, this prayer brought comfort to me.Since his death and that of others close to me it continues to have meaning far beyond sorrow, it gives direction that I think Chris may agree with. "If I should die and leave you here awhile, Be not like others, sore, undone, who keep long vigil by the silent dust and weep. For my sake turn again to live and smile, nerving thy heart and trembling hands to do that which will comfort other souls than mine. Complete these dear unfinished tasks of mine, and I, perchance, may therein comfort you." I'm looking at Chris picture on the web site, and looking at the picture of another boy,John, dead at only 13 years old. I remember the pain his entire family felt, and how much we wish he was still with us. From what I've read about Chris I would think he would want his family to heal, his friends to smile amidst their tears, and continue on to comfort other souls than his. I also think he would want comfort for the driver of the truck that could not see him and must be suffering in a way I can only imagine. Accidents are such a terrible thing to happen to anyone, but they do happen, and with time and God's unending love and strength I pray both of these families can find peace.My prayer is that Chris can reach down from his heavenly place and help these families heal and comfort those in need. Aunt Marge
anonymous <hmt24@hotmail.com>
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Dear Chris, The past couple months have been so different without you! I remember in the days after your death I went to your visitation and went your memorial a lot, which I still do visit. I remember seeing and talking with some of your friends and family members and giving them my condolences and trying to help them get through the tough time. I remember seeing the pain in so many peoples eyes, and I could feel it too. I wanted that pain to go away so bad, I wanted you to be okay. I wish what went on that morning never happened and I was angry at that man for hurting you so badly! I wanted everything to stop and go back to normal. But deep down I knew it wouldn't, and that nothing could ever be the same again, without you. About 2 weeks ago today, I was reading the newspaper and came across an article giving the name of the man that had done this to you. It was a relative of mine. It was such a shock, I was so angry and it hurt. I had never suspected him of doing it at all, nobody suspects someone close to them to do such a thing....but he did. And I want to take what he did back so badly! I feel so bad about what happened, knowing that someone who has been in my house, met other friends of mine, stopped the music, halted the paintings, did this to you, hurt your family, and caused the pain in so many peoples hearts. I want you to know that I am sorry for what he did to you! In school I often see the same people in the halls that I once had seen at the funeral home and at your memorial. I am so shy and am so lost for words when I want to talk to them, because I remember seeing them the months before so sad, because of what my relative did. Sometimes I will hear your good friends talking about you across the class room or something, and I just feel so bad that now they have to talk about the time they had with you in past tense. Of course, I love to hear about those good times they had with you and the positive things that have been done in your honor! But that sinking feeling in my heart is constantly there. Last weekend, I was digging through my closet and I found some pictures from middle school...those long, super pan pictures. In the 8th grade ones, you're wearing your blue Weezer shirt and look so happy. I am wearing a black Hanson shirt. Those were the days Chris! Oh, those were the days! I remember in math class we would talk about music and stuff...I miss those carefree days we had together. And everything that has been occurring in your honor...the benefit show, the scholarship that will be given in the future, the donations to the art department...everything. I know that if you were here you would be so proud of your family and friends for coming up with the ideas and putting them into action! This page has been such a gift, bringing your art work and pictures to people and letting people who knew you, and even some you didn't know you personally, communicate with each other. Your brother Adam has done an amazing job. I miss you and I hope that you're rocking out in heaven, painting pictures, and watching down on your family. I know they miss you terribly!
Angie <Angie1247@aol.com>
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I put my Chris Kempa button, that I got at the show, on my backpack. On Wednesday morning in my photo class it was there. By my second class, it was gone. I was a little saddend, but then I laughed because now Chris is wandering the halls of Kendall college of art and Design. How fitting!
Cyndi! <Goldfingercjl@yahoo.com>
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This is a poem I hope you can find some comfort in. To The Three I Loved Most and The Three Who Loved Me Now that I am gone, release me, let me go, I have so many things to see and do. You must not tie yourselves to me with tears. Be happy that we had 16 golden years. I gave the family my love and you can only guess how much three of you gave me in happiness. I thank you all for the love you all have shown me, but now God has chosen for me to travel alone. So grieve a while for me if grieve you must, then let your grief be comforted by trust. It's only for a while that we must part, so bless the memories within your heart. I won't be far away for life goes on. So if you need me, call and I will come. Through you can't see me or touch me, i'll be near and if you listen with your hearts you will hear all my love around you soft and clear. And than, when you must come this way alone I will greet you with a smile and "WELCOME YOU HOME" I am Cori Smith's grandmother. Last year I was golfing and looked ahead at a foresome of woman and said to myself God I never want to know the grief those four families endured. Each one of them had lost a child including my sister. Sometimes we don't realize how blessed we are and how fast our blesing can be taken away from us. Your Chris was so talented and bright, but his life was too short. Your family can certainly be proud of his accomplishments. I will continue to pray that God give you the extra strengh you three need to go through each day. God Bless You All.
Mary Lou Laurila <cen75721@centurytel.net>
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Chris, I talk to you everyday. I hope you can hear me, and hear the prayers. I know you're rockin' out with the angels. Love Always...
Jenny <goddess82@unforgettable.com>
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Chris, Last weekend was the benefit show put on by your brother and his friends. You would have loved it!! This is Adelaide, Nymb, Hey Mercedes, Red Shirt Brigade, and Recital all performed. The show was sold out!!! A special thanks to each and everyone who worked to make this show possible.

After the show Nymb, Hey Mercedes, Red Shirt Brigade, and Recital came back to the house for spaghetti and beer. Hey Mercedes and Nymb spent the night at our house!I know you would have enjoyed spending an "all nighter with all of them".

Your Mom and I really enjoyed having the crowd. The only sad part was you were not here to share it with us, at least not in body.

I will miss you always, dad.
Dad <afk49@aol.com>
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We think of you EVERY day and visit this site constantly. Each day we look forward to a new piece of artwork and Chris's photos. They are precious! Chris will NEVER be forgotten.
JoAnne and Bill <jgvpri@aol.com>
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The pictures of Chris throughout his life are the greatest thing! Each day I come to the site and see the new picture and piece of artwork for the day. And like many others, I read the guest book and remember tons of things about Chris. Mrs. Kempa~did you like the pictures that I gave you of Chris? I hope that they brightened your day a little bit. Hope all is going well. Know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. love, Michele
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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As you can see from today's picture Chris was ALWAYS the artist.....even in the tub! Soap crayons were his favorite.You can see by the look on his face he enjoyed them so!!
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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I was hoping this would comfort some who come here... My First Christmas in Heaven I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below with tiny light, like Heavens, reflecting on the snow. The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away the tear, For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year. I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear. But the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas Choir up here. I have no words to tell you, the joy the voices bring, For it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing. I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart. But I am not so far away, We really aren't apart. So be happy for me, dear ones, You know I hold you dear, And be glad I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this this year. I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above. I sent you each a memory of my undying love. After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold. It was always most important in the stories Jesus told. Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do. For I can't count the blessings or love he has for each of you. So have a Merry Christmas and wipe awasy that tear, Remember I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year. **This poem was written by a 13 year old Ben to his mother before he died of a brain tumor. He died in 1997, before Christmas. Fran, Adam, and Adam, I think of you every day (honestly, every day) and pray that somehow, sometime your intense pain will lighten a little. I believe that he watches over you in an attempt to bring strength to all of you with his love.
kath <deady@peoplepc.com>
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How adorable today's drawings and Happy Day pic are. Thanks. I needed a smile :)
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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This is never happened to me before: losing a friend that was someone i only knew on the internet. I was a big fan. There really isn't a more clear reminder than this of how flesh and blood people are, and how vulnerable we all are, existing in real life -- not the internet. I'm truly stunned and saddened and offer my sincere condolences to the Kempa family/friends. I'm very sorry this happened.
kate <k8_mercier@yahoo.com>
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I would like to thank all the bands who participated in Saturday's benefit show. The show was a great success thanks to their time and talent.I would also like to thank the behind the scenes people who also helped and without whom it wouldn't have happened. Erik, Lauren, Joe ,James ,Brad and Claudia. If I've forgotten anyone please forgive me.

A great thank you too to Larry Lakuta, the employees and patrons of Larry's Foodland. Larry delivered a very generous check today.

Both donations will be used to set up a scholarship fund in loving memory of Chris. It will be an annual award for an art student. Chris would love that! He hoped to win one himself ! We will be meeting soon with Mr. Wollenborg principal of Franklin to guide us in the process.

Again, a big thank you to everyone for their generosity and for helping keep Chris'memory alive!!
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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I'm so glad that the benefit was such a success- It was really awesome to see everyone come out all the way to Ann Arbor to support it. I brought my rommates and a couple other friends that also live in the building (I live upstairs from where the show was) and they were really impressed with both the quality of the bands and everyone's support to the cause. However, I find it difficult to put into words exactly how I felt about it. I agree it was an amazing show, and a huge success... but I also wish it never happened. I dont know if anyone else felt this way, but I kept thinking I saw Chris out of the corner of my eye or something, but of course it was always someone else. One last thing, I just want to say a big thank you to Adam for setting up this entire web site... I think it has helped bring people together and inspire many more. Chris really was a brilliantly talented and amazing person, and one thing he will never be is forgotten.
karen o <kostafin@umich.edu>
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I went on Saturday, and it was truly amazing how many people I saw, and knew that cared about you and went to the show. I couldn't help but think that you would have been there...and I know you were..but you were latent. I love you. me-
CS
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I'm not sure who wrote this, but I hold it dear to me, and hope my family will read it when something happens to me. It has a lot of meaning!! I hope Chris would want this to be said on his behalf. I know in my heart he is hearing ALL of us!! "When I Must Leave You" (author unknown) When I must leave you for a little while-- Please do not grieve and shed wild tears, And hug your sorrow to you through the years, But start out bravely with gallant smiles; And for my sake and in my name, Live on and do all things the same. Feed not your loneliness on empty days, But fill each waking hour in useful ways. Reach out your hand in comfort and in cheer, and I in turn will comfort you and hold you near, And never, never be afraid to die, For I am waiting for you in the sky! He does hear ALL of us, and knows we are all thinking about him! BE PROUD you knew him and he inspired so many with his talent!!
A friend who hopes this may help all of us feeling the pain of you leaving us.
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Hey Chris. We played a fun show for you on saterday. we made a lot of money for you, and I hope you proud. a bunch of kids came and it sold out!I love you chris...
scott
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thank you so much to everyone who came out to the benefit show on saturday... it was a great time, and i hope everyone had fun... thank you especailly to erik koppin, the halfway inn, adam kempa, rodrigo palma, kevin herzil, hey mercedes and nymb for driving all that way, and the local bands, recital and this is adelaide for playing... it's so strange that such an amazing thing can come out of a tragic event like this... i kept thinking to myself at the show "this is so awesome that all these people are here, and i'm having so much fun, but i would give it all up to bring chris back..." it's an odd feeling... thanks again to everyone, and chris, i hope we made you proud saturday.
ryan allen <rsbrigade1@hotmail.com>
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I'm a friend of Coris grandma. I'm also the mother of Toni who is part of Chris's world now. I wanted to say that it does get better and easier. I never thought I could say that but somehow God gives us that strength that we never new we had. I have a circle of friends who have all lost children 6 of us we like to think that our children somehow have bonded us together and kept us complete and in tact. We know that your Chris will l ove our Toni, Randy, Brett, Stephen, Mike, and Kathy. If it gets to much and you need to talk please feel free to call or I can call you. Just to know we are out there for you. 517-257-5138
Sue Richardson <ctn36453@centurytel.net>
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Chris, This is going to seem pretty stupid but you remember chloie from my Aunts house (the black lab) she was 3 or 4 i can't remember but my aunt had to put her down on friday i would have mentioned the last time i wrote but i didn't know until last night i can't explain all the details why but it was a terrible thing and if you see or of course hear chloie pet her for me k! Love you so much, Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com/gorgous_girl11@hotmail.com>
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although tough times occur in our lives in the most unexpecting tragic ways it's wonderful to see people pulling together, creating positive reactions, and learning from the things life presents to us. wishing your family peace. desolee.
desolee <snowflake731@hotmail.com>
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Hey there Chris. I'm sorry that I didn't get to make it to your benefit show on Saturday. I was able to take your parents some pictures that I found of us and some of you. I met your dad and he seems like a really nice guy...I see where you got it from. I also went to your corner on Saturday. It gets a little bit easier every time. I miss you tons and think of you everyday. Keep watching out for us down here. Love you.
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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I do not know you but your aunt is one of my advisors and she always talked a lot about you and your brother to me and was so proud of you guys...because I am also an artist...Since you died she told me about this website.I draw and perform in a band too, but after visiting your website, I realize that what I thought was talent in myself is NOTHING compared to yours. My prayers go out to your family and friends. It is a terrible loss for your whole family, and I can't even begin to comprehend what they are going through. Our high school art class has been visiting this web page and everyone agrees that it is awesome. When the group HEY MERCEDES comes to NC, please get someone to let your aunt know so a bunch of us can come to their concert. Robert C.
Robert C. <RCcola6/83@yahoo.com>
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Hey there Chris - I just wanted you to know that last night the benefit show was amazing. We sold out. Never thought that I'd say that about any show I would have been a part of, but I am so glad that this is one that did. On the way there, I saw some kids skating in downtown Ann Arbor, and I thought it was fitting. Later on.
rob <basstardos@aol.com>
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I didn't know you, Chris, but I was at your benefit show last night to see Hey Mercedes and RSB. I came to the site today to see who you were and I read about what happened. What a horrible thing to happen to such a talented boy. I am very sorry I never got the chance to know you. My most heartfelt condolences go out to the family and friends.
Shannon Cooke <pirate_shannon@excite.com>
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Chris, I don't know what to say... And thats hard for me because you know how much i love to talk! I heard about the benefit they had last night in your honor! I hope it was a sucess and I'm sure it was! I miss you so much! One of my friends the other day asked me what i missed most about you, I told her in reply 1. your navy blue "Kentucky Elliott" sweatshirt 2. those really stupid sounds you used to make when i said something stupid and last but not least 3. just YOU in general! I miss you so much and i hope you know that! I love you Chris! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <Lemon_head14@hotmail.com/Gorgous_girl11@hotmail.com>
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Hope that the Benefit tonight was a smashing success. I have a feeling that it was. Hoping everyone got in to share in the spirit. Such a wonderful tribute to a fine young man who lives on in the hearts and minds of us all.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW WE THINK OF YOU AND CHRIS EVERYDAY-YOU ARE IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS...
MACLEOD-RIOPELLE FAMILY <SRIO700@CS.COM>
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hey Chris. I was just getting ready to leave for your show tonight. I am really looking forward to being there. I don't know the bands, but I want to be there for you. I talked to your mom today on IM. I told her about the painting that you gave me. Do you remember it? I made you sign the back, because I said that it was going to be worth money someday when you were rich and famous. Little did I know that your life would be taken away so soon. I teased you about my owning an "original Chris Kempa" not knowing that it would become one of my most prized posessions. It is still hanging on my wall in my bedroom at home. I hope you can hear me Chris. I miss you so much, everyday. Take care of yourself up there. You know that everyone down here misses you like crazy. We love you!
Tracy <CheshireCat354@excite.com>
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I come here everyday, like many people do. Sometimes I dont even know why--because it brings tears to my eyes everytime. I guess I come here find the reality of all this which is still difficult for me to accept. Im sorry i havent written you more often chris, but i think about you night and day. The most i think about you is when i am driving to/from school. Its just me and my car and i always hear these songs that remind me of you-- sometimes if even wonder if its just your way of saying "hi". I loved your insight on music and miss all the things you taught me. You were incredible. I wish you could have came to Marvelous Marvins with us that one day. I know we would have had fun. I dont remember the reason you couldnt go, but i was really bummed--we had fun times at the "bean" though. Chris-- youll always be in my heart, ill always wonder "what if" and all that crazy stuff. Your life and death have inspired me in soo many ways that i feel my life has changed and me as a person... "you will always be beautiful in my eyes" i love you
Shawna <coffeeshopgal@hotmail.com>
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Dear Chris: I am writing this letter to you because I am very sad that we can not be in Michigan today for the scholarship benefit. It is a great thing to be doing in your honor. Someone very special will benefit from this wonderful event. I hope you are happy in heaven, and that you know we all love you. Your family is struggling so mvery much. It is very difficult there without you Chris. Maybe you can shine down on them and let them know you are alright. Be happy honey. God Bless you!
Aunt JoAnne <jgvpri@aol.com>
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Wow, it's amazing reading all the wonderful things that people have to say, about this great person that was taken before his time. I can't imagine how his family is feeling at a time like this. As I read all the letters his mom wrote I just couldn't help but cry. I feel pain and am very sympathetic to everyone who is greiving. I know I don't even feel a fraction of the pain that his family does, but I would like all of them to know that I will always keep Chris in my heart, and my thaughts and prayers go out to each and everyone of them.
Emily Fabian <LilOmniPrincess@aol.com>
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Chris, I was just up at your memorial last Monday night and decided to do something creative. I am sure you have seen it, but i wrote your name out of snow in large letters. I also set some candles there for you. I remember how much fun we had at the beach in Port Huron building things out of sand. That was probably the best times I ever had with you. I wish we would've been able to go up to our cottage one more time. I'll still go up there but it will never be the same. We're all thinking about you and we will never forget the joy you brought to so many people. Keep on making the heavens beautiful.........we all miss you.....
caleb deady <calebdeady@hotmail.com>
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My Dear Sweet Chris,

I found out this morning one of my coworkers lost her mother this morning. She had been ill but I don't think was expected to die. My coworkers name is Edna, I don't know her Mom's name. Edna has been extremly kind and caring to me during this horrible time in my life. Please look around up there for Edna's Mom and take good care of her. Thank you honey. I love you!
Mom
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Death is not a period, but a comma in the sentence of life. In one sense there is no death- the life of a soul on Earth last beyond his departure. You will always feel that life touching yours, that voice speaking to you, that spirit looking out of other eyes, talking to you and that familar thing he touched, worked with, or familiar friends. He lives on in your life, and the lives or people that knew him.
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i love you chris. it is unbelieveable that you have been gone for so long now. i saw one of the cast pics of me and you from "is there a comic in the house" we were standing right next to each other and i didn't want to were the mustache glasses and so you put them on with out hesitation. the little things chris did is what made him special to me. i still have the birthday sign that chris and cori made me last year,for my 15th birthday. you thought it was so cool that i was 15 on the 15th so we tryed to make up a song for about a week we only had one line!!! everyday i think about you and all of the crazy, dorky things we did together and i want to say thank you for all of those times. -lori
lori boros <pragmatize@aol.com>
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I visit here almost every day, sometimes hoping someone will chime in that they saw him in school, that this was some strange test of the family to see what he meant to them. I met Chris once, when his brother and I were designing and building a catapult for our physics class. Chris was busy being a brother, pacing the room with a glass in hand, on his way to the basement. He was living, and no matter how hard I try to imagine him walking those steps again, it will never be the same. It was the sort of real moment that cannot be scripted. It was the everyday life of one boy. I am a writer--I create and recreate people and things, and although I've tried, I cannot write him back into existence. I've tried to enter my thoughts here before, but cleared the screen in hopes that what I don't say will keep another from feeling the same pain once again, but then I realized something--it wasn't all pain. Some of it is good. This is a place to express all of the wonderful moments that make the corners of your mouth raise when nothing external is there to cause it. But sad thoughts push in on the walls that we forge inside to hold our joy. They are still good tears, though, because they show what that person meant to us. They show that we connected with someone. I make myself read Mr. and Mrs. Kempa's entries. I usually end up besides myself in tears, but I see the moments of calm, moments of anger--the moments of life. I wish there were something I could do, something that might make everything okay, but I know nothing can be done, but be there as they grieve. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone feeling this pain. With love, Alicia
Alicia Dubisky <T_Rex17@yahoo.com>
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Hey, I am feeling a little better today. I recieved emails from two different people today. I think when i talk to people about you it helps me a little more. i can share some of the things you and i did together! It was Cori and Scott! I think the one Scott sent was an axcident as so many things these days are! You should be one of the first people to know that! I miss you Chris! And you know I Love You more than anything or anyone! Ginny!
Virginia M. <lemon_head14@hotmail.com/gorgous_girl11@hotmail.com>
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Chris!,

You would be so happy with what someone did at your Memorial! They spelled your name out in snow very big, "Chris!" I wish I knew who did it so I can thank them. Every night we go there, there are already candles burning and some nights new things. Valentines Day things are starting to arrive. It makes me feel good to know people still come and are taking care of you too.

Cori E mailed me last night to say she had found some recent pictures of you from cast parties. That made me happy because as I explained to her, after you reached a certain age you were always on the other side of the camera. It's getting harder to find recent ones and that's sad. I HOPE when we are able to do your room we find the videos you made of yourself skateboarding. Some of the stunts you did! But Adam says not to get my hopes up because you always taped over everything. Then I thought , just like your art I'm sure you figured you'd just do more. Who knew you'd be killed? But I remain hopeful! I love you and miss you for ever!
Mom
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Lately I have been thinking a lot about you Chris. It's hard still to accept the fact that you are gone and that I won't see you anymore. Please watch over all of us and take good care of everyone. Tell Dan that I love him and that I miss him so much. Take care up there kid. We all miss you so much.
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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hey chris so i heard today that mrs. hardgrave who lived nextdoor to me passed away, please help her by making her get used to it. You were always very good at things like that. Well anyways...ron
Ron Q <pizzaq1@aol.com>
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Dear Adam, Fran, and Adam Just a note to let you know we think about you and Chris every single day. It is very hard being here in Buffalo, New York, with all of you in Michigan. We feel like we aren't there for you. Please know we are always here for you...and love you very much!
Bill and Jo <jgvpri@aol.com>
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I dont know where to begin, I found this webpage by chance.. I was reading the Barnes and Noble stories and some how ended up on this page.. In this way Chris has managed to touch my life.. if just to make me realize that life is short but so sweet.. and to never let talent go to waste.Adam.. i worked at Barnes and Noble for over two years.. Do I know you? Again... im sorry for your loss... but want you to know he lives on even through a strangers thoughts..
Amanda <manda2525@HOTMAIL.COM>
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Chris, After reading over all the messages your mom has left in your guest book i cry. I know i always cry if someone even talks about art at our school i cringe. I think its going to be really hard next semester when i start art! your the one who influenced me to take it in the first place. You knew i couldn't paint, draw, or anything but you told me it would have been a great experiences to try! I have nothing of yours, no notes, cards, only memories and i know that is good enough for me! I miss you Chris! I mourn your death everyday! I Love you! Ginny!
Virginia M. <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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Chris was on my mind throughout the day today, as he is everyday. I miss those "spur of the moment" sketches that he used to draw during 5th hour class! I miss his face in the front row, quietly laughing at my corny stories...I miss his incredible eye for the camera and his creativity on projects... I miss his quiet knowledge...his observations of the world around him stirring silently in his head with just a glimmer in his eyes...you just knew he was taking it all in...day by day, moment by moment. I miss Chris Kempa...in my heart he and his family will always remain. With love & strength~ Ms. Hillman
Ms. Hillman <Woobie0070@aol.com>
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It's been EIGHT WEEKS CHRIS, since you were killed and it still seems like two minutes ago! I haven't come to terms with much since that day. I DO KNOW all too well that you have been killed and will NEVER be coming home to me again. And that's about as far as I've gotten. I'm still having A LOT of trouble with the how and why you were killed. And the more I find out about the man who killed you the worse it gets. Not only is he inconsiderate of pedestrian safety on the roadway, he's inconsiderate of pedestrian safety on the sidewalk. HE's too lazy to shovel his. I think that tells you a lot about a person.

I still feel at times that I sentenced you to death Sun. 11/19 when I asked you if you would mind walking to school in the morning. But you seemed fine with the idea. And God knows if I EVER suspected a possible malfunctioning light or the idea that such a careless driver would have crossed your path I never would have allowed you to walk. You had been walking on and off for three years and we all thought you were safe . We even made a deal remember? If you walked in the morning I would help you for 1 hr with your drivers ed that night. When I woke you up at 6:00 you jumped up as usual and got ready for your shower. I reminded you, "now remember you are walking." You replied "I know Mom" went downstairs to shower and I went back to bed. That was the last time I saw you alive and it breaks my heart. We never said goodbye. But you knew how much I loved you when you left that morning and you knew I'd be anxiously awaiting your return.

We were expecting carpenters that morning to work on the house. They were due to arrive at 8:30. At 7:09 there was a teriffic knock on the door and I thought ,"why are they so early" I looked out the blind and saw a police car in the driveway. My first thought was "he must have done something on the way to school" But I can't imagine why I thought that. You weren't that type of kid. You would neve vandalize, smoke or hurt anybody but that's what I thought as I RAN down stairs.When I opened the door the police woman asked if I had a son named Christopher Kempa? I replied ,"yes" fully expecting her to say "well Mam, he's in the back of the car and he's done........ But instead she said "he's been in an accident." I screamed "Is he hurt" and she replied "well he's been struck!" I was not expecting that response and those words stung more than any other I'd ever heard. I raced upstairs , told Dad and Adam , My God, Chris has been hit by a car! Adam and I dressed in 2 seconds and were back with the police woman.She said she'd "escort us to the scene". We were following in Adam's car and when she got to Berwick and West Chicago she stopped! I was frantic!I jumped out of the car and screamed at her "WHAT ARE YOU DOING!" She told me they were taking you to St. Mary's and to go there. I told Adam "forget that, go down West Chicago." I wanted to go to the ambulance.She then must have sensed what we were doing and blocked West Chicago with her car and waved us down Auburndale...... That's when i knew it was BAD. She didn't want me to see my baby splattered in the road. The whole ride to the hospital I was hysterical. I kept saying It's bad , I know it's bad" Adam was very comforting and kept saying ,"now Mom you don't know that" But I did. I didn't think you had been killed but I pictured a life flight to U.of M, a coma and a long bed vigil But I didn't know you were already gone.

When we got to the hospital you weren't there yet which gave me another reason to believe they just didn't want me at the scene because you were so bad. As we waitsd the first thing we had to do was produce that prescious Insurance card which I thought was pretty tacky. They could have waited until after you were pronounced! After what seemed like hours but was most likely only a few minutes a Doctor came out and took us outside the room you were in. I grabbed both of her hands very tightly and cried "It's very bad isn't it?" She replied that you had had no brain or heart activity since the scene!She took us to the door and I could see they were still doing heart compressions and I thought "why" So I told them to stop. You had been killed. And from that moment on none of us, or our lives would ever be the sane.

They let me in the room before they cleaned you up and many times since I wish they hadn't That look of terror that was frozen on your face in death is etched in my memory forever! I'll never forget your eyes. You had such beautiful eyes but that day they were truly as big as saucers and fillad with terror. I think you knew you would be hit. The expression on your face was just as terrified.And all I could think was my poor baby, I wasn't there for him.Your head was so bloodied it was obvious you had sustained severe head trauma.I wonder if your head hit the truck, hit the pole near where you landed or just hit the ground after he threw you 65 feet. I may never know some of these answers but I'm trying to learn everything i can.....The truth.

I cringe now every time I see a Ford Ranger. White ones are the worst. They are such small vehicles! But I guess if you drive anything carelessly enough and fast enough it can kill.I also cringe when I see a Livonia Fire and Rescue unit and wonder if that's the one that brought my baby to the hospital to be pronounced D.O.A. When I do treatments at work I can hardly bring myself to work with Kerlex. That's the stretchy bandage they wrapped your head with after they cleaned you up. I would guess they had about 4 wrapped around your head but you were bleeding through in the back in about 5 mins! Every time I work with it I have flash backs.

I still don't mourn the past. You had a wonderful life and lived each moment with such enthusiasm! I know you didn't want to leave this earth at this time of your life so I hope you're not having trouble crossing over. I still worry about you every day!I still so mourn the future we will never have together or apart. Right now you'd be driving ME around getting those hours in for your liscense.You would have started computer animation at Career Center.You couldn't wait for that! You would have blown their socks off with your talent!And you'd be involved some how with the new play Peter Pan. You were also looking forward to that. 2002 was going to be such a big year! You graduating from High school, Adam graduating from college! What a party we were planning! We'll still have a party for Adam but it won't be the same. NOTHING WILL EVER BE THE SAME.

We visit the Memorial every day and light candles ,Adam does a wonderful job maintaining the web site, and we keep your memory alive . I tell Adam, "That's all we can do for him now" I still feel like I'm going through the motions rather than living life. I do know a piece of me was killed that day right along with you. I still think about you every minute of every day and miss you as much!I love you so much!
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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I AM AMAZED AT THE INCREDIBLE TALENT EXHIBITED IN TODAY'S DISPLAY OF CHRISTOPHER'S GIFTEDNESS AT THE TENDER AGE OF TWO! WOW! HOW MANY OF US COULD NOW DRAW AS WELL AS CHRIS DREW AS A TODDLER? HOW WONDERFUL TO HAVE THESE EARLY WORKS OF ART. FRAN, YOU ALWAYS KNEW HE WAS A GENIUS DIDN'T YOU? Love, Kathy
KATHY <MSKATEP@AOL.COM>
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i went to the jones soda website and it looks fairly easy to get a picture considered. i'm going to email them with the idea (which is an awesome one) and forward the response. i think one of the self-portraits would be nice.
me
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We should get Chris' artwork on a Jones soda label.
not important
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I see your parents up at the memorial a lot...twice today, and it kills me everytime. The other day someone asked me if I had ever had a friend or someone who made me feel like I wasn't whole when they weren't around. I then proceeded to go into this long, drawn out poetic description of our friendship. And...when I read over it, I realized that it wasn't even that I felt like a part of me was missing..it was missing. Nothing can ever replace that part of my heart where I held all of our conversations and nights on the phone and hopes of us writing music together...we always talked about it, but never really acted....I wish we would have. everything we did do is still in my heart...I only wish that you were still here so that we could share more together, and realize our dreams together. sometimes I don't think that they were dreams...but realities that hadn't occured yet..we would have made them happen. Love, me
Me <->
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having met adam kempa a few times and exchanging a few pleasantries, i regret not getting to know him better, and therefore, possibly getting to know his younger brother chris. my sympathies to all of you who knew him, i know the pain that loss can bring. make absolutely certain that your loved ones know that that's what they are : LOVED. life's too short, otherwise.
stephen cramer <stephencramer@yahoo.com>
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hey, i never met chris but i just want to say it's absolutely heart-breaking to see someone who was so obviously amazingly talented and a beautiful person to be taken away so tragically and so young. it's obvious he will be missed. rest in peace chris. x
barny <barny@accident-prone.com>
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s t a i n i n g

his paint stains my mind
he paints my mind with his stain
light brown & weezer blue & flesh colored
paints cover me.

in his death he stains me
more than life
his words not with harsh black ink but
gentleness stain me softly
when i close my eyes because
i hear them see them know them.

he stained the world:
paint words hopes blood
soaked up by the earth

and now he stains the silent sky.
an afflicted poet.
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I just wanted to say hi chris. I miss you so much. my heart is bleeding. you are the greatest person I ever met. I wrote a scprit the other day, and all I wanna do is film it with you! days are getting harder and harder. with love... S. A.
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Chris: I vividly remember you as a 1-year old toddler. Shortly after your first birthday, you came to visit us in our new house in Lancaster, PA with Mom, Adam William, Aunt Molly, and your grandparents, Bill and Joan. You were a real showman that summer. We were so amazed at your personality. Cousin Joan was two, and the two of you played for hours and hours. I still can replay those days in my memories. This first birthday picture reminded me so much of those days and what an absolutely beautiful baby you were. God blessed your mom with two very precious sons. Each day I pray for her to find comfort and peace in her beautiful memories of you. Nobody else knows the extent of her sorrow but God.
Kathy <mskatep@aol.com>
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Chris, I just got back from my trip from Toronto! I know you would have been the first one to call me when i got home and asked me about it! We went to several different places but the best of it all was the Art Museum! I imagined all your art being put up in Museums! I believe it all should be! At times i found myself crying next to a piece just imaging you there sitting next to me admiring it way more than anyone could! Well to make a long story short i was just saying Hi and wanted to say that i Love you and Miss you more and more everyday! Love always,Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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Thank you to Chris' friends and family for sharing his art with us all. What a talent... what a tragedy. I am touched beyond words.
K
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Dear Chris,

I didn't know you but I've known and worked with your Mom for some years now,and as a result I felt like I knew you well! You and your brother were about all she talked about! You could tell just by the way she looked when she spoke how much she loved you both and how proud she was. She said on occassion ,Adam was her "student" and Chris was her "artist". She never bragged or elaborated though. My God was I surprised at your wake to see all of your talent showcased, You truly were an artist. I thought she just meant you liked to draw!

It's hard to guess why God would let such a tragedy happen. You had to die a horrible death and at such a young age. You barely had a chance to live. I can only hope you are indeed in a better place and all your dreams are coming true. Your Mom is a changed person. She is still kind and caring to her patients. Many of us believe she is the best nurse in the building. You can tell however her heart and spirit have been broken. Her quick wit and smile have been replaced with such a sad, somber look.I pray every day God and you will help her heal. Some of us notice her crying at times when she thinks no one is around. When we approach her she says, "I just can't shake the thought of my son" She will never be able to shake the thought of you as long as she lives but I pray with time the thoughts will all be happy and not so painful. She is such a good woman she did not deserve this tragedy and God knows neither did you.
A Friend
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hi chris......everyone! i just found out about this site from courtney windgate, what a wonderful thing!! i did not know chris that well, but i knew people who loved him very much. and it pains me so much to see so many people hurt by this horrible tragedy! i'm so sorry
Jarod Robert <Nakedcrow@webtv.net>
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My thoughts and prayers will always continously be with Chris and his family. Chris will be missed forever and always by all. I find it so hard to understand why Chris was taken from us. I remember a friend of mine once told me that sometimes God takes the people we love from us because needs more good angles up in heaven to help out with the bad. So we all know Chris has become "good angle" up in heaven now, doing all he ever dreamed of.Even though he is not with us, he will forever be in our hearts giving us light, direction, and strength. We love you and miss you Chris. Love Always, Rachel Bracey
Rachel Bracey <Raemb92880@aol.com>
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I am not even sure what to say. I visit this site everyday. I did not know Chris personaly, but had the pleasure of at least meeting him once or twice. I meet him through one of his real close friends, who has now became one of my closest friends. He talked about him everyday and told me all these stories about how long they had been friends and all the fun stuff they got to together. I could not imagin what it would be like to loose a family member or friend. The thought makes my heart ache with pain and fear.My heart goes to Family and friends. We all know Chris is in a wonderful place now and fulfilling all of his dreams. Every night I say a prayer for my family and friends, Chris is now added to my thoughts and I tell him to watch out for his loved ones. To protect them and to care, that is his job as an angel. I wish I would of met Chris sooner. To be able to become a friend to him. By the words and thoughts I have heard from close friends, he was just WONDERFUL. Amazing, and such a CARING person. I know your up there and you will always be looking down on those who need it most. You are loved and missed everyday,always.
BLB
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"My Gift To You" I leave my thoughts, my laughter, my dreams To you whom I have treasured Beyond gold and precious gems. Give you what no thief can steal, The memories of our times together And the roads we have walked side by side I also leave you a solemn promise That after I am home in the bosom of God, I will still be present, Whenever and wherever you call on me My energy will be drawn to you, By the magnet of our love. Whenever you are in need, call me; I will come to you, With my arms full of wisdom and light To open up your blocked paths, To untangle your knots An to be your avenue to God. And all I take with me as I leave Is your love and the millions of memories Of all that we have shared. So I truly enter my new life As a millionaire. Fear not nor grieve at my departure, You, whom I have loved so much, For my roots and yours Are forever intertwined Fran, If Chris could leave you a message, I'm sure it would read something like this. Don't ever give up hope that one day he will come to you in your dreams. Know in your heart Chris is with you always. Nancy
Nancy
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I remember when Chris went up north to KC's cottage this summer. Chris and I would talk on the phone and online all night during the summer, and we were bummed because he would be gone something like 10 days and we would have to go without talking to eachother, even though we didn't talk about much important things and we argued about dumb things. But, I guess what I found from mine and Chris's friendship is that...you know you have a great friendship with a person, If you can argue with them one second, and think nothing of it the next. We never thought anything of our arguments, because usually we just did it for the sake of an arguement, nothing more. So, he went to KC's, and about two days later I get an e-mail from Chris. I was suprised because I didn't expect to hear from him for another 8 days or so...I read it, and Chris had called his mom and had her write to me. From that day Chris and I wrote e-mails back and fourth through Mrs. Kempa. It meant a lot to me because it sort of told me that he missed our stupid conversations about the joys of finger painting, or some band that he wanted me to check out, I know I do. Those conversations that think have no points are the ones that you cherish later.
Cori
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Thank you for who ever put the picture of Chris up today at the Cottage! That was one of my fondist memories! Everyday we would walk down like a mile to go to this party store place it was so much fun especially with Chris! Thanks again! Chris, remember that day you were so happy to be up there at least thats what you told me! Love you and miss you more than ever!!! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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1/8/01 - Wow. I remember that sunquist boat. that picture reminds me of so much in Port Huron. and In the Kempa's swiming pool. I can remember when chris and I were little and we used to pretend like we were in the ocean (in his pool with the sunquist boat) stranded and we were looking for land...Well of course we would find land and pretend to sail to it. Then we would buil a fort out of his picnic tables and chairs, and then cover the top with towels. then we would just habg out there talking about everything till is got dark. when the mosquitoes started eating us up. we'd go on his computer, and just create whatever would come to mind. Port Huron was so much fun too. I loved going there with chris and the rest of the family. We swam like fishes down there. man o man that was fun. I can remember we started this comic book called "Glad!" I was kinda of a take of of Mad magazine. Do ya remember that chris? I think we mad so 20 of them in the series. In our rooms, (In the Cottage) there was an colset with a desk inside of it. We drew the comic in there. When we new it was gonna be are last year comming up. we wrote our names in the colset with the glad characters. I remember another thing we did. on the beach we dug a big hole and put water into it and this guy cought a fish and let us have it, so we but it in the hole with water. Then we have an idea to make a little pond. so we made it bigger and cooler, and cought minnows and put them in there. I also remember going into town there and going to the candy shop. we got so much candy. We made our theeth rotten! ha...oh man. those were some fun times were'nt they Chris? Well love you lots. those were the day... Scott Allen
scott allen
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Chris, Not a day goes by that I don't stop to think about what has happened to you, and I feel such regret for never telling you what an amazing person you really were. You were a great friend, and I will always remember eating lunch with you on the couch in the art room. You made me listen to your music, in hopes that I would change my mind from the stuff that I liked to listen to. I still have every one of the emails that you sent me, and I will never let them go. I miss you so much, Chris...I hope that you know that you are forever in my heart, mind and thoughts.
Tracy <CheshireCat354@excite.com>
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Looking at the picture today of Adam and Chris in the boats at Port Huron brought back awesome memories. We always enjoyed our visits with our family at the lake. Our fondest memories are of Chris always making us sit for him so he could sketch one of us. What talent!!! How sad that this can not continue. Those were some fun summer days. Let's hold on to those wonderful memories, and remember the happy times. Adam, Fran, and Adam, we love you!
JoAnne, Bill, and Billy <jgvpri@aol.com>
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Hi, I can't say that I personally knew Chris. But as many others, I knew of him through his outstanding art work! I also know many that has known him and have yet to meet someone who has anything bad to say about this wonderful individual who now will live on through his art & memories. I visit this page often and thought it was about time that I leave a message. I saw the movie "City of Angels" today and it reminded me of Chris. I know he is here looking after his family and friends. I wish there is something that I could say to help ease the pain that the Kempa family and friends must be feeling. I saw Mr. & Mrs. Kempa at Franklin's art show a month ago and to see them there without Chris to show them his great art broke my heart, as well as the hearts of many others! It is unbelievable how true it is that someone's life can change in the matter of a second...or how many lives someone's carelessness could impact. I don't know what I would do without my younger sister @ my birthday's, holidays or without someone to pick on. I hope every day that you can find a way to get through, not over, this tragic loss that has truly affected so many!
Anonymous
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i don't know him but i think i would have liked him. i'm sorry, chris.
meredith <datura@fighterchick.net>
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The picture for today (January 7th) was a prototype for a comic book me and Chris started working on this summer. When the X-Men movie came out me and Chris got into reading comics again for a few weeks and we decided we could do our own book. I was writing it and Chris was going to be drawing it. He asked me what I thought the main character in the book should look like and I gave him a few ideas of what I had in mind. The next day he showed up at my house with this picture on a nice canvas all inked out. I was totally expecting him just to draw something really rough with pencil on a scrap piece of paper but of course he went a lot further than that. Anyways I couldnt believe he had took that much time and his drawing inspired me to get going and I wrote the first 2 comic books all out and Chris stopped by the next day and read them and approved. I think we both ended up going up north a few days later and the idea just sort of got lost in the shuffle, he'd bring it back up from time to time but then school started back up for both of us and we had never gotten back around to working on it. Anyways at least we got the beginning of a rather neat elaborate story done and this great piece done and who knows he probally did draw some other characters that are floating around somewhere. I dont know I just have always really liked this drawing, its something we did together. I'm sure a lot of you who read this page did something with Chris too maybe a movie together, or working on a play, or some own little drawings you did together with him in art class that probally has the same type of attachment to you as this drawing does to me.
Rich <valhallaent@aol.com>
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i still love you, Chris
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Thanks for this BEAUTIFUL baby picture of Chris. I can still see this charming little baby self in my mind's eye. Chris, all life's tests are over now that you're in heaven...school is out for you, for there's no more worrying, suffering, sorrow, or pain to be tested with. Yet we who remain, especially my dear sister, are now being given the biggest test of life...coping with your empty chair at the table, your empty seat in class, your empty bedroom and all the many other missing things that cause this chronic empty, painful void. I know you are in heaven and eternally safe and secure, so my prayers are for those left behind.
Kathy <MsKateP@aol.com>
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Chris, I thought people said it was going to get easier? I would love to know when this is going to happen because so far it just keeps getting worse! Knowing that your gone, Knowing tha I'm never going to see you smile again is so painful! I miss you so much! I love you Chris, my prayers are with you! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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I MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!
A GOOD FRIEND
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hey chris!! happy new years. how is the party up in heaven. its ok down here except your gone. i have your xmas present but i havent been able to give it to you. ill give it to your mom or dad or adam. its a magnet that has this kewl thing on it. well chris, its so hard with that empty hole in my life and in my heart. its hard to go on and sometimes i wish i was in heaven with u so i dont have to lose ne1 else. i miss u chris kempa and i love u. u will be in my heart forever. until we meet agin keep it rockin -j-
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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My Dear Sweet Chris,

Adam turned 21 today! You were so excited to have a big brother who would be "all grown up" You couldn't wait, you said, "by then I'll have my learners permit.... he can help teach me to drive!"Every year for the last sixteen years, since you were seven months old and he turned five the one he wanted right next to him at cake time was his little brother...you. Not Mom or Dad he wanted you there. In many of the pictures you're smiling bigger than he was .You were so happy to be there!This year at cake time I told Adam he HAS to have some friends in or we don't do the cake. That would be so sad if just Dad and I sang to him it would be too hard.One more glaring reminder of the huge void in our lives and the constant ache in our hearts.

Some people have asked me why I say you were killed. Why not just say he died? I simply reply "I say it because he was." When you die, your body gives out from illness or age. You were 16 and had never really been sick a day in your life. The only reason you are no longer here with us is a man in a great hurry was not watching the road and killed you with his father's white pickup truck. As the one eyewittness I spoke to said,"he had to have been otherwise distracted not to have seen him." They all saw you and remained stopped to let you take those last few steps to safety. But unfortunatly that man was in too much of a hurry for you to take two more steps. SO he swerved around the stopped cars,gunned it and killed you . I wonder what he WAS

doing at that time too.Surely not looking where he was going! And did he ever get nowhere fast!

Many of your friends have been E mailing me and coming to visit. Ron and Rich came by the other day,Lauren stopped by yesterday. Scott came by New Years night and Nate and Zack Storey on Christmas Eve. I went to lunch with Cori Tues. We went to Buddy's and ordered the same thing...Turkey pita!We cried a little, laughed alittle and talked a lot!We talked about the new play auditions.I think you were even considering maybe trying the other side of the camera for a change! I hope you're acting in heaven.It's not fair because I feel you can see me and know what I'm doing but I don't know what you're doing.....and I want to so badly!

Adam picked up all your art work from Franklin yesterday. That was so sad to come home to. knowing it will never be displayed or exhibited in competition again....What a waste! We will proudly exhibit it all over the house!Adam said Mr. Rheault is making a plaque for the art room in your memory. That made me feel so good! You'll never be forgotten there!

Adam and I still haven't had the strength to tackle your room. He wants to just clean it {you were pretty sloppy Chris!} and leave it your room for awhile which is fine with me.We do go in it just about every day though and poke around. Every time we do,we find something new. Yesterday I found your drivers ed folder with all the work I helped you with the night before you were killed. I also found your driving appointment card. The first one you kept the Thurs. before you were killed. The second one was for Wed. the 22nd two days after you were killed and the last one was for the day of your funeral. That was so sad!!

Be with us at cake time tonight Chris We will all be missing you so much. I love you!
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Well it's Adam's birthday today. I am so sorry that you couldn't be hear to see him hit 21 years of age. I know that you are watching. Happy Birthday Adam. Ron
Ron Quinkert <pizzaQ1@aol.com>
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It was so good to hear your voice the other night Fran. I think this is a great web site. Adam has done a great job. You know you are in my thoughts everyday. Chris will never be forgotten. love to you all Caroline
Caroline <carol50395>
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Adam- this is a great tribute to your brother and I'm totally sure that he appreciates it. He was a great guy and he is missed everyday in school and in our hearts. Thanks for the card and have a happy new year. All my love- Ashley
Ashley <xoashleyxo03@yahoo.com>
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Dear Adam, we just wanted to wish you a happy birthday. We know it won't be a happy one without your brother. He will be with you though, we hope you know that. We are with you in thoughts and prayer. All our love honey!
Auant JoAnne, Uncle Bill, and cousin Bill <jgvpri@aol.com>
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I never really had the chance to get to know you Chris. I watched the video that your mom mailed my mom on Christmas. You had so much talent. I can't tell you how impressed I was. It is amazing how we can be related, but never really had the opportunity to get to know each other. Grandma's death brought us all together and gave us one last chance to get to know you a little better. Now you are with her and grandpa in heaven. I hope that it is as wonderful there as we all imagine. I am praying for your mom, dad, and Adam everyday. Love, Kristin
Kristin <kris_stroh@yahoo.com>
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Dear Fran and family, you have been in my thoughts and prayers since that terrible day in November. My heart aches for you -the pain must be at times unbearable. What an awesome website -you were truly blessed with a wonderful son-Please know I think of you often Fran. Love, Rose Z.
rose z. <rz8988@mediaone.net>
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Chris, I miss you so much. I now understand what your mom ment about good days and bad days. Of course there always going to be bad days knowing that your gone but today was a terrible day. Everything i did today reminded me of you! Now thats not a bad thing but knowing we won't be able to share anymore memorys makes it hard. I went over the letter/card your mom sent to me, several times. I cryed, I cryed for a long time. Its so hard living somewhere away from the people who loved you most! I see people all the time laughing and joking and its been really hard to do that since your death! My friends can't even help me they havn't had to cope or deal with something like this before and to tell you the truth i havn't either. Also they have never been in love like the kind of love i have for you! I'm glad i wrote to you today. It makes me feel alot better knowing that you listen! Chris you are my shinig star and no matter where you or I are I know you'll always be there to guide me! I miss you so much (don't forget that k!) I will write again soon! Love you, Ginny!!!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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Dear Sweet Chris,

I had to go to the grocery store today after work to buy the cake mix for Adam's birthday cake. I know you will remember him tomorrow and be with him in spirit. He misses you sooo much! As we all do. Such an enormous empty space. One of the main pieces to this family puzzle is gone and will never be found again.

While I was in Farmer Jack {it's still too hard to go to Foodland, I have been there once since you were killed and I found it was too soon} That song from A League of Their Own came on. The Carole King song,Now and Forever. Remember? That was one of "our songs" that I used to play over and over as I drove you all about. You would never admit it to your friends but you liked it too! Remember we used to SING it!I knew I REALLY liked the song for years but I never dreamed it would have such meaning in my life! The part where the words go," We are the lucky ones, some people never get to do all we got to do, now and forever I will always think of you".That reminded me of one of your friends at your wake. She came up to me VERY tearfully and said, "You were SO lucky to have been his mother!" I had always felt I had two woderful sons and I had to agree with her. I just wish it hadn't ended prematurly! Always on my mind, always in my heart! I'll see what tomorrow brings and maybe write again. I love you.
Mom <Notfranny>
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The loss of a child is a terrible thing. I mourn your loss. Your son has truley touched this world through his art, a legacy that will live on beyond our own lives on this earth. Chris was a gifted artist to be sure. Please know that if there is anything that I can do to ease your pain, do not hesitate to contact me.
Charles Washington <ccbwash@cs.com>
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Yet another day goes by...and I can't help but think of you. And I have so many regrets. I bet you don't even think I cared. Did you even know I thought of you as a friend? I never answered your last Email, where you wondered why I haven't responded to your last Email before that...I don't know why I didn't. I'm so sorry, Chris. I wish we could have hung out like you wanted to...so you could show me your techno CD. I wish I could have spent more timw with you. I'm sorry...
Autumn <OrangeBlueberry@yahoo.com>
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I love all the HAPPY DAY pictures. Today's is precious. THanks for doing this. You guys are at the top of my daily prayer list. LOVE, Kathy
Kathy <mskatep@aol.com>
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I would just like everyone to know the signal at Merriman and West Chicago is ONCE AGAIN MALFUNCTIONING! We were up at the memorial lighting candles this evening{1/3/01} and noticed, just as the last time the little white cross man is not lighting up. We video taped it again and notified the Livonia police. Hopefully it won't take four days to fix THIS time. This is the third time THAT WE KNOW OF since Chris was killed six weeks ago the light has malfunctioned. You can't tell me there isn't a big problem here. No one will ever convince me that light was working properly that morning as he crossed.No one was there crossing with him and unfortunatly he isn't here to tell us.
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Well it seems to be another day. I stopped by your house yesterday. It seemd different. I was there to return some cd's you let my sister borrow ,but you weren't there. I guess Chris it really isn't fair. Life isn't fair. Is anything fair these days. I remember how you wanted to go to Flint and meet this one girl you met online. It was actually this summer. My mom of course would not let me go. I remember you talking about moving to New York and living in an apartment there and you saying that I could come out and spend the summer there. I am really going to miss going to New York now. I don't know what else there is to say accept for goodbye and I'll see you later. Thug Life.....
Ron Quinkert <PizzaQ1@aol.com>
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Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond's gift of snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I an the autumn's gentle rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush, I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there-I did not die. Happy New Year Chris...I will never forget you. Take care of DBH for me...you guys would really get along. Make sure to keep him out of trouble up there in heaven! I love you and miss you so much. To the Kempa's...know that you are thought of daily. We are all praying for you and wishing you some happiness and relief. Love always, Michele
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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I have had people tell me that I write too much. Also that I leave to many messages in this praticular guest book! You can't say you write to much or read to much or anything to that sort. It's kind of like art and you can never ever in a million years have to much art, thats on of Chris's amazing philosophies! Mrs. Kempa i got your letter today! i cryed for a long time and still am! i thank you very much for the photo and i will take you up on that offer of stoping by! I'm thrilled that Chris actually did like the necklaces i made and I'm even more thrilled that Mr. Kempa and Adam wear them now! Thanx again for the letter! Chris i love you very much and miss you more than ever! Ginny!
Virginia Moshos
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Hi Chris! For some silly reason I woke up this morning and I felt compelled to write you. I just wanted to say hi and tell you how much I am missing you! You accepted me and never made me feel out of place thank you!I will always remember the drawing fun at Pizza Hut in Strattford! I love you kiddo! "Stars are supposed to guied us when we lose our way." You are my star Chris!!!!! Love Always Erin
Erin Powell <eringrl2001@yahoo.com>
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Happy New Year Chris! This year when the clock hit 12:00 midnight I looked up in the sky at the stars to see yours shining bright!! I bet yor having the time of your life up there in heaven with eveyone, and all your dreams are coming true! Even though I know this year will not be the same without you, I will be okay because I know that whenever I start getting sad I can look up into the sky and talk to you! I miss you
chrissy B <pompon03star@netscape.net>
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darn back to shool tomorrow christmas break is already over! I love you chris and miss you very very much
chissy
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Hi Chris - I know I said it when I talked to you yesterday, but I want you to know, again, how much I appreciate having you & Gramma Missert to talk to in heaven. I couldn't tell anyone else but you two why I cried so hard last Saturday night. Everyone else would have thought I was being silly if they knew my reason.......but you didn't. And, as usual, after I talked to you, I didn't feel so sad anymore. I know you don't laugh at me when I come to you with my problems. Thanks for listening, Chris, and please don't ever stop !! Like I said yesterday, HAPPY NEW YEAR & please give Gramma a New Year's hug from me. I love you very much !!! Aunt Molly
Molly <MEVaughan@AOl.com>
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i didn't know chris for a long time but i know that he was a great person and i will miss him very much
Ashley Mack <ash587@aol.com>
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I know I'm a little late. I wanted to write sooner but you know how my Aunt (Mrs. Mack) doesn't have the internet. I came to Livonia as usual for New Years and was thinking of you the whole time! It was as sad as ever!!! You probably didn't notice little old me sittin out on the back deck where you and i spent many wonderful days! I was looking for the biggest most beutiful star knowing it would be you also Praying as usual. Who knows maybe you did see me? I can now say i miss you more than ever! I love you and miss you so much Chris and hope you miss me just the same! Love always, Ginny!
Virginia Moshos <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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It has taken me a while to be able to say "merry christmas","happy new year" to you .but i know you are celebrating them with everyone, somedays i feel like you are here and when i cry you are the one that stops my tears and makes me think of the great things you have done with your life. It makes me feel better when i think about this great tribute to you and how many people care and think the world of you.i like how people have been comparing you to an angel, because you are and you always have been i know you are here still here because when i am thinking about you i just know deep in my heart that i will see you again one day thank you adam for this wonderful site. love lori boros
lori <pragmatize@aol>
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I'm an old friend of Adam's back from elementary school. I never knew Chris, but I wanted to share my condolences with Adam and the rest of the family.
Mark Sgriccia <msgricci@umich.edu>
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"Move on, be brave Don't weep at my grave Because I am no longer here But please never let Your memory of me disappear"
A friend
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Well, i dont know exactly what i could say. All i know is that i miss you very much. I'm glad that i had the chance to know and the chance to spend time with you . I think to myself that i am lucky to have a friend like you. Anyone would be priveledged to have a friend like you. I still remember all of the things that we did together from the computer to the music to the videos and just hanging out and watching dvd with you. I will remember you for the rest of my days. Miss you and i will see you later. Ron Q
Ron Quinkert <pizzaq1@aol.com>
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Chris - I didn't know you but have heard a lot of good things about you. This is such a sad story without an ending. It saddens me any time I see your mom - the pain she must be going thru - I can't even start to imagine. I only hope that somewhere in our lives, there is a reason for what has happened to you. Maybe, a lot of kids will realize that they are vulnerable, after all. I have seen that you touched many lives and my only hope is that all of us can someday leave a legacy such as yours. To your loving family - just remember that you are not alone - you have your own angel watching over you. I only wish that I could think of the right thing to say but there never is - take care and know that you are loved!
A Mom
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I visit this site every day and I must say what a tribute to a fine young man. I have known the Kempa family for most of my life. My brother is best friends with Adam. When my mom called to tell me what happened that day in November, I broke down in tears. You always hear stories like this but always hope you don't know them. Well this time was diferent, I used to babysit for Chris and he was always my favorite. I have been gone from the Neighborhood for a few years, but when ever I saw Chris he was so genuine, he really cared about everyone. To the Kempa's I hope that you know how much I love you all and that I pray for you every night. To Adam always remember that you have so many friends that love and care about you. To Chris, I hope that your holidays in heaven have been great. I know that you look down over all of us and keep us safe. I will never forget you and will love you always.
Jill Sandulowich <Jlsandul@aol.com>
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It's New Years Day Chris! I hope if there is one in heaven it's been your best ever! For some reason New Years hit us harder than Christmas. At the stroke of 12:00 Adam's friends were in the basement and Dad, Adam and I were upstairs very emotional for a long time. I think it's because of the idea of ... a new year. A fresh start, the beginning of one more year of your life. And it hit us very hard last night that that no longer applies to you.

It's been six weeks now since you were killed. In those six weeks we have had to endure three major holidays, Dads Birthday and now coming up on Friday Adam's Birthday.....all without you. This has not helped the griving or healing process. If anything it's only made it that much more painful.

You have no idea how many times I've wished I could go bak to 11/20. I wish I'd driven you that morning, I wish I didn't keep the clocks downstairs five minutes fast, I wish I never told you to ALWAYS cross at that corner because it was SAFER, I wish the man who killed you was sick that morning so he wasn't in such a rush, I wish he'd taken a different route etc., etc.But I know no matter how hard I wish or how many times IT WON"T CHANGE ANYTHING! There's no rewind button on life. So I'm hoping now that the holidays and birthdays are drawing to an end it will give us chance to sit back and try to figure out our life without you.

I know you're in a better place doing the most wonderful things. Please help us and make us strong! I love You and miss you more.
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Just to let you know how sweet today's 01-01-01 drawing and Happy Day picture is. Chris' star was certainly shining bright last night, watching over us and keeping all safe. Hoping he had a great Rockin' New Years Eve in heaven with all who have gone before us. Who knows, maybe they are still jammin' into today. You know how those jam sessions go! Wish we could have been there. Much better than the Dick Clark version.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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As this new year begins, I wanted to tell you my thoughts remain with you all. We thought of Chris at midnight, and wished him peace and happiness forever. I also wanted to tell you that I was happy to see the cousins picture posted today. That was a very happy time...you can see the smiles on their faces. I am so glad we all had that opportunity in August to be together for such a special occasion..Mom and Dad's 50th anniversary. Chris was the best picture taker and videographer...no surprise at all with all of the talents he posessed. I hope your days find some peace, and that Chris lets you know he is still with you all. Happy New Year to my sister and her family...Love, your brother
Bill <wtvjr0527@aol.com>
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This is our third “holiday” since Chris died. The silence is deafening. The hole in our hearts and lives is enormous. Happy New Year Chris! DAD
A Kempa <afk49@aol.com>
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I visit this site every day and walk away amazed at the out pouring love and support of those who have written. Adam, this is truly a wonderful tribute to your brother, and I thank you for putting it together. You know i am very proud of you, hold you dear to my heart and want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you. As i read the messages, a zillion thoughts go through my head. It seems like nothing I can say, can really measure up to how i really feel. What do you say to a family that you have known since my oldest was 5 and my youngest 18 months old. The memories we have shared are far to great to list. I first met Fran on Ryans first day of kindergarden. He was afraid to enter the classroom and Fran happened to be standing outside. How easy she made us feel. She was standing there, don with stroller and motioned Adam to come over. I also had a stroller and we commented on having two boys the same ages. From that moment on, our families became friends. It's uncanny how similiar our families are. I've never met anyone that had so many of the same interest. The frienship Scott and Chris and Ryan and Adam have developed is truly remarkable. Fran and I shared babysitting rsponsibilities as we took on part-time jobs. 2 to 3 days a week her boys would come to my house and 2-3 days a week my boys would come to hers. There was never a day I did not look forward to having them. Chris and Scott were constantly creating something. One project that comes to mind is the comic book GLAD they made(a takeoff of MAD magazine) Another favorite was making figures out of clay, painting them then making them come alive through film. As I sit and reminise the memories, i have to say Chris, as well as Adam was always sweet, polite, and truly a joy to have in my home. I have to say that once in awhile Scott and Chris would butt heads but they were really more like brothers and the bond that forms between friends like this is truly hard to break. So....what do you say to someone that you have shared so much with. Sorry just does not seem to be enough!! I can only say, I will be there for you, continue to call, stop by and listen. I will never ever forget you Chris. You will always be with me. As this year comes to an end, and 2001 begins, I pray that you, my dear friend Fran, Adam, and Adam, find the strength to get through this. Chris, if you could please, please, please give your family one sign it would truly help. I will miss the traditions we have developed and the exuberence of my sons best friend. I only hope that we have been as good of friends to you, as you have been to us.
Claudia Allen <CLU455>
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Happy New Year Chris!!

Wow! 2001..... you thought that would be so cool... " a space odyssey" you always said. It also would have continued the odyssey of what was to be your life but that can never be now.I've never seen the movie Field of Dreams. I know you saw it several times.I caught the very end on Christmas night when Kevin Costner asks his father,"is there really a heaven?" or something like that.His father replies ," yes,it's where your dreams come true!" You had such BIG dreams!! You must be having the most wonderful time!

I never pictured myself in the role of grieving mother. Grieving daughter, grieving wife and yes even greiving pet owner....but never mother. It's such a difficult role and it comes unscripted. Talk about living one day at a time!Once in a while I'll have "a good day", where the ache in my heart isn't so intense and I don't cry so long. I think to myself,"maybe I'm getting the hang of this" Then the next two days are awful again. I take one small step forward then two giant steps back.I don't know why we were chosen for this role but I have to believe there was a reason. You were needed for bigger and better things.

As you can imagine since you were killed we've heard every philosophy on death and dying. The one that has given us some comfort and the one we've chosen to hold on to right now is : your length of time on earth is predetermined at birth. That would explain so much! It's as if you knew but didn't. Maybe that's why you were always moving, always creating something or other.You even moved excessivly in your sleep! Some how maybe you knew your time was short.. not consciously of course.

I'm having lunch with Cori On Tues. I know you would like that. You know you will be the main topic of conversation. I'm just curious what hopes and dreams you shared with her. I'm sure you know I gave her the card you made for her and were going to give her at school on 11/20. It was still in your school bag when the police brought it to the house that morning. I also gave her an 8x10 picture and a nice big plant from the funeral.

I am glad to see 2000 come to an end. It will go down as definatly the worst year of my life. Ironically, until you were killed it had been the best year of yours! As long as I live nothing will compare to this tragedy. Help me get stronger Chris.Look down on us all and watch over us.I will miss you and love you for a lifetime!
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Happy New Year Chris!!! I hope spending the New Year in heaven will be great! Even though starting the year 2001 won't be the same without you. Still my thoughts and prayers are with your family Chris. I'll be looking at the night sky when the clock hits 12:00 hoping to see your star shinning bright in the night sky! Have a vary Happy New Year Chris and everybody else!!! Always thinking about you, Katie
Katie B. <Nightdreamer9928@aol.com>
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Happy New Years Eve eveyone. When the clock strikes midnight tonight, take comfort in the thought that Chris is looking down on all of us, celebrating the new year. So while you are ringing in the new year, take a look up into the heavens and wish Chris a Happy New Year as well.
cori <curcusenvy@aol.com>
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Mrs. Kempa, The Happy Day picture is so brightening. Please keep them coming if you feel up to sharing them with those of us who didn't know Chris as well as others. I think it is a wonderful addition to this website.
MCS <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Chris- My grandpa lost his fight with cancer this morning. I know you never met him but since he's the new kid up there do me a favor and show him around. Miss you, happy new year Chris.
Cyndi <mablegf@aol.com>
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I didn't know chris at all, but I have heard such wonderful things about him. My brother speeks so highly of him, and all his accomplishments. He showed me this web site, and I am so impressed with all of his art work. I can probably only begin to imagine how nice it was to have had the chance to get to know him. My prayers are with his family and friends.
Emily
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WOW! what can I say. First off this is a wonderful thing to do, and I also know that Chris knows how much we all loved him. I knew Chris through my best friends Scott, Robin, and Kristen, I knew him through school, and his skating. He was truly a person anyone would be proud to consider a friend, of which I am. I no longer live in Livonia, and moved away in the 8th grade. Maybe my disattachment from Livonia makes this easier, but I'll never know. Often I wish to be with my friends to talk to them, and reminesce of the times we all had together, and at the same time I know that would only make things more difficult. But things often happen for what seems like no reason. I view it as Chris being in a way, an angel here for us all, who was only visiting. But when you become so accustomed to a visitor it is very difficult to let them go. My heart and feelings will forever be with the friends I considered family, and those who knew Chris the best. I know wel all miss him more than words can say.
Andy Brooks <toyfeet@hotmail.com>
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Chris...what to say. I knew your brother quite a bit, and through the process, got to know you. I was so astounded by the talent that you possessed when you would show me your artwork on your computer. I couldn't believe that a kid so young could have so much knowledge, creativity, and power inside him. You definitely would have been a famous name known throughout the world. We had so many fun times, going on AOL, playing video games, talking, and working on the Napolean Syndrome movie. I remember when you and Adam got into an arguement about a scene in the lake, and I said that I would handle it. You two always argued, but would always make up. I will always remember Gobot7 until I greet you at the gates of heaven. I know that you are painting the skies to be a bit brighter this winter, and you've helped give us a white christmas. What more of a present could I have wanted from you. You will always be remembered and in my heart. My prayers go out to Mr., Mrs., and Adam Kempa. I love you all.
Jonathan Soronen <iluvanime@excite.com>
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"Chris did not deserve to die" That is what I have been telling myself. Why did he go?...that only God knows. But like everyone has said, we have the memories! Chris, remember when you gave me all those He-Man figures? I remember coming over your house and meeting you for the ffirst time. I remember driving you home from school a few times. I remember talking to you online. I found a picture with you in it the day you started your new and better life. It was Mrs. Hillman putting my "make up" on for the show and you were in the middle background and you were just smiling. It was a perfect example of you. Always happy, watching (wether it be through a lens or not), and content. Your artwork has inspired me tremendously. I never knew that you were so good. You could have acomplished so much here but I know that you have accomplished so much already and will only accomplish more where you are now. You didn't deserve to go man. I wish you could be here with your family. I have so much I would like to share with you. You are such a great person and I can't wait to be up there with you someday and draw with someone who I know I will never compare to in anything I do. To the Kempas- I am sorry. I wish I could say or do something to take it all away. All I can say is that I will keep you in my prayers. Thank you God for sharing Chris with us.
Dave Adams
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i have sat in my room every night since chris's death and cried. I cry constantly. I hope that the man who hit Chris is satisfied with his life right now because he has caused so much pain not just myself but tons of People. Mrs. Kempa if you read this you'll know that i loved your son he was a wonderful person and its my loss that i didn't take him up on his offer (you probably know what im talking about) i just really feel that Chris wouldn't want us to say things bad about the man that hit him but it is really hard to think of anything else when you think of Chris! I have only known the Kempa family for about 6 months but it feels like forever! My prayers are with all of you that miss Chris because i know so many of us do! I love you Chris and miss you terribly! Have a HAPPY NEW YEAR Chris!!! you deserve it!
Virginia
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Hi I just want to ask the guy that hit Chris if he has a clear conscience about the way he killed him. When you stand in front of God what will you tell him about 11-20-00?
FRED F <bufferzone3284@hotmail.com>
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To the man that hit Chris and didn't bother to apologize to his family and I now notice he has a new truck and his life is back in order....I sure hope you can live with yourself. You've sure caused a lot of pain and sadness for a family and entire community...When you roared around those two cars and whizzed right through the intersection and killed him, what were you doing???changing a radio station? lighting a cigarette? chatting on the cell phone? Getting your coffee? Eating your breakfast? ALL OF THE ABOVE? Your heartlessness and lack of remorse is quite appalling.
Ben F <buzzardzbay@aol.com>
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I would just like everyone to know the picture Adam posted today of me and my wonderful sons was taken almost three months to the day Chris was killed. August 26,2000 at my parents 50th Wedding Anniversary party in Buffalo ,New York. That was such a happy day!
Fran Kempa <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Chris, I visit here every day and I see all the fantastic artwork you have created. I am in awe that anyone could have had the talent you do. Im sure the powers that be have you creating the beautiful images we see every day, like sunrises and sunsets, the clouds in the sky, and the breeze which passes by us. You will always be remembered. I hope you have a happy new year and this millenium wouldnt have been the same without you. Keep creating. You do it most excellently.
joe.cwik <joe@joecwik.com>
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Dear Adam, Franny, and Adam: As we approach this new year, it is vey sad to think you will enter it without your son Chris. I can NOT even imagine your pain and sadness. I pray for your angel and you every day, and hope that you find peace in knowing he is in heaven. He is looking down on all of you , and still very much a part of your lives. His spirit lives on. I am having a very hard time wishing you all a "happy" new year, but my wish for you this new year is that you find peace in your lives, and that the good Lord lets you begin to release some of the grief you have carried for so long now. I am thinking of you always, Love...Your sister-in-law, Jo
JoAnne <jgvpri@aol.com>
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Dear Chris, As we end the year 2000, our sadness continues over your death. The holidays were not the same for everyone without your presence. Mu sister, nephew, and brother-in-law's pain was almost too intense to imagine this holiday season. Reading the entries they wrote were very heart-wrenching for us all. As 2001 approaches like a freight train, we don't yet feel very festive. Is New Year's a celebration in heaven? Or is it like any other day? What are the heavenly residents doing ? I know that you were their early Christmas present, so I suppose if there is a 2001 celebration that you'll be a big part of it. Will you be playing music? singing? or painting the skies? Just know that you will always be close to our hearts and loved down here. We don't know when our jobs here on earth will be finished. Only God knows the plans, but between now and then, till we meet again, just remember that we will never forget nor stop loving you. HAPPY NEW YEAR to our dearly loved angel, Christopher Michael Love, Kathy Putnam
AUNT KATHY <MsKateP@aol.com>
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ooooops... i am super tired everyone... i forgot to say that adam was of course included in our beach antics and sorry attempts at football heroics... i'm dumb.
ryan
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today i was thinking about the kempa's cottage in port huron... i'm sure not many of you have been there, but some of my fondest memories of my childhood remain in that place... there was this sorry excuse for a beach (sorry kempa's!) that brad, scott, chris, and myself would goof around on, making mud lakes and throwing rocks at eachother all day... when we were done we'd go and toss the football around on the slanted lawn, fearing any slight slip of the foot would send us tumbling towards the sand... those times i will always hold near and dear to my heart.. but there is one thing i will always remember, involving chris. there was a room sectioned off that was just for us kids... adam and chris would ALWAYS get the beds (no matter how hard i tried to bargain with chris to give his up, the kid would not budge), and the rest of us would take the floor.... there was a small closet that you could just barely walk into with a desk in it... it was called "the art room" or something... scott and chris would busy themselves all hours of the day in that small closet, drawing comics and the like... one night they were both at it hardcore, drawing away, well into bed time... all night long we were yelling "guys! go to bed! stop drawing" but they wouldn't quit... not because they didn't want to, but it was inside them to keep going... that is what art does to the soul... it takes over, and pushes you to finish what you started... thank god chris had that gift... he had the power to build something out of a little spark in a head swimming with sparks. you know, i'm not even sure if that story is 100 percent acurate, but i'd like to think that it is... if there is a god, then there is a hell of a lot of paper and pens and pencils up in heaven at our boy's disposal, and a little art closet of his own, to keep doing justice to those sparks that will go off inside his head forever. chris, i miss you more than you'll ever know.
ryan allen <ryanrawk@hotmail.com>
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Mrs. Kempa, Just to let you know that you and your family have done an incredible job of making wonderful things happen through tragedy and pain. No, you will NEVER "get over it", but you will gain the strength to help you go on. That's the wonderful GIFT that our loved ones leave behind for us - their STRENGTH, because they know they no longer need it, but we do.
Mary Stanczyk <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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Dear Kempas, Though I sat near Chris at lunch sophomore year, I never really got to know him. I do know, however, that he was one of the nicest people you would ever want to meet, just by seeing how many friends he had, and how he interacted with others. I am deeply sorry for your loss, for I know what it is like to lose a loved one. I said a prayer for Chris, as well as the rest of the Kempa family, on and around the holidays. I know that it will never be the same without him, but I hope that some how, some way, everyone can make it through this tragic period. I wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Brandon <Joebob311@aol.com>
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Well i don't know what to say. I have looked at all of the messages every day now since i found out about this web site. It still makes me cry to know that the best part of the Franklin Art department is gone and such a talented musician is gone. I try not to think of what happend, but every day when i step into Franklin it all comes back to me. When i go into third hour and sit down in my set i can still hear the announcet from our principal saying that our beloved Chris has passed on. I drive past the mamorial everyday. It hurts me so much to know that what a wonderful life was taken here in less then a second. I hope that the driver realizes what he has done to our school and Chris's family. He touched so many peoples lifes and has helped in his short lived life. I still remember Chris by one song. Magic by Ben Folds Five. He fits that song perfectly......He is the magic to all of our lifes.
Sean Kavanaugh <TENORMAN!199@hotmail.com>
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I never knew Chris. And I guess if truth be told, I don't really know Adam all too well either. We've worked together for quite some time but we just never got around to that part. That doesn't change the fact that I still feel deep sympathay for the Kempa family and for all who knew Chris. I've been checking this site for a while, looking for some sign that people were starting to do better. I wanted to write something but I didn't feel it was my place, seeing as how I never knew Chris. And then I remembered something. I remembered a movie that Adam told everyone to go see a while ago. Dancer In The Dark. While I try not to relate real life to movies, this movie did have a point. The main character would go to musicials and get up before the last dance was over, before the last song was sung. She never wanted to see the ending. The movie ended with this quote, "They say it's the last dance, but they don't know us. It's only the last dance if we let it be." It made me think of Chris. It's not the last dance, Mrs. Kempa. You will never "get over" the loss of your son, and anyone who asks you to has obviously never lost someone. But I only ask that you find some comfort in this: Chris left before the last song was over. While we would all like to believe that he would have gone on to live a spectacular life, none of us can guarantee that he would have. However, we do know that the life he lived was spectacular. And you, as his family and friends, should find great peace in knowing that you contributed to that. The pain doesn't ever really go away but you do learn how to deal with it. And you learn that life does go on. Chris saved the last dance for you. And you will get a chance to have that dance, when the time comes. With my love, Erin Elise
Erin Elise <Beerose18@aol.com>
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My Dear Angel Son Chris,

We got a letter the other day from the Gift of Life. Thanks to the donation of your eyes two people can now see! A man in East Lansing and a woman in West Bloomfield. Your skin and bones will be used for grafting procedures just as I suspected. I just wish we could have donated more. When the Doctor asked me in the hospital that morning if I'd ever discussed donating your organs with you I thought , "why" he was 16 and healthy as a horse. I never dreamed you'd die. I had however discussed donating MY organs with you . You knew how strongly I felt about it so I knew you wouldn't mind. I didn't realize until then however because that man killed you instantly and you had been without circulation for over 20 mins. your internal organs were useless. What a shame! Anyone would have been so lucky to receive your heart..so big and made of gold!

I want to thank everyone who has left a message in the guestbook. They mean so much to me. They also let me know people are still visiting the site and that makes me feel very good. To the people who are pretty much saying "get over it and move on",I know you mean well and I appreciate your concern but I pray to God you never have to experience the death of a child to learn that's easier said than done. I am told by other parents who have lost children the pain WILL ease. Believe me ,I am looking forward to that day and will welcome it when it comes. They say the grief will last a lifetime. I spoke to a man last evening who had lost his grandson six years ago. His pain is gone but he still cries himself to sleep every night.

I will never "get over it". Every Birthday I'll wonder what he'd look like. I'll alwasys wonder if he would have become the famous artist/special effects movie guy he so much wanted to be. I'll miss him every Mother's Day, and as the years go on I won't just miss him but I'll miss the daughter-in-law and grand children I'll never have.

I don't see how some people can think they could raise such a fine loving talented boy for sixteen years and then just say ,"O.K., he's dead, let's box him up and put him away." I don't see how that's possible. We are trying to make some good come of Chris' death. We donated what organs we could, contributed to the Franklin Art Department, and hope to start a scholarship in his name.We do only think about the good times.But the pain will not go away over night..... the love and emotion will last forever!
Mom
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I visit this site everyday to see all the new artwork that is added...and it brings such pain to my heart to see that such a beautiful person had to leave us. And I always read the guestbook to see each entry added. And it breaks my heart to see the pain that people are suffering from Chris' death. And I wish there was something that could be done to help ease the pain. I bet Chris is thinking the same thing as he watches over us. He wouldn't want any of us to be sad. As dumb as this might sound...try to look at his death as a good thing. Chris is in a better place than here...and soon you will see him again. Then, you can all enjoy total bliss together (...and he can show you all the beautiful artwork he's made while he's been in heaven! ^^) But as bad as his death is, it has helped so many people grow as people. I'm so surprised that no one took there life because of all this. Losing someone like that could do that to a person. For a while I even thought about it. But his death opened a door for many people. Now, people that knew Chris, or didn't even know him, look at life a little differently...hoping to be more like Chris. Now they want to bring something into the world and make it a better place...just like Chris did. So please, try to look at this as a good thing. Remember all the good times you spent with him. Feel lucky that you were so close to such a great person. I know I wish I would have got to know Chris better. But at least we did get to spend time with him. You could have treated him a lot worse than what you did...so, don't linger on what could have been. He brought so much good to the earth, it was time for him to finally be rewarded. Mr. and Mrs. Kempa...I read your entries and I feel so much pain. I wish I could take all your pain away from you. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you. If there was something I could do to take this all away, I could....because it hurts to see such nice people go through such sadness. But there's nothing to do but grow from this. Let the memories comfort you in this time of grief and be thankful you have them. Just let a small memory of him smiling at you make you smile. It will feel so nice...trust me. Remember all the good he brought you...and smile. Be happy...Chris wants you to be happy.
anonymous <KuteyKat124@aol.com>
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Chris will never...
Chris will never reach the other side of the road...
Chris will never walk the halls of Franklin High School...
Chris will never see his friends again at school...

Chris will never get to give his note to his first love that he was bringing that day...

Chris will never open his Christmas presents...
Chris will never get to finish driver education and get his driver’s license...
Chris will never drive himself alone down the street...
Chris will never get his first car that was to be given to him in his senior year...
Chris’s art will never grow...

He will never...

Enter his art in senior competition...
Go to the prom...
Have his senior or prom pictures taken...
Graduate with the class of 2002...

He will never...
Eat his dad’s scrambled eggs...
Get his paycheck from Larry’s Foodland...
Surf the internet...
Talk online with his friends...
Swim two lengths of the pool underwater or play his guitars...
Fight and fool with his brother over CD’s and clothes...
Pet his dog Charlie, or play with his cat Felix...
Skateboard down the streets of Old Rosedale Gardens...
Get his braces off his teeth...
Have his art grow, or do more computer animations...
Laugh with his family... Again.

He will never blow the candles out on his 17th birthday cake...

He will never attend the summer portfolio camp at Detroit’s Center for Creative Studies...
He will never be in another play...
Never grow to his full height...
He will never start the college and art schools of which he dreamed...
He will never be a famous artist...
He will never do special effects for movies...
He will never draw us more pictures (he gave away his art “don’t worry mom I can make more”)...

He will never be best man at his brother’s wedding...

He will never get his first apartment...
He will never marry the girl of his dreams...
He will never buy his first home...
Never have the “lots of kids” that he planned to have...
Never make grandchildren, cousins and nephews or nieces...
He will never be there for his brother or mother as the years pass...

He will never be forgotten by those of us who knew him or loved him...
He will never be forgotten.
AKempa <afk49>
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Kempa's and everyone: First off, This page is great. It is really well done and I'll bet it will bring some ray of light into their lives. It's been hard, but Everyone seems to be doing great, and I think that is just as great. I plan to visit the site often. Keep up the great work. ~Doug
Doug K <Lochoko@yahoo.com>
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I had the pleasure of knowing Chris, but unfortunately for only a little while, I met him shortly before his death. I realized how much he touched so many peoples lives and how much he will never be forgotten. He was so talented, as an artist, as a person, and as a friend. I'm sorry that this happened to someone so wonderful and kind. To the Kempa family: may God be with you especially through the holidays, Chris will never leave our hearts.
Jamie Proctor <Princess2472117@aol.com>
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Hi Chris, merry christmas, I was just sitting here reading over all the things people have written in the guestbook and it makes me cry. you were so loved, and so talented, this is a wonderful memorial to a wonderful person. im sorry for this summer when we fought, i forgave you a long time ago and im glad we had rremained friends for over 2 and 1/2 years. i miss you so much everyday chris, i am always thinking of you. also, i am in colorado right now and the sky here is incredible, in orlando you cant see the stars but now i can see how beautiful you are painting the sky for us to see. i love you so much chris, thank you for making my life and everyone who knew you so much better, i am praying for you and your family everyday. ~tink
Elyse <Poetgurl84@aol.com>
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One thing I would like people to know about Chris was how modest he was. As everyone who knew him knew how multi talented he was and those who didn't know him can see by this site how talented he was...... but he never bragged.It was just a part of him and he didn't expect any special treatment or recognition because of it.He was a normal kid. Many people didn't even know about his talent until aftre he died because he didn't flaunt it......that's kind of sad.

We love you Chris and miss you look down on us and smile.
A Good Friend <U.S.A.>
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I never knew chris but i graduated with adam. several of my friends i have watched experience all the sorrow and grief result from this tradgedy. I have a younger brother myself, and since november 20th driving past that corner on merrimen is painful for me as a think to myself...what if i suddenly had to endure that pain? It breaks my heart to know that such a wonderful family is experiencing so much pain, especially this time of year. this same time a year ago i lost my good friend to such a tradegy. the first months afterward were hard but i remember reaching a point where all the crying stopped and i actually felt happy and relieved that my friend did not have to experience any more of the evil on this earth...she was in the most wonderful place. there are a few thoughts that i think of when viewing this page...thoughts that were said at my friends funeral that helped comfort me that maybe will help the kempas in much the same way. God has a plan for every soul on this earth. even though tradegies may result on this earth, just think of what future tradegies he was saving chris from in the future. chris can no longer feel the pain that we now endure, the pain that is only present on this earth. another thought that i sometimes think of. going to heaven is much like a ship setting sail. on this side there are thousands of people waving goodbye. but on the other side, there are even more waving hello and greeting him. soon we will all meet again. i pray for the kempa's and wish them the best of this holiday season. God bless.
anoymous
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Its days like today when I really feel the loss more than usual. I wanted someone to come and see Dracula with me, no one would...Chris would always go and see movies with me...even if he didn't want to, even if he'd already seen them, he didn't care. No one would go with me today. I guess little things really make you realize this reality more than the big things. The little things are the ones that hit you in the face when you don't expect it, when I realize and am reminded of the little things they make me miss Chris more than I already do.
cori
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i never actually thought i would leave a meassage in your guestbook, chris, but here i am. it's really weird...i never would have considered you my friend if anyonehad asked me, because you were a couple years younger than me, and you always over to hang out with my little bro. However, i remember how ron would get upset because when you came over, you would usually spend the beginning of your time just talking to me about music, art, your dreams,and other general interests we had in common. soon after, i found myself respecting you greatly, and looking forward to when you would come hang out with my brother, just so that I could have an intelligent person to speak about music with. never would i had imagined myself talking to you online and exchanging lyrics and poems with you as well, but it happened. it only took me until a time like now to realize that you actually were one of my friends. whether you were just over to see my brother, or getting a ride from me to a show, it was a friendship of sorts. so, now i say that i hope heaven rocks as much as i think it will, and that you have had a merry christmas. and to your family...i had talked to a few of you on the phone whenever my mother was trying to locate the boys, but never did i imagine that the first time we would meet would be at chris' funeral. he was a wonderful boy, and he is a kickass angel right now. God bless you and i pray for you every night, that each day things become just a little bit easier, and moving on with life becomes a little less difficult.
aimee quinkert <ShredBettyQ@netscape.net>
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Chris, It's Christmas! It's been over a month and i still cry everyday thinking about how your gone! I miss you so much. It pains me to think of how much your Mom misses you way more than anyone else could. I still only get a couple hours of sleep every night if that. There are only a couple people in your life that makes an impact and right now Chris you have been the only one!I wanted to wish you a Merry Christmas and tell you I love you and Miss you terribly and hope your First Christmas in Heaven was wonderful!
Virginia <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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Kempas~ You have all been on my mind this Christmas...I just wanted to send love and peaceful wishes on a day that has been a difficult one to get through for many...especially you. This website and the greetings that it holds in memory of Chris is such a tribute to his life and his memory, as well as a loving tribute to your family. Please know that you are so loved and cared for on Christmas and always. May the Lord bless you and keep you....
Ms. Hillman <Woobie0070>
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Who do you turn to when the only one that can stop ur tears is the one who made you cry." This quote made me think of chris. he always had a smile on his face and would always bring your attitude up 100%. i turned to him when i cried and now i cant. we love you chris. keep heaven a'rockin jason
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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hey i dont know u but someone i new was very close to u. and i just want to say im sorry to his family 4 the loss and to all of the people who were close to him. i know what it feels like to lose a friend. i remember when my friend died of a brain tumor at the age of 7. its very hard to get on with ur life but soon enough u will have the strength to move on but mean while never 4getting about chris. so again im soory 4 the loss
melissa <imgr815@15>
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Merry Christmas Sweetheart! I hope you have experienced the most wonderful thing to ever happen to you ..... Christmas in heaven! I know we can't begin to imagine what that must be like. I was telling Mr. and Mrs. Deady and Dad last night if there were some way you could describe it for me and said," Mom, it WAs sooooo much better than any Christmas celebration you ever had for me I wouldn't be insulted. I'd be so happy and relieved! Did you dine with Princess Diana and J.F.k. Jr.or did you stick with the artist crowd.... Warhol or Lichtenstein? Even you and Walt Disney would hit it off.. so many interests in common. You're the type who could mix with anybody.Maybe everyone hangs out together in heaven..... I don't know!Whatever the celebration I hope it was so wonderful!!

We now know the true meaning of a Blue Christmas. We got Charlie extra presents this year so Adam would have someone to open his presents with.He's still the best present opening dog in the world! Remember every year we'd joke about how he got more into Christmas than we did? Well he still does! But your presence and presents were greatly lacking ang greatly missed.We didn't do our traditional wreath and garland on the mantle this year.Adam William wouldn't allow it. The mantle was adorned with your portrait, art work and candles. I wasn't sure what to do about the stockings. I asked Dad and Adam, "Do I hang Three or four?" They both said four.Yours was hung but remained empty and untouched.

We finally finished decorating the tree and wrapping the gifts about 9:00 last night! A few weeks behind but that's understandable. I didn't send any Christmas cards this year. I was busy every night with funeral acknowledgements.400 in all1 I've completed 250 but took a break for Christmas. You were and still are well loved by many people.

We went to the cemetary and visited your grave. The little Christmas trees we took a few weeks ago were still there. Did you like them? Dad got you a grave blanket too.I still have trouble at the cemetary. It hurts too much to think that any part of you is in the ground. I believe in cremation but when it came to you I couldn't bring myself to burn my baby. We didn't stay long.... too emotional for all of us.

Our Christmas present to you this year was digging out your Memorial at "the corner"... That horrible corner. It was covered in several inches of snow. On Sat. 12/23 Eric, Ryan B., Mrs. Deady, Dad, Adam and I brought shovels, broom, scissors, new candles and new balloons! We rearranged all the animals and momentos. It's so much better now!The candles we lit @ 9:00 last night were still burning as I drove by on my way to work @ 6:00 this morning! That made me feel good.... leting everyone know your light is still shining!

Christmas dinner was quiet. We had our traditional roast beef but there were only three people to eat it ......Adam had no one to fool around with at the tablr or have a blow out the candles war. Our Christmas desert was our traditional Birthday cake and ice cream but I don't think Dad had a very happy birthday. Only two people to sing to him..... the loudest and most dramatic voice was silent. Mrs. Allen and Mrs. Deady both invited us for dinner but I declined. I know it would have been tourture watching Scott or Caleb so alive celebrating Christmas when their best friend, our son was dead.

The night is quiet. I think Adam will have some friends in which is good. Dad and I will sit around and talk then I must go to bed early for work tomorrow. I said yesterday I hoped you'd come to me in a dream. I had to laugh this morning after I got up from another sleepless night.... you have to sleep to dream! I hope that resolves soon. I honestly haven't slept well since you died. I still think about you every minute of every day {and most nights} People say "think of the good things." Well of course I do.. that's all I think about. There wasn't much bad between you and me. We had a wondreful relationship . I loved you dearly and you loved me dearly and we both knew it. I always told you how talented you were,how handsome you were and how proud of you I was. There was nothing left unsaid, but that's what makes it even harder. You want all that to continue!

When I was in grade school the nuns taught us heaven was a reward. I think you ewre rewarded for being so kind to people and accomplishing so much at such a young age. They say you can't leave earth until you make it a better place. You surely did that many times over! The nuns also taught us when someone dies we cry for ourselves, not for them. Now I can see this is true. I cry everyday Because I MISS YOU SO MUCH!! and all the wonderful times we had. I also cry for the could have/ should have beens.

But I know you can never be hurt or disappointsd or experience any of the other human emotions or frustrations again. That gives me some comfort. I no longer fear death. Before you died when I thought about my own death I'd think 'oh no, I don't want to leave my kids. " Now when my time comes I hope I'll be greeted by one of my kids and I look forward to that.

Sleep in heavenly peace sweetheart. I love you. I'll write again soon.
Mom <Noyfranny@aol.com>
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Merry Christmas Chris!
Holly
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And he will raise you up on eagle's wings, bear you on the breath of dawn, make you to shine like the sun, and hold you in the palm of his hand. Peace, Love, Comfort to all.
Mary Stanczyk <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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It is Christmas morning, and our thoughts are with you, our family. We attended midnight mass and prayed especially for Chris...and for you...Adam, Fran, and Adam. I know that there are absolutely NO words that anyone of us can share with you that can even possibly remove the pain in your hearts. Just know that we are thinking about Chris EVERY day, and he will never ever be forgotten. We hope you find some comfort in knowing that our prayers and thoughts are with all of you...especially Chris. Many Christmas blessings to you all. We love you and pray for you and hope that Chris gives you some sign that he is at peace and watching over all of you. You have got to believe that he is with the Lord and in very good hands. God Bless you, and may the peace of Christ be with you always. Love your brother Bill, JoAnne and cousin Billy.
The Vaughans <wtvjr0527@aol.com>
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Merry Christmas Chris, I miss you alot and am very sad your are not with us. I had planned to make this a big Christmas for you and your brother. It will never be the same. Your mother and brother are doing as well as can be expected. But this is a sad sad time. I guess we all still can't believe it. Not you who was so full of plans and life! Merry Christmas Chris We all Love and Miss you. DAD
Dad <afk49@aol.com>
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Dear Chris, It's almost Christmas Day. (11:45 PM on 12-24) We spent most of the day reminiscing about the many special memories we had of your 16 years in our family. We know that you are a resident of heaven this Christmas, and it is comforting to know that you are rejoicing with the angels in celebrating the birth of our Lord. Molly, Grandma Joan, and Grandpa Bill are here for the holidays. We are praying for your Mom, Dad and Adam today and each day since your death. We never expected to lose you in the prime of your youth, and eventhough you are in the best place for eternity, we will always miss you while we are here on earth. Whenever I look to the sky I now think of you living in the home of your eternal father. Thank you for always being such a wonderful member of our family. Although we lived many miles apart, I always kept up with you from conversations with Mom and Grandma Joan. I was so proud of all of your many accomplishments in the visual and performing arts. In 16 short years, Chris, you accomplished far more than most adults will ever come close to. I wish I could have seen you more; I wish we had lived closer; i wish I could have seen some of your performances. I am grateful that Adam has established this memorial web site, which allows me to see all of the awesome art that I'd only heard about up until your wake and funeral. You have a wonderful devoted brother. I pray that God will comfort your Mom, Dad, and brother this holiday time. It's so hard to go through the holidays anyhow for most people, but the pain of this loss is too intense for anyone to fathom. I pray that God will heal this pain and void and give us a sign that you are doing much better than any of us down here can ever imagine being possible. Merry Christmas with Love from Aunt Kathy
AUNT KATHY <MsKateP@aol.com>
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Dear Kempas, I'm so sorry that this has happened to such a wonderful family. I can't begin to imagine your loss, and I pray that I never have to. I can't say enough good things about Chris. You should be proud that you raised such a warm, caring, and talented young man. I will always see him as I always saw him; skateboarding down our street, sitting in our living room, hanging out in front of Scott's house. He will always be in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Mr. and Mrs. Kempa, I dream every night that this hasn't happened and when I wake up, I pray that you will survive. Adam, I can't think of losing my sister, she's my best friend. You will make it, it's hard and I wish that I could make it better, but I can't. I wish you all the Merriest Christmas possible. mel
Mel Ogden <MelBel97@aol.com>
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I'm a Franklin student every day that i walk through the halls i'm reminded of how important life truly is. That day that Chris left us will be eitched in my memory forever. That day four days from Thanksgiving. I sat in my third hour as i listened to our principal sobbing into the p.a. that one of our most beloved students was killed on his way to school. A girl on the other side of the room joined him. I sat in the same spot that i had sat on the first day of school when we heard about another student dying. We take so many things granted. Life is so precious. I miss those days when we were so innocent. As i write this, i can't help but think of all the losses i've had in my life. But i truly believe they don't add up to the loss of Chris's family and friends.
Franklin Student
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Well, it being Chrismas eve, I though I should write to you, as if I don't talk to you enough. It isn't the same, I don't think it can be. But, I am wearing my angel pin tonight for you. I felt weird buying all of my christmas presents this year...there was someting missing...I knew I would have gotten you the newest indie rock pick or some DVD you'd been raving about for weeks...you always dropped little hints around your birthday and the holidays. But that's ok, I never minded. Merry Chrismas, Chris, I'm sure earth is a pretty cool sight tonight with all of the lights and things. I wish I was there to see it. Love, Cori

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Dear Christopher, It’s Christmas Eve, December 24, and I’m thinking of you. I love you and miss you, but I’m sure you’re in a far better place now. For years, I’ve thought about you, especially when Christmas Eve comes around. My favorite Christmas Eve memory of you is when you were two years old ( dare I say - and a little devil ). You were caught playing with my freshly ironed living room curtains looking very cute - attired in red feetie pajamas. Your Mom told you twice, “Chris, stop touching Gramma’s curtains.” You, however, persisted. I then said, “Oh, Chris is going to be a good boy, aren’t you, Chris?” Where upon you looked at me and said, “You like me, don’t you, Gramma?” I replied, “Yes, Chris, I do like you, but I love you too.” Although 14 years have gone by since that incident, I recall it like it was yesterday, and I’ll always cherish that memory. How smart you were - even at two!! Please watch over all your family until we’re all together again in heaven when you and I can paint together. Love, Gramma Joan
Gramma Joan <WTVaughan@AOL.com>
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I haven't wanted to write anything until I could write something that would do justice to Chris, his life, and the legacy he is leaving behind, but waiting so long and writing nothing seems to do more of an injustice than writing something poor. After all Chris would care not how good something you did was as long as you were happy with your own work and took the chance to be courageous and express yourself. Chris must have done this 3, 4 times a day. Always a new art piece, or a guitar riff, or a movie idea that allowed you a peak into his soul. One of the things Chris did with his time here on Earth was to show each and everyone of us that we should share our souls, because as much as we enjoyed and still do enjoy looking at Chris's work he enjoyed looking at anything we did just as much. Chris didn't create all this great work to say look at me I kick ass. He did it because he shared everything he had. His thoughts, his talents and his heart with everyone he touched and now and forever he will continue to touch even those he didn't encounter face to face. I wanted to make movies and I wanted Chris to do my special effects for me and I know he would have. I remember sharing with him a movie idea I had, it was going to be a comedy but at the end the main character just dies all ofa sudden. Chris liked this idea better than any other idea I ever told him. I never watned it to come true though, I would rather write from fantasy than write from my heart something that I know all too well. I still haven't finished the script I can't begin to write but I know I will have to one day for me and for Chris. I started shooting a bunch of models trying to get into some special effects stuff Chris would have liked. I made a village in the snow and I was standing there taping it and I wanted the snow to blow right by it to make the shot look better. Right then a wind gust kicked up and the snow came breezing by and the shot came out perfect. I know it was Chris who made that wind gust for me, because Chris is still making special effects in heaven and he's still sharing his soul with the world. Merry Christmas Chris. I love you and I miss you more.
Rich <valhallaent@aol.com>
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I come here everyday, but I never feel like I have the eloquence to post how I am feeling. I still don't. I cry so hard everytime I read Chris's mother's messages to him. If the Lord's will be that I shall lose a child one day, I hope that I may have at least half her strength. I did not know Chris personally, but his death hit very close to home. Being the victim of a pedestrian/car accident myself makes me wonder why I was so lucky to survive, and why Chris was the one who had to be taken? I remember the day that I was hit clearly, right in front of Franklin High School. What I really would like for Chris's mother to know, is that I never felt any pain that whole day, I never suffered. I remember returning to consciousness, and I did not remember a single thing that had happened to me until I was reminded. I did not know what day it was, or why I was there. At that time no one knew the extent of my injuries. There could have been closed head injuries, spinal, internal. But I just laid there and I talked to God, and I told him, that if it had to be my time right then, that I was ready, and that I was strong enough to do it. I was 16. And now I know, that Chris is at least ten times stronger than wimpy ol me, and I think we can all take some comfort in that. Mrs. Kempa - I think that Christopher was definitely the #1 qualified candidate for becoming the next high angel. Happy Holidays to everyone! Merry Christmas Chris!
Nicole Stanczyk <Nicoliolio82@hotmail.com>
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I just wanted to wish the Kempa family and everyone else a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays. Everyone, please be safe over the holiday break. Take care of yourselves. Kempa Family...Know that Chris is right there with you and will always be there. God bless you all. Much love, Michele
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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My dear Chris - It’s Christmas time again, but there are holes in all our hearts because you’re not here with us. It’s comforting to know though that you will be celebrating Jesus’ birthday with him - safe in heaven. We all miss you terribly, but I know you’re our very special Christmas angel !! Thank you for listening when I talk to you every single day. What I wouldn’t give to have you here, to talk to in person, but until we all are together again, I’ll continue “visiting” with you in my prayers. I talk to Gramma Missert up in heaven everyday too, so I know she’s keeping a loving and watchful eye over you, and that makes me glad. I hope you and Gramma and all the other people in heaven we all love have a wonderful holiday. I know God is smiling all the more this Christmas because He has a wonderful new member in His heavenly orchestra to welcome in His Son’s birthday. Please don’t ever stop listening, Chris, because you’ve already helped me from heaven in more ways than I can even say. All my love, Molly
Molly Vaughan <MEVaughan@AOL.com>
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My Dear Sweet Chris, It's Christmas eve! You SO LOVED Christmas! Everyone is rushing around getting ready and they're so happy! WE're getting ready too but we're not happy. Never in a million billion years did I dream part of our Christmas 2000 celebration would include a trip to the cemetary to visit your grave and the lighting of candles in your memory. But it's a day we can't ignore but can hardly celebrate. No one wore the Santa hat this year.... that was yours! Remember how you started wearing it about two weeks ahead of time! Some nights you even slept in it! I found it in your room.... you must have been getting ready. I only bought you one gift before you died, a pair of Dockers. you were slow wiht your list this year. Remember we talked about it the night before you died while we watched Millionare. Our tradition of flooding the house with Christmas Carols starting with Thanksgiving dinner didn't happen this year.As I'm sure you know there was nothing traditional about Thanksgiving this year either. I bought the Charlotte Church Christmas CD like we talked about but couldn't play it until last night. After about the third carol I had to turn it off because I was crying too much. Does she truly have the voice of an angel? You have first hand knowledge now.I stll say the same prayer for you and as often as I said it while you were on earth. "Please Dear God let him be o.k." I always keep my prayers simple and to the point. When you were on earth it was a lot easier because my prayers were answered quickly. You were home and safe. I could se you , touch you and talk to you.I still say it a hundred tims or more a day but it's much harder because I can only trust. I keep hoping you'll come to me in a dream but that hasn't happened. I keep going back to the frequent conversations we had over the years about skateboarding or walking to school and safety. You always gave me the same response every time. "Mom ,Mom don't worry about me Mom I'm O.K." So I keep playing that response over and over in my head like you're telling me that now. I will let you know what our first Christmas without you was like .I miss you and love you so much. I have to trust you're a High Angel now or I couldn't even function.
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Dear Chris, We went to Mass and prayed for you today. They sung beautiful Christmas songs, and a very special song for family and friends who are now with the Lord. We know you are happy in your new life, but we are so sad that you are not in this life to share this holiday with your Mom, Dad, and Brother. We think of you each and every day, and during this special Christmas season, we pray for your eternal happiness. Please continue to shine down on your family, and let them know you are at peace, and happy in Heaven. You are a very special Angel Chris. Merry Christmas to you, in the most special place of all. And, Merry Christmas Adam, Fran, and Adam...we love you all, and continue to pray for your ability to cope, and go on with your lives. Hang on to your faith, and know that Chris is in Heaven watching over all of you. They are very lucky to have Chris with them. Peace and Love always, Bill, JoAnne, and Bill
Bill, JoAnne, and Bill <jgvpri@aol.com>
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I enjoyed his views on subjects such as art and video games. We would talk at work for as long as we could about computer art or the latest video game. It was a pleasure knowing him, and it hurt so bad when I found out that he was gone. God please take care of him... He is very special.
Michael Pelletier <mcitymike@aol.com>
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Chris, Keep painting the heavens! Have a Very MERRY CHRISTMAS! You deserve it! Love you so much! Can't wait to see you again!
Virignia
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I had known chris since the beginning of 8th grade and at first I thought him to be one of the most annoying boys at school. Every day he would come by my locker and just be so hyper about every little thing in the world. But soon that passion for life just sorta rubbed off on me, and I found my self loving and just waiting for that annoying boy to come by my locker. Through the many years of our friendship I also found myself loving him not just as a friend but as a brother, too. we became soo so close and when I found out about him getting hit by that stupid car and dying I was heart broken! I couldnt even imagine life with out one of my most cherished friends by my side. Chris and I had the carreer center together this year....every day we would have the best time in that class. We would take each other's rulers and pretend to have sword fights or somethin crazy like that. But now that he is gone I always ask my self, "who am I gonna have a sword fight with now?" I miss that He was one of the most creative, upbeat, loving, fun friend I have ever had in my whole life and I will truly miss him with my whole heart! I hate not being able to eat lunch with him in the art room with him anymore, and I hate not having fun with him anymore, I hate not being able to walk with him and not being able to see walking up to my locker. Hes a huge part of me now, and I will forever be gratefull to God for letting me become friends with him! I love you chris and I look forward to the day where I can see your sunny face again!
moriah <Sk8erchic02@juno.com>
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I've never met Chris before, but from what I have heard, he was an extremely nice person, and an amazing artist. It was a terrible tradgedy, what happened to Chris. I definitely cannot imagine what his family is going through. If someone in his family is reading this, I just want you to know that you're all in my prayers. I am very sorry that Chris' life was taken away. At least we know he is in good hands and is always watching everyone! I wish you and your family a healthy, safe, and Merry Christmas.
Churchill Student
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I have seen my kids looking at this site many times and this is the first I have viewed it. Adam,Fran,Adam &Chris I love you all!!! Chris you were and still are one special kid,always a kind word when ever I saw you.I didnt realize until a month or so after I saw the picture you did that you were the artist. I always told myself I wanted to tell what a great artist I thought you were.I never realized I would never get to tell you face to face.Well it now hangs in our kitchen for us to see and to keep your spirit alive. Chris reach down and give your family a big hug on christmas morning. We love them and you and you are always in our thoughts
Mark <Scratch58@aol.com>
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I visit this site often but I never know what to write. Chris I always thought you were a terrific person, you were also so friendly and nice. I never really was sure if I believed in heaven but now I do because of you. I can only picture someone as great as you, who was taken away from us so early in heaven. I hope you have a very Merry Christmas up there. To the Kempa family I would just like to say that I can't believe something like this had to happen to such wonderful people as you. Mrs. Kempa I know you are correct when you say Chris is an angel now. I couldn't see it any other way.
Holly <Dolli87@aol.com>
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It's taken me a very long time to write to you. When Chris died I've been lost in thoughts. I've been haveing Diffrent emotions through this. but now I've started thinking... I feel like ever sence i was born I've known Chris. When we got a little older I feel like there was not ever a day were i was not with him. There is just so many things i can remember that we did togethere. I feel like chris and I held somthing great, and he will never be forgotten. when chris died I was in shock. It was very hard for me to cry. I never really shed a tear. but i feel like everytime i was about to, chris would stop me. I don't think that he wanted me to cry. I know chris is in a good place, and if you think about he never really died. he's in all of our memorys and in heven to live forever. He's probley playing music with John Lennon and painting with Vango. I love you chris. I hope I've been a good friend.
Scott Allen <pillfur@aol.com>
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On Dec 11th, I wrote an email to Matt Jachman, a writer for the Observer. He had already done a piece on Chris before so I went to him for help. Since the Police wouldn't listen to the Kempa's plea, I asked him to look into the issue of the malfunctioning light. On the front page of Thursdays Observer you will find an article by Mr.Jachman concerning the light. I'm now asking the hundreds of chris' friends to write a thank you email to him. He could've ignored my email...but he didn't. Please email him at MJACHMAN@OE.HOMECOMM.NET
cyndi <mablegf@aol.com>
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I didn't know Chris, but i had a chance to see him on keyboards when his band played at my school. I also had a chance to view some of his art showed to me by our mutual friend. His art is what most cought my attention. I was amazed to see such talent and creativity in such a young person. There was instinct and thought put into his work that some proffensionals may spend the rest of their lives trying to achieve. You didn't have to know Chris to know his art was unique and to know that his heart went into it. That's what makes it beautiful.
Phil <pjsk8s@aol.com>
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Chris, You were a good friend to my son since you both were babies. I would not talk to you much in the early years. I talked to you more - though still not a lot - in more recent years. It was evident to me that you were growing up. I knew you to be a very polite and mature young man - a good and loyal friend to my son. I feel like I hardly knew you. I have learned quite a bit about you these past few weeks from your friends and from your amazing - amazing!- artwork. I regret that I didn't make more of an effort to get to know you better when you were here. I guess I always thought there would be a time. There isn't five minutes that go by now when I don't think about you or about your family. We, like many others, are here now to ease the pain of your dad, your mom and your brother any way we can. Chris, I believe that you are in a good place now and that there WILL BE a time when your mom, your dad, your brother and you will be together again. I just know it! We are with you in spirit and are here now for your mom, you dad and your brother, for any reason, anytime of the day or night.
A good friend
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Chis, I wish you the best chritmas, and i know your probably haveing a blast up there. I wish the same for your wonderful family, and anyone else whose life you affected. Merry Christmas. -Brendan
Brendan <Pupyfrog@aol.com>
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to the kempa family: i wish i could somehow give you strengh. you are in my thoughts and my prayers. merry christmas chris. much love.tiffany
tiffany <rocknrollfun@yahoo.com>
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Every parent fears that something tragic might happen to their child and they will be left alone. They fear the pain and the empty black hole that sits on your chest not knowing how you will get through the next day. Over the years I have read the papers and heard the new reports of young and old who are lost and I wonder how I would make it through each day. As we watch our children grow we know that we must let go and let them live their lives. We worry as they go to their friends houses a few doors down without us, then cross to other subdivisions and then get into cars with their friends that only received their drivers that day. You want to keep them close to you...safe. But you can't. You have to let them move and grow. You can’t protect them as you did when they were babies. Each year my children have attended Franklin High School some child has died. Death we want to believe is reserved for the old. It’s not. If all of us could live until we were 90…. We seem to expect and accept this. When family and friends lose someone when they are young our tears are much larger, our loss is greater because the story ended in the middle of the book. We ask why does this have to happen? How is one mom, family or group of friends chosen over others to feel this pain? I do not understand the rules. No one does. They say that there is a plan. I have spent the last month crying each day feeling only a fraction of the pain I have seen my daughter endure and know the Kempa family feels. When I met Mrs. Kempa, I could only hold her and shake my head…I fear her pain. I wish I could remove that pain. I do not know how you will travel through your days without Chris. I only know that we cannot change what has happened. We can only go on. We are left to grieve and to pick up the pieces and try to continue. I am sure the man that hit Chris wishes that he could live that morning over again just like all of us. His life has changed forever also. He did not lose his son, but he lives knowing that in one quick moment he changed many lives, not just one. Mrs. Kempa, Chris would want your family and his friends to find the way to pick up the pieces. He is ok now… he is “painting the heavens”. I believe that Chris would want us to all learn from this. We now need to find a way to do this. I know that we have all learned that life is precious. It is not a guarantee. We need to learn to make each day important. Learn to take the extra minute to tell someone that they make you feel good and that they are important to you. Learn that just because you are different, it does not make you less important. We need to know that he influenced all of us in his life and with his death. Most of his friends just experienced their greatest loss. They learned how to reach out to each other and to support each other. None of us will ever be the same. We all lost a piece of ourselves, a part of our heart that cannot be replaced. We need to find a way to replace the “black hole” with a “warm glow”. It will take time, but soon instead of tears and emptiness, I hope a smile and warmth will fill us when we think about Chris he would want it that way. Sharon Smith
Sharon Smith <Ssmith@flintink.com>
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i keep thinking it is all a dream and i will wake up. in the off times when reality sinks in, i cry. i cry because i don't think he knew how much i loved him, how could i not? we were not as close as i would have liked but his life left an impact on me and i pray he knows this. to everyone merry christmas.
jnn
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Chris, Although I didnt know you that well, i still see the effect you had on all who were around you. You are still loved immensely, by many. I hope you are looking down from the heavens over your family and friends. Merry Christmas. Tell the big guy hi for me.
joe.cwik <joe@joecwik.com>
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Chris, I miss you so much. My school days aren't the same without you. I was not able to give you a Christmas card at school today, like how I have in the years previously. It breaks my heart to know that I'm not going to see you physically around now, but I know someday we will be reunited, and that makes me smile through my sorrow. I will never forget you, and I hope you will never forget me. And when it's my turn to go to heaven, I hope you're there and open those large, golden gates for me. You deserve to have the most bright, most wonderful and peaceful Christmas I can imagine. So I hope in heaven, you're able to have one like that. And I know your family is having such a difficult time now, especially at this time of year. But I know you're watching over them, shining down your precious love and guidance upon them. You might not be around here on Earth physically, but I know you are watching over us all. Merry Christmas.
Angie <Angie1247@aol.com>
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hey chris its almost christmas but it will never be the same without you here. its been exactly one month since you were taken from us and this holiday season wont be that joyous with you gone. we all love you chris and we miss you soo much. you will never be forgotton. jason
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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I have never met Chris but have heard much about him. I go to Churchill High School, but was supposed to go to Franklin. I had seen him once or twice and only heard nice things about him. Just today when I picked up the Churchill Herald i saw a huge piece of art covering the whole front cover and the words "Franklin Student, Chris Kempa Lost In Tragedy". I opened up straight to the page the story was on and it took up two pages. Pictures of his art and a whole article was there. It showed me that many people everywhere in our city has been grieving over this intelligent young man's death. As one who is very interested in the arts I have been very moved by his creative and amazing art. It's hard to believe that this world will no longer be able to see any new art, but we will still have the privlige of being able to appreciate all of his work by way of this great website. I would like to wish Chris's family a very happy holiday even though it will be a hard one. I would like to let them know that even though I have never met them or Chris that my prayers are with them and that they are in my thoughts.
Theresa <BabieGal77@chickmail.com>
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I hope Christmas in heaven is better then Christmas down here. I just keep thinking one day when I'm walking in the halls I'll see you. That you'll wave to me. And we'll talk, again. I know one day we'll meet in heaven. But 'till then I'll miss you and pray for everyone who's hurting. You had so many friends. And so many dreams. I know now you are achiving them in heaven. God bless you Chris.
Janine <rosered44u@aol.com>
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I can barely type through my tears, but I can't leave this site again without letting Chris' family know that there are SO many people that would be willing to take one little speck of suffering off your shoulders if it would give you a moment's peace. Please know that we all care and would do anything to help you. We live in the neighborhood - we use to live right around the corner - and we pass the memorial on a daily basis. My son Jason, a friend of Chris' has been to your home. Chris had been to ours and he had played street hockey with my other two children. I too think of Chris daily and the tears flow. I hope all the Franklin students who knew him will see that instead of giving up they should make the most of their lives. Each minute counts. Do the best that you can. Make a difference in this world - it needs you! You are the next generation and I hope to God you make a positive imprint on this world. I will try to remember Chris' spirit when getting impatient with my kids or husband. Every moment counts. May God be with the Kempa family and all of Chris' friends.
Carol Woodward <woodwarc@symbol.com>
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if you ever listened to someone when they are trying to teach you something you might realize that they are trying to help you. what that means is your not being xcriticized if you learn a lesson from what was said. chris taught me many things including how to listen. even if i never knew what he was talking about. i always d and this is what i learned. i learned that life is not just a waste of time if you make yourself someone like he did with his art. i know now that its not what you look like or how you do things that matters its that if you care it will make a difference. i wish chris and the entire kempa family the most peaceful and merry christmas. i hope when you look at your christmas tree and witness the sparkling lights know that it is chris that is enlightning your room and bring life to what once was. then thank god that you were blessed with a healthy beautiful child that was not only talented but was loved by others. ONLY YOU WERE THE ONES THAT DESEARVED CHRIS. And when a year passes and another christmas comes bless your familu around you for chris is in all of you. he is not gone. you cant see him but he is not gone. everything there is in life chris is a part of including the wind the air the trees the stars and your hearts. HAVE AND VERY MERR CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR LOVE ALWAYS AND FOREVER TAMERRA
Tam
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It's hard to believe that a month ago yesterday, one of the most promising, amazing, most artistic young men, was taken so suddenly from this world. I know that even though it's been hard to understand and believe, God needed Chris more than we did. He took him to make heaven a better place and maybe even do some renovating and painting so that when we are greeted at the gates when it is our time, Chris will be there, smiling as he always was, not being able to wait to show us what he has done with the place. He is looking down on us all, especially at this time, and is making usre that we are all safe. Mr.and Mrs. Kempa and Adam, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know that it is hard without Chris, especially at Christmas, but know that He is your angel at the top of the tree this year. And he will be until you all meet him again. Chris, make heaven beautiful and know that we all love you and miss you greatly. Even though Christmas won't be the same wihtout you, you are in my mind everyday. Please watch over all of us, especially your parents and Adam-they need your spirit more now than ever. Everyone else reading this, please please be careful and make sure that nothing like this happens to someone elses family. Happy holidays and know that you are in my thoughts. Much love, Michele
Michele <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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Merry Christmas Chris. Although I know you are having a much better time up there than we are down here, part of the joy of the season is missing...
rob <basstardos@aol.com>
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Every day I read through all of the letters, and every day my heart breaks over the tragic loss we have been made to deal with. I never met Chris, but I knew of him. Having been through a similar loss (my ex-boyfriend's brother was struck by a van while riding his bike in Canton almost 4 years ago) I understand your grief and I pray everyday that God will give you the strength to carry on. Remember not to dwell on the "what-ifs," because it will drive you crazy, and Chris probably wouldn't want it that way. Remember what a lovely, lively person he was, and remember that whatever God wanted him to accomplish here on earth he did and surpassed that to its max. We will never really understand why God would take someone so loved away from us, but know that whatever purpose he had was accomplished. Have a blessed Christmas everyone. You are all in my prayers.
a friend
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The past month has been very hard for everyone one who knows Chris and his death is still as tragic as it was a month ago. Every day I am somehow reminded of Chris whether it be stopping by the Kempa house, or listening to a CD that chris liked, or seeing someone that Chris has touched. Reading this message board reminds me of what a great kid he is and everyone should be proud to know him. On a daily basis I see the eyes of a family who has had to suffer the greatest loss one can endure. Every day I hope to walk in, say hello, and see that pain gone from their eyes. Unfortunately their pain is one that does not leave the heart or mind for an eternity. I wish there was something for us all to do to help ease their pain. Unfortunately we can do very little. At the very least we can all help keep him alive in our memories. In our memories he can live forever. Merry Christmas Chris, you are greatly missed.
erik <erik@suburbansprawl.com>
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Chris, I never knew you, I go to Stevenson High School, but every time i pass the place that was your last i get a tear in my eye and think why did this have to happen to someone so young. My good friend Carli died last year, she was 18 and i'm still not over that yet. I hope you are with god watching over all of us. I pray for your parents who are having the worst time of their lives right now. I'm so so sorry this had to happen to someone who was so talented and gifted. My prays are with you everyday!
Krystle <butterflys69@aol.com>
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Chris, Wishing you a most heavenly Christmas. I know there must be some rhyme or reason for all of this. Maybe once the pain has eased we will be able to see clearly what the reason is. It is said that God doesn't give a person more than they can handle. I can't think of anything more unbearable for your parents, your brother, your family, friends, and, yes, even the driver of the truck to handle. God has a plan, and right now only you and He knows what that plan is. Is the plan for us to go on and fight even harder for the safety of the roads and all who use them, whether driving on them, crossing them, or standing near them? Your Mom's letter broke my heart and I know how close I came to having to deal with the same. It wells up such anger in me that respect on the roads has become so passe. To everyone here, Kempa family and Friends, I wish you peace and love to ease the pain. Chris, you will be on my mind and in my heart as you celebrate this most Holy season in the most Holiest place. I can only imagine how incredible it is. We can feel your love and peace shining down on us. Mary Stanczyk
Mary Stanczyk <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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There are some days that go by, and I only think about it every few minutes. There are other days that go by, like today, when I think about it every second. The past month of my life seemed like a year, and I know I will never be the same. Sometimes you don't realize what someone meant to you until they've gone. Little things, like everyday after 1st and 2nd hour he would pick me up from class, and I would hold onto his messanger bag as we went down the hall. Sometimes I catch myself to that to another person and I stop...I hadn't realized how something so small, so seemingly insignificant like holding only his bag...made such a difference. I can't help but think about him everyday as I walk alone, I can't help but thinking everynight that I probably would have been talking on the phone with him, i can't help thinking everytime I listen to my CD's that Chris had recommended that I buy it. I guess the saying is right, you don't know what you've got till it's gone. I know I didn't. Chris, Thanks for everything, all of the memories, I could never forget them. Chris was such a talented person, who meant so much to so many people, I wonder everyday why someone so important could have been taken so soon, too soon. I will never know why. Mrs Kempa, Mr Kempa and Adam Merry Christmas, I know that Christmas won't be the same, but Chris is here...maybe not physically, but he is here, watching over all of us.
Cori <curcusenvy@aol.com>
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To the kempa family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very dificult time. Just know that Chris is in a better place and watching over you all. I hope that your holidays are safe and happy. Reflect on all that Chris gave to everyone. All I have to do is look back on all of the people at the funeral. Chris was and will always be an amazing guy, this and every Christmas he will be with you , in your hearts and in your memories. I love you all. J.
J, <Princess_pea@hotmail.com>
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Dear Chris, Today it's one month since you went to be with the Lord, yet those of us still left behind are still grieving for you. In my mind's eye I can still see you in your red sleeper PJ's at 2 or dancing in your dining room at 6 or being such a wonderful kid at your grandparents' 50th. My mind keeps replaying the memories, and I still want to go back to November before we got that awful phone call. How many million times I wish I could trade places with you so that my poor sister didn't have to feel such pain.......so that your brother didn't have to be so sad.......so your dad could have more time with you here. I know that you are in a better place where there is no sadness, sickness or suffering, yet it's so senseless to those of us remaining. Why was it a young man with such a promising future instead of someone older or less healthy? I pray every day for your mom,dad, and brother to heal their painful wounds of loss. We have comfort in knowing that you are with God and that we will one day see you according to His will. I don't think holiday time will ever feel the same because we miss you so much and we'll savor the memories left in our mind's eye.
Aunt Kathy <MsKateP@aol.com>
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My world ended on 11/20/2000!
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u know how in office space we all laugh because the character peter tells the hypntherapist, "everyday is the worst day of my life." and the hypno guy replies, "whoa, that is messed up." i always used to think, hey that applies to me. wow. weird. well, on 11/20/2000 at around 11:00 in the morning, i finally realized what that meant. everyday without chris is truly the worst day of my life. untill we meet again, chris, i am missing you terribly. in your final letter to cori, u mentioned me. i wish we had that chance to bug cori into letting me live with you guys in ann arbor. i love you, stud who was "ferris-buehler-buff" :)
sara
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Have fun in heaven Chris and may your first Christmas in Heaven be wonderful!
Ginny
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i keep checking this site, nearly daily, as it has almost replaced my routine checks of the very missed kempa.com, and am so proud of all of you that have left messages on this guestbook... adam, what you have done with this site is so amazing... i hope you realize, adam, how dear a friend you are to me... we have all been through so much in our lives, and this tragedy obviously carries the most weight... i hope you can take your brother's passion for art and music, and pump that life back into yourself... you know you have talent, and i don't want to see you set it aside... play music, draw, create... try to be you adam... i know it is hard, because part of you is gone... but you know we are all here to help you and the rest of your family as much as we can... chris, i want to say merry christmas to you... i'm sure the holiday's here on earth pale in comparison to the festivities being thrown in heaven... at least i want to hope that they are... this last month has been so strange for us all... i look at my own brother and wonder, "what would it be like if he was gone?" i still can't believe you, my dearest friend adam, have to realize what that feels like... my heartaches for the kempa family everyday, and for chris as well... there is a candle up at the memorial site that is sticking out of the snow... i encourage all of you to visit and light it, letting chris' spirit glow forever.
ryan allen <ryanrawk@hotmail.com>
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here is a poem i wrote just for Chris! Goodbye: you never want to say it, you just wanna believe, you think there never going to leave you, but you can't think, you say you love them, is that exactly true? you never know until there actually gone, but do you really know, is being able to say goodbye, very hard at all? i want you to know that while your gone, your memories are mine and mine are yours, i will always thank the lord for the time we shared, and all the memories that he prepared, if there was some reason our god took you from us, i would like to know tell me please, was it because you were ready to become an angel in the sky? for i will always remember you as a perfect person in my mind, you were caring and generous, even when you were mad, you believed in me when no one else would, i don't want to say Goodbye, in fact i want to say hello, for you will always be with me, in the little heart i show, you were and always will be my sun and moon, for Christopher Michael Kempa, you were my universe alone! I love you Chris and i miss you terribly, this was dedicated to Chris!
Ginny <gorgous_girl11@hotmail.com>
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My Dear Sweet Chris, I still after one month can;t believe you're gone. I keep hoping the door will open and that familiar "I'm home" will sound out. But I know that will never be again. The house is so quiet. Adam, Dad and I have all returned to work and school but we're functioning, we're not living. You were too young and too talented to die. You also didn't deserve to die such a tragic death. I pray to God every night you never knew what happened . You were happily walking to school one minute as you so often did and the next minute you were at heaven's gate. I pray to God you didn't suffer.We were finally given the police report after an agonizing wait. We know the name of the man who killed you and where he lives. He couldn't have been on the road more than two minutes that morning. He literally backed out of his driveway, turned left on Merriman and killed you. I hope what ever he was in such a hurry for that morning was worth it.In two minutes he ended one life, ruined three others and changed a family forever. As one eye witness I spoke to said..... everyone else saw you but him. Didn't he wonder why the cars ahead of him remained stopped before he swerved around them? HE lives down the street he KNOWS it's a School Zone.I wonder if he has children? You had such BIG dreams amd I do believe youwould have accomplished them had you lived.....you were sooooooo talented.I think it will take me my life time to get over this. I think about you every minute of every day.I still can't sleep. I sleep thirty minutes then wake up and it slams me in the face again, MY BABY IS DEAD. I miss you and love you so much I will never let you be forgotten. If any of your friends read this I ask them to please leave you a Christmas message. If not so much for you but for me.I will always love you more tan you'll know.
Mom <Notfranny@aol.com>
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Not many of you would know me! But for all its worth I have never loved anyone like I love Chris no matter where he is I will always keep him in my heart and mind! To me he was Perfect in more than one way and i hope everyone who had the chance to know him believes that too!
Virginia <lemon_head14@hotmail.com>
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Oh Chris you pulled one last trick on us but sadly it didnt go out to well. He was always making little funny things here and there in Art and in History class. Sadly enough I did not know him as well as most people do but I did know Chris. On a couple of occasions he has asked me to help him out with art projects that he was doing such as a meteor whizzing through the atmosphere and striking the earth in a near by park. It made me happy when he said that he liked it. When I would sit at the table with my friend Jay Chaplin he would always be either talking to somebody or be etching his soul onto paper. He has been such an inspiration on my life as an artist and just recently his death as inspired me more to go for what I like doing and put all my best into it. He is such an exelent kid. I once told him that once an album of his came out that I wanted to buy it. I have dreams and nightmares about Chris and now every time I see something artistic of either his or just something with the name Chris I feel lik falling to my knees and crying because so much of a wonderful person with exceptional tallents and future. I have seen many many people attending his wake which I myself went to and I saw the ain and hurting in their eyes. Chris' spirit will live on in the minds of everybody who knew him and cared for him. I hope he enjoys the Pikachu doll that I gave to him at his wake. Almost every time I saw him he was always reading or playing Pokémon. !!!God speed Chris!!!
Kevin Scott <Kevin2002@gay.com>
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Chris....I am thinking about you today...as always! I hope you are flying with the angels! Be happy.
Aunt JoAnne <jgvpri@aol.com>
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Chris and I have been good friends since the 6th grade. He was the 2nd person to come up to me and just said hi. From that moment, we became friends. We always could talk about everything to each other. He was a really good friend to me. I miss him so much. We would always sit and talk in the little room across from the photo room and just talk about everything. Now I walk by there in the mornings and just kind of mourn quietly cause we can't talk anymore in person. I remember that him and Paul just used to come over in the summer every other day and just beg for me to come out with them. Now I wish I did every day. I miss him but he is in a better place and he is happy. So, I love you Chris and we will see you in heaven. Now to you I can finally say goodbye. Love always, Katy
Katy <katybug5384@hotmail.com>
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Chris was truley one of the nicest guys i knew, i wasnt really that close to him, but my friend Melissa worked with him, and thats how i met him. everytime we went up there we always made it a point to stop and talk to him. he was always telling us about his band, and how he wanted us to hear then play. i really wish i got to know him better. i just want him to know that even thought he is no longer withus, he will always be in my heart. I'LL MISS YOU!!!
Ginny <blossom295@aol.com>
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i met chris when i worked at foodland. he truly was the nicest guy. everytime i went into foodland he would tell me all about his band and how he was going to be big one day. he definitly had the talent to achieve his dreams. he was always making me listen to all of his favorite bands. i remember once his headphones were broke so he gave me some money and i went to rite-aid on break to go get him some so he could let me listen to his favorite band. i havent been to foodland since his death because everytime i use to go in there i would go talk to him and now i cant do that but i know he is still around watching over all of us. whether u knew it or not chris i really do care a lot about u. i will always miss u!!!!!
melissa <melissy777@yahoo.com>
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this is my first year at churchill, but my fourth of high school. I never had the opportunity to meet Chris, but after getting this address from the school paper, i really wish i would have. Chris was a tremendous artist, i truly envy all of you who did have the pleasure of knowing him.
just someone <dabxtchwhat@aol.com>
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every monday i pick up the phone and think,
brianne <grandmanip@hotmail.com>
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i have known chris for about 4 years now and in my life i have never met such a persistant and creative kid as chris was. he was able to take his thoughts and transform them into artwork witch was wonderful. he expressed himself soo well throughout his work taht it touched everyone. i am so glad that i met chris the day i moved in and started to hang out with him. we had some great times and thats what we should all be remembering .... is the good times. chris was so influential everyday i was with him was the best day. i really didnt realize how much our friendship meant till that tragic monday. chris we all love you and now that you are up in heaven you can have all the jones soda that u want. keep rockin this world. until the day we meet again. u will be in all our prayers. we love you christopher kempa and we will never forget you. you are in our hearts. jason
jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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I didn't know Chris, but coming into college I have become good friends with a close friend of his. My heart goes out to all his family and friends, I'm sure he was a remarkable person as well as a remarkable artist.
Erica <PrezRICA@hotmail.com>
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My prayers will be with you. Chris is watching over all of us from heaven. All my love, J.
J. <Princess_pea44@hotmail.com>
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I never met Chris, but it's a sad story! I met his friend Kurt in the net and he was close, I've lost a couple friends of my own and they will always be remebered! long live chris, kelly and Lindsay, may they always be in our thoughts and rest in peace. Truly Jennifer
Julie <wild_chicky_chick@hotmail.com>
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I didn't know Chris at all or any of the Kempa family, but am just one of the many people who visit kempa.com on a daily basis. I heard about the accident in Livonia one day, and I thought what a shame it was for a young boy's life to be taken from him so unfairly. Soon after I visited kempa.com and when I saw the normal page replaced by two pictures of Chris I knew instantly what happened and it was all I could do from breaking down crying. This is a terrible tragedy, and I just want to offer my condolences to the Adam and the Kempa family and let them know that they and Chris are in my thoughts and prayers. Chris' artwork is amazing and it is easy to see from the art and guestbbok that he has touched many lives. I llok forward to attending the benefit show that I have read breifly about, I'm sure Chris would be very happy that the Livonia Franklin Art department is at least finding something positive from this terrible loss.
Kevin M <smartwentcrazy0@hotmail.com>
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No matter how many words of comfort, only time will deaden the pain. Never be ashamed to let people see tears of sorrow. No child is a saint all the time, and sometimes it helped us, when we talked about the bad things he did. (Our son was 19) To A Parent I'll lend you for a little time, a child of mine, He said. For you to love while he lives, and mourn when he is dead. It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three. But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me? He'll bring his charms to gladden you, and shall his stay be brief, You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief. I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return, But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn. I've looked the wide world over in my search for teachers true And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you. Now will you give him all your love, nor think the labor vain, Nor hate me when I come to call, to take him back again? I fancied that I heard them say, Dear Lord, Thy will be done. For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we'll run. We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may; And for the happiness we've known, will ever grateful stay. But shall the angels call for him much sooner than we planned, We'll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand.
Richard Bilbrey <rb0548@aol.com>
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It's hard to think of the words to say when things tragic happen to such wonderful people. Chris was an angel. He was just so incredibly sweet. I didn't know him as well as other people, and every day I wish I could have. I'm just so stunned at this, it's hard to get past it. My best friends were best friends with him and if only I could have been too. It was heartbreaking, not only holding people as they cried uncontrollably, but it was heartbreaking to think about why they were. To all of Chris's friends and family: Congratulations for knowing such a wonderful soul so well, and I'm so sorry that this had to happen.
Taco <DigitalSquirt@aol.com>
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I was listening to a song the other day, and these lyrics reminded me of something I thought Chris might say if he could speak with us today: I'm by your side And though my flesh is gone, I'll still be with you at all times And even though my body is gone, I'll be there to comfort you at all times I don't want you to cry and weep, I want you to go on living your life I'm not sleeping an endless sleep, Cause in your heart you have all of our good times Chris, you are living on through your family, friends, and art. We will always remember you. You will never be forgotten. To the Kempa family, again my toughts and prayers are with you.
Angie <Angie1247@aol.com>
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Chris wasn't someone i knew for a long time, only a few months...but he was one of the nicest, if not the nicest, person I have ever known.
Amanda Williams <None>
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a beautiful life is missing from our world. but his memory will survive always. this is a beautiful dedication, adam. with this, chris will be close in the hearts of everyone that loved and cared for him forever. i have much love and sympathy for you and your family.
Tiffany <rocknrollfun@yahoo.com>
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Quotes from artists that make me think of Chris or his work:

"Painting is just another way of keeping a diary"
- Pablo Picasso

"I hope with all my heart that there will be painting in heaven."
- Jean-Baptist-Camille Corot. (his dying words)

"Art does not reproduce what we see. It makes us see."
- Paul Klee

"The duty of the artist is to strain against the bonds of the existing style."
- Philip Johnson

"A painting is life and a painting is death...the picture is our own legacy left by tomorrow's dead for tomorrow's living."
- Ivan Albright
Cyndi <Mablegf@aol.com>
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We all love Chris. And we will forever. Chris did very good art. Everyday my family is crying. So am I.
Zoe Riopelle
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What a beautiful tribute to a person who touched so many lives during his brief time in this world. I have no doubt that Chris is sitting peacefully on a cloud, with a sketchbook in hand, looking down on all of us with love, understanding and care. I feel blessed to have known Chris Kempa...he will always be a part of my memory and heart. May the strength and warmth of friendship and the beauty of our special memories help the Kempa family during this time and always. With much love...
Ms. Hillman
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I did not know how to say what I feel inside so I wrote this poem. Letting Go By: Dale J.R. Hilden Letting go is what you need to do But letting go is not what you want to do To let go you have to care If your heart does not care enough to let go Then your mind will be lost To let go does not mean to forget But it is to remember To let go does not mean the end To let go you're just at the beginning The beginning of a very long and hard path This path may be narrow or it may be wide It may some times be hopeless But if you give up then you're not letting go Instead you're imprisoning what ever you're letting go I will always remember Chris as a great friend and a great artist who tought me a lot.
Dale J.R. Hilden <dhilden@ameritech.net>
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John Lennon once said: " As an artist, I always, in the most real moments, try to express myself, and to show myself and not somebody else. If I knew myself less I could express it less, that's all." ...I believe that Chris knew himself better than most people know themselves; Chris had the rare ability of creating something that was a true expression of his own heart and mind. I think that John would have agreed with me. I won't ever forget you Chris, you are a Legend --

To the Kempas', I send my love and strength
Katie MacLeod
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although i was never truly friends with chris, i was blessed to have talked to him a few times. i shared an art class with him and he helped me with my drawings. his creativity astonished me. he was an amazing artist. i wish i had the honor to say i was chris' friend. he has impacted and inspired me with my own art. i only wish i had gotten the chance to have known him better. i remember seeing chris playing in two faced jazz and a little before his tragic death i had the privilege to see him play in derelict. i will always remember that. i will keep the thoughts and memories i have of chris in my mind, and i will never forget them. to adam, mr and mrs kempa: my prayers go out to you. dana
Dana <SurfRoxy325@aol.com>
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i never had the opportunity to meet chris, that i can remember, but i've been acquainted with adam, and friends with some of adam's good friends, for some time. looking at this guestbook is amazing... so many kids were affected by chris, his artwork, the person he was. that's a beautiful thing, and though making sense of death is utterly impossible for people of any age (but especially those who are young), hopefully his family and friends will be able to take comfort and knowing how special he was, and how cherished he will be...forever. my thoughts are with you all-adam, your family, chris's friends... i wish there was some way for people to just "will" strength on those who most need it. adam--this site is awesome... a very touching way for all those who loved chris to remember him.
sarah fabian <nevendmath@aol.com>
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To the Kempa family, Chris & I are Custodians at Franklin. Even though we did not know Chris personally, we too were so very sadden by Chris's untimely death. For days the other kids were just walking around very quietly. We saw you all a few times in Franklin....but neither Chris or I could walk up to you.......we just didn't know what to say. God bless you all, and know that you are not forgotten. Are prayers are with you. Sincerly, Debbie Estep Chris Minor Franklin Custodial Dept.
Debbie Estep & Chris Minor <Chris has touched us all>
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I remember one time when I went to Foodland to get these menthol cough drops (they work really good when you have a cold)and I picked his line to go to. I remember he asked me if I wanted paper or plastic? I told him it didn't matter. Whenever I think about the accident, I think about how cherrie he sounded when he asked me that one simple question. I didn't know Chris very well at all, but I went to his funeral and couldn't stop crying. He had his whole life ahead of him, and he didn't deserve this. My deepest sympothy's go out to his family and friends. He will ALWAYS be rememberd in my mind, as well as many others.
Nicole
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I just want everyone to remember to keep talking to Chris- he's listening. To the Kempa family- I pray for you and Chris every night. Adam- this website is incredible.
Jenny MacLeod <goddess82@unforgettable.com>
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I knew Chris for quite a long time, since elementary school. He lived a few streets down from me and we grew up together. I remember he's the one who encouraged me to join a basketball team with him. I still play basketball, and I probably would've never started if it wasn't for him. That is only one of the ways he has changed my life. He made me interested in art and skateboarind. He was just a wonderful, fun loving kid. As we went to different middle schools then different high schools we grew apart. I'd see him skateboarding or at Foodland once in a while, but never on a regular basis. That's something I regret more than anyone knows. I let a wonderful friendship slip away because of the geography of our schools. I hope you know, Chris, that you are one of the best friends I have ever had and I will never forget all the fun times we shared. Chris is the most talented and compassionate person I have ever known. I'll miss him forever with all my heart.
Robin <Nibor031@aol.com>
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Chris was an incredible artist, and his art will live on, as he lives on in our hearts.
CJ <cjh32081@hotmail.com>
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The world really lost something when chris died. And I swear he could've been famous- he could have been whatever he wanted to be, and what he was, was an artist. An incredible artist, an artist that inspires me. I think about it and he had so much talent that it makes me feel like all the kids I take art classes with, including me, need to work, as a legacy to chris, and finish what he started. He's ten times the artist I may not ever be,and he was at 16. It took me till the wake to realize that this kid who I saw every day in the cubby is gone. I think everyone was a little freaked out, even those who did not know him, because his death hit a little close to home. We realize that everyone we ever took the time to get to know is or was important to us at one time. I learned that life is too short and wonderful to waste on grudges. So I guess I'm done with the differences I had with people, everyone I know has blessed me with memories that I smile about, no amount of hurt can counter that, I treasure joy way too much. Chris gave me some sweet moments, even though they were short. I remember being thrilled that he knew who Belly was, and that he liked Bjork. , that music is the glue of my little pixie world, it was nice that a boy knew what I felt with that music and appreciated how incredible those bands were. God bless him 'cause he was so Chris. I think he actually is famouse. There should be a book of his art work or something, I could see that being successful.
Marty <tinkerbell_plur@hotmail.com>
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We can not believe that it has been three weeks since this terrible trajedy. Not a day goes by that you are not on our minds. Adam, Fran, and Adam....please know that Chris is watching over you all and protecting you. Just feel his love and it will put a smile on your face. He is a beautiful angel guarding his family. Peace and love always
Bill and Jo <wtvjr0527@aol.com>
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I really don't know what to say. On November 20th, I was driving home from Churchill and passed the corner. When I saw the group of people crying, I prayed that it wouldn't be someone I knew. When I got home, I found a pile of messages from friends wanting me to call them. I started crying, not even knowing who it was. In my heart, I know I will never stop crying. Chris was a close friend of many of my friends at Franklin. I talked to him at parties and other times when we hung out in a group. I didn't know him too well, but whenever we did see each other, he treated me like a close friend. His personality made you feel special...like he truly did care about you...even if he had never met you before. Chris was such a wonderful person. We are fortunate that we have his artwork to remember him by. We will carry his spirit and the life lessons he has taught us, in our hearts forever....Thank you for everything Chris...we miss you.
Kristen <gfunk84@yahoo.com>
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The Kempas were my neighbors for a couple of years until my family left Livonia. When Chris was in the third grade, he and Scott Allen would hollar at me from the other side of the fence so that I could judge who made a bigger splash when doing cannon balls in the pool. Chris was a terrific kid. He was always happy and willing to spread that happiness to anyone that was around him. Although it has been years since I have seen Chris, I am sure that he was just as great of a person as he was when he was little. Adam, Mr. and Mrs. Kempa, you are in our thoughts. Sacha M. Baker
Sacha Baker <baker.662@osu.edu>
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To the Kempa family, Iam very sorry for your loss, I had'nt seen Chris in a while but as soon as I heard what had happened to him, I could'nt help but cry. I went to Grant with him and I remember us playing on the plaground together as kids. I had a crush on him in third grade and I am having a rough time dealing with his death also. It is so hard to think about how we all used to be friends. Chris, iknow you may not remember me but I just wanted to say that I will never forget you and we'll all miss you very much. Much Love and Support, Heather Hayes
Heather Hayes
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I didn't know Chris, but while looking at his artwork, I can sense that he was a very loving person. I am glad that there was many good things said about him, cuz I know he was loved. His art is amazing and it is so sad to hear about this loss. My thoughts go out to his family and friends.
Kristen <kristen00_17@yahoo.com>
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I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I was actually trying to find my aunt's webpage when I stubbled onto Chris.com. This is a tragic occurrance, but it sounds as if in the short time he was here he did nothing but make people feel good about themselves. I have only met a few special people like that. Sorry again for your loss.
A. Kempa <matorba@aol.com>
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How tragic that we had to lose another of our Franklin Family. Words cannot express our deepest sorrow or anger over a malfunc- tioning light. Something so simple that could be easily corrected as with the fight about the light at Joy and Merriman. We spent years teaching our kids how to properly cross a street, but drivers, and now malfunctioning lights seem to make everything we've taught them go right out the door. We know that Chris has the most ultimate of visions to draw now. He will be remembered forever by his Franklin Family. Much love to the Kempa Family. Robert, Mary & Nicole Stanczyk
The Stanczyk Family <mopcopsop@yahoo.com>
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I'm so sorry. I went to visit kempa.com to catch up on indie rock and the like, and I was stunned to hear about your brother. I know nothing I can say will make things any better, but know that Chris and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Alex Wood <tawood3@eos.ncsu.edu>
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i wrote this poem about chris:

Life hurts so bad
I don’t want you sad
Just look back to
Good times we had
I’d give my soul for you I know
But I want to hold you before you go
Before you go
I need you to know
You’re still alive in me
I guess it’s your time to go
I’ll stay up late
My heart will break
You’ll see whets unseen
Live fast, die young I guess
Your part of me
(It’s your time now)
IM still holding on
(It’s your time now)
I can’t believe that you’re gone
(It’s your time now)
I need you to know
Before you go
You’re still alive in me

-marley leathers-
2000
marley <sexpistolsgirl4@aol.com>
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When I first moved to Livonia, Chris was 1 of the first person I met. He made the transition to a new enviroment easier. As time went on Chris and I got to be friends, close friends for the first 3 years I lived here in Livonia. He was always in a good mood and always made me feel accepted and as a friend. Simple things like saying HI as we passed in the hall, or happened to cross paths in a mall or just being out and about. He was always someone that I could relate to and talk to because he didnt look at people as " whos who" but just as people. My dad always told me and I understand further now that life is a precious gift and to not take it for granted or seperate people for what they think they are or who they are because once they are gone, you'll NEVER have the chance to say your sorry or to correct any wrong.I also learned to understand why my dad always told me, " A person is never gone, until they are forgotten". Chris will live on in all off us that knew him because he will never be forgotten. Thank you Chris for being my friend.
Kurt
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I first met chris through his band with scott allen and john mezza. When we first talked I didnt know wether he liked me or not. But over the three years that I have known him, we became closer and closer. He was a friend and a good skater. We had had plans on skating after I was off crutches, now that will never happen. When ever I skate now, I am always thinking of him. Chris was a true friend to me and everybody elses lives that he has touched over the time he was here. God bless his family and his friends. He will always be in my heart.
craig hale <fruitbooter1@hotmail.com>
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Hi...I was just an occasional browser of Adam's page..I logged on the other day to catch up on the usual pop-culture minutia, etc. and discovered what happened...Poring through this page, and especially the other comments, I can tell that Chris was like my own little brother-- compassionate, bright, and more creative than I'll ever be. The tears welled up as I realized what such a loss in my own life would mean. I can tell that you know how lucky you were to have such an individual close to you, if for too brief an interval, and hope that you can take solace in knowing how many people he obviously touched and inspired.
Claire <Tsunami444@aol.com>
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hi, I'm sorry for all the rotten things I have ever said to you and for the way i treated you, I really did love you Chris. I know I didnt show it very well...I wish that at least just once we could have met, I'm sorry that I disapointed you so many times. I miss talking to you, i really do....
Jessie
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I was lucky enough to share not only the same love for art but also a love for the same music with Chris. The last time I came home to visit, about 2 weeks before Thanksgiving break, I stopped in at Franklin. I had brought some of my own art work to show Mr. Rheault. School was out and yet, Chris was still in the art room working on the computer. Chris and I talked about where he wanted to go for art school and he asked me what my classes were like at Kendall. He showed me the movie he was working on and all the crazy things he could do to his face on the computer screen. Our conversation then moved to music. Now Chris and I loved the same type of music but mine was a bit more punk and his was a bit more emo, but the bands we had in common would result in great conversations. I would give alot to go back and add even 5 more minutes to that last conversation. You don't even realize Chris' talent until you go to a place thats filled with artists (like an art college). You'd see how his work is ten times better than most of the work hanging up. I see it everyday and nothing blew me away like seeing Chris' advanced talent. He was gonna be great.
Cyndi Lareau <mablegf@aol.com>
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I didn't know Chris, infact I didn't go to his school. I have never heard of him, until a friend told me what happened. I told her I liked art and she told me to go to this site. As an artist I can honestly say I know who this guy was. He's just like me. I can tell that all through is painting. Looking at his work has honestly touched me, and will inspire me to go on and do my best work. If only he was alive today, I could thank him for touching my heart. Always, Jamie
Jamie <Junebabiel@aol.com>
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Hi, I never knew Chris but I am in Fundamental Art. I've seen all his great artwork all over the place and never knew it was by him. I sit next to one of his great friends, and it's just so sad that it was his time to go. I wish I knew him, he seemed like a great guy to hang out with or know. My greatest sympathy goes out to his family and friends.
John M. <thrillryd3rmf04@aol.com>
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I think chris one one of the best artist's that i have seen at such an age, and it is a tragedy that such a nice kid has been deprived of further life on this planet, but he's in heaven now and I'm sure it's alot better up there. Chris will be missed by all and I give my deepest sympathy to his family and closest friens. We'll always remember you Chris, Always
Jason Decker <ragefan809@aol.com>
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Hi, I'm Abby. I never knew Chris, but I knew a lot of people that did. Lookin at this site makes me realize how much I wish I woulda known him. His art takes my breath away. We will all truley miss you and his work!! Love you all!
Abby <Silvervwbug622@aol.com>
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It's so hard to think of something to say at a time like this. I knew chris for almost 8 years, but yet today I realized I hardly knew him for the real person he was. He truly was a talented and dedicated artist, he inspired so many people in many different ways. To his family, my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
Emily Fabian <EjLucky19@aol.com>
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chris was an amazing person, and i always looked up to him. i wish that i could have known him longer than i did, but for the time that i did know him, he was great. when we were in chicago together, he was running all around and making us laugh. he had so much going for him. i always will remember him. if you get sad, just think of chris up in heaven jamming with john lennon. =) always remember the good times. he was an angel, and god needed him back. much love always
*marley* <sexpistolsgirl4@aol.com>
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I had the privilege of working with Chris at Foodland for over a year, so I got to know him pretty well. When I was sad about something, just a smile or a word from him would make my day. I will never forget the memories of working with him, it's been cool. He was a very special person, and very dedicated to everything he has ever done. He will never be forgotten as long as a live. He was a great friend ~ and soon enough all the Foodland people will be together once again, because we're family. We love you Chris, and to his lovely family take care of yourselves, and I'm sorry for your loss. I think apart of us all died that day. Rest in Peace buddy.
Dawn Balint <RdoggO69@cs.com>
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Chris was a great person. I learned so much from him. The main thing he taught me was that I should not change my opinions on things just because there is the risk of not gaining the popular vote. I was a big Hanson fan, and still am today, and he always respected that and never made fun of me for it like how many of the others at school did and how some still do today. He always respected my opinions and was never quick to judge anyone or anything. And for that reason, along with many others, I had a great deal of respect for him in return. Whenever I would pass him in the halls he always offered up a smile. He was such a happy person. If I could go back in the past I would have told him directly how much it meant to me that he understood things that mattered to me when it seemed like everyone else did not. He influenced me, and taught me some things that made me who I am today. I am very lucky that I got to know him, and I will never forget him.
Angie <Angie1247@aol.com>
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wow - some real nice pictures that chris painted there. sad to see an artist with such a large potential leaving us at such a young age...
philip
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I didn't know Chris, but I know how deeply loved he was by his maternal grandparents & his Aunt, my dear friend, Molly Vaughan. I just want to extend my sympathies to the entire family & let them know that they are in the thoughts and prayers of many.
Christine A. Trojan <trojanca@rocketmail.com>
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I dont know how to accept this. I guess it still hasnt sunk in yet. I know for a fact Chris is in Heaven--even though he should be here living the wonderful life he was just starting. I cant stop thinking about chris and the wonderful memories i have shared with him. I always knew who he was but i never hung out with him until this summer. We would go to the coffee bean and he would always go to store across the street and get iced tea--which i thought was hilarious--but hey... that was chris. Unique, inttelligent, gifted, witty, AMAZING...this is a loss i will never forget as long as i shall live. To Adam and the rest of the Kempa family... my prayers are with you.
Shawna Brenner <coffeeshopgal@hotmail.com>
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I will always remember you Chris. You were a inspiration to my life and always will be a life long friend no matter how far away you are. Ill never forget the fun times in the hall and clay we had. I remember how you told me never to forget those crazy bands you told me about well guess what. I remembered a few. Well just wanted to say hello. love you always Tam
Tammy Schmidt
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It is still hard to accept what has happened, and I find it hard to express the sorrowful emotions in words, that this tragety has caused me to feel. I am grateful to have been able to be friends with him from the first grade until his death. I have so many great memories of growing up together. As kids we were always on the same basketball team, we spent day after day making our "Ewalk" fort in his backyard, after that phase we moved on to skateboarding together, and then in our high school year I had the pleassure of making music with him. His devotion to to art and music was insirational to me. He put every thing into his art and in unfairly short life he had created many masterpieces. He will always live throught the artwork he has given us. I will never forget him.
Danny Sperry <sumirp7@hotmail.com>
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Chris was a very awsome kid. I've known him ever since I moved in 9 years ago. And I remember the first time I ever saw him, he was skateboarding down the street when I was outside with my nextdoor neighboor and without seeing me ever before he looked at me, waved, and said "Hello". Later I learned he would be in my first class in my new school and become a good friend. He was always so helpful and nice. And through the last nine years hes always been around, there for you, and a very sweet person. To think of whats happened breaks my heart. I still cant believe someone so close is so far away. But I know he'll live on because their are so many places I've shared many great times with him that will last as constant reminders. To top this off I'd like to say I think this is the greatist way to honor Chris. He would have really loved it. Thanks.
Chris Ogden <TiniBallerini@aol.com>
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Chris was a great friend. He was always a person I would look foward seeing everyday before fouth hour. He would always cheer me up when I was down. Chris would came up to me during work and tell me what would be going on in his life. He told me that he loved Cory with all his heart and that he would do anything for her. Cory if you're reading this, he cared about you more than words could say. Chris was a very loving, talented, sweet, and caring artist. I would always dream of being a great artist like Chris. I spent all day in Chicago together. I remembered him telling me that he liked this certain painting. It was of double mint gum in the middle of a city. It was the collest thing. When we went to Gino's East, we could draw on the walls. Well instead of writing, he carved his name in. I will always remembed him as a funny, outgoing, creative, and artistic guy. He marched to his own drum, and I thought that was cool. I will miss you Chris. And I'll see you in the future. Love you always, Jenny P.S. You're not fat. Remember, it's cute to have a little belly!! :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)
Jenny <dustinsangel@yahoo.com>
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I never had the pleasure of meeting Chris, although he would call my home regularly to speak to my daughter, Corinne. When I saw the sorrow and pain in Corinne after Chris was killed, my heart broke like the heart of any parent who sees their child in pain. My deepest sympathy to the Kempa family from my wife and myself. I am also a high school teacher and I can tell that Chris would have been the type of kid any teacher would love to have in their class: creative, original, always learning. I take comfort in the artwork that adorns my daughters walls and the fond memories she will always have of someone who was so gifted.
K.Smith <mughug@aol.com>
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Chris was such a good friend to me and everybody that he knew. he taught me things,helped me and lifted my spirits up when i was down. i'll never forget his smile,the way he made me laugh or just him saying "hi". chris was there for everybody that needed help. he'll be missed. now all we have are the memories of the times that we shared with chris. he'll always be in my heart. i miss you so much chris and i'll see you in the after life.
Katie <NightDreamer9928@aol.com>
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My warmest condolences to Adam, the Kempa family, and everyone whose lives have been touched by Chris. I've talked with Adam many times, but never had the opportunity to meet Chris. But I can see from this guestbook that he was an extraordinary, loving, and giving person and now from this website, everyone can see what a talented artist he was as well. I look forward to taking part in the upcoming benefit show, and hope that the celebration of Chris' life continues here and in the thoughts of all that knew him. Thank you.
robert t nanna <bob@heymercedes.com>
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chris was the person that everyone liked and who helped everyone no matter what. He was never mean but always made me laugh during a bad time. we all love you chris and you will never be forgotton
Jason <avsrule1449@aol.com>
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I had the privledge of being Chris' art teacher here at Livonia Franklin H.S. Chris was such a part of my classroom ALLDAY, EVERYDAY. That is a priveldge because I was able to be a part of Chris' growth as an artist. I witnessed it, I took part in it, and I will miss watching it continue to develop. Chris was an artist. And please believe me I don't throw that term out there for many. He had it, the frustration, the emotion, the confusion, the drive, passion, creativity & style. At 16 years old Chris' personal style can be seen in all his work. Personal style is the hardest thing to achieve, yet alone at 16. And you know what, it was gonna change and grow through the years. I can only imagine what it would look like in June, let alone 5 years from now. He did it though.......he made it. You see he was able to create what was inside , if only a little bit at least it got out....for himself and for others. What a relief, can you imagine all that stuck inside...... He worked hard, we spent a lot of time together, I STILL SEE HIM. He is all around my room. I'm so proud of him. And I'm glad I was able to tell him that in these last months....so proud of him.
Mr. Jeremy Rheault <looseball@earthlink.net>
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There is not too much else I can say that already hasn't been said. Chris was an incredible person with many talents. I will always remember the Summer vacations at the lakehouse. Playing football on the beach. Penny candy from the genral store, and building fires at night and singing around it. Chris, I will keep these thoughts with me for the rest of my life.
Bill vaughan <wwbvd@aol.com>
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This is a poem I found this summer and it reminds me of Chris now.

Sunset at Noon
I always thought that when it came, I'd be ready for the end.
By that time I'd be resigned and tame, death would apper a welcome friend.
But what if I still want to live, still want to learn and grow?
What if I still have gifts to give, and I'm not ready to go?
What if I am too young still, not old enough to die?
What if I want to wait until I've experienced life to say good bye?
You were way too young, you were taken way too soon.
Your time had just begun, the sun of your life set at noon.
where ever you have gone, nearby or far away.
Please realize that with you a piece of me died that day.

I miss you Chris.
Elyse <Poetgurl84@aol.com>
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this is something that I wrote for Chris:

Shining Star

It's times like these
We all must face
A hole in our hearts
That can't be replaced
Put on this earth
For a short breath of time
We lower our heads
And mutter "what a crime"
But tears won't undo
All the pain in my heart
And living in anger
Will only tear me apart
You were one of God's angels
You were my shining star
I know you are safe now
Quietly watching from afar
You were an amazing person
Special in your own way
I took knowing you for granted
I never said what I wanted to say
The heavens are your home now
Your canvas will be the night sky
In my heart you will never be forgotten
And I know that this isn't goodbye
Tracy <CheshireCat354@excite.com>
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Hi my name is Kempa too! I'm from Germany. Kempas are very cool isn't it? I would ask if I can use the picture "cows" for my homepage? I would also link to your page!
Dennis Kempa <webmaster@downloaders.de>
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What can I say? Chris was an amazing individual. And now the world is a little bit less beautiful because of his absence. But I have a feeling that he is up in heaven, looking down on us and painting some of his best masterpieces that will only be shared with us when we meet him up there. I remember so much about this kid. I have to say that one of the best memories that I have is when we went to Homecoming together. We had a blast and Chris kept me smiling and laughing all night. I think of that night now as a blessing because I have so many wonderful memories of Chris. My thoughts and prayers go out to Adam, Mr. and Mrs. Kempa...know that you are loved and that many people are here for you. Lord bless.
Michele Bardeleben <Shelly613@hotmail.com>
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I dont really know what to say. One day Chris is here and the next day he is not. It is sad. I miss him now and i will forever. Chris will stay in my heart forever.
Travis Messinger <travmessinger@hotmail.com>
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I didn't know Chris for a very long time. I only met him a month before his tragic death. But in that month's time, I got to know him so well. I just wish I could have spent more time with him. He was a very beautiful person. Maybe one of the most beautiful people I will ever know. His smile will stay with me always. I'm just glad he is in a better place now...where he can listen to all the music he wants, whenever he wants.
Tracey <IamAgoddes@aol.com>
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chris was such a brilliant artist. everyday i have known chris was a honor. he made me strive for perfection in my own art and was always there for me when i needed him. to lose him in such a short time is hard to understand,with the big impact on my life he left could never be forgotten. with everything we did together i am thankful for the very day we got kicked out in the hall and meet each other.
lori boros <pragmatize@aol.com>
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I am JoAnne Vaughan's (Chris's Aunt) sister. I don't recall ever having the pleasure of meeting Chris. I can see through his Artwork that he was quite a talented young man. I would just like Franny and her family to know how very sorry I am for their loss. You are forever in my thoughts and prayers.
Toni Anne Dean <Toni327@aol.com>
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For the last three years I have known Christopher Kempa. And for the last three years I have concidered him one of my best friends. We were anways eating lunch in the art room together talking about music or art or movies or whatever. He always influenced my artwork in one way or another, giving me helpful hints and ideas. I truly believe he was a genius. He did so many things so well. I will miss him. john
John Hicks <cvj_hicks@msn.com>
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In the years that I have known the Kempas, I feel very fortunate and very blessed to have known Chris. Not only will he be remembered as a caring, intelligent young man, he will be missed in the minds and hearts of all who were touched by him.
Rob Byrd <basstardos@aol.com>
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I really don't know what to say exactly. I really didn't get the chance to get to know Chris that well. I am very glad though that I did spend some time with him. He was one of the most talented people I know, just sitting at the bean he would create awesome pictures on the Metro times. I know he will be missed greatly by everyone. I also, want to say that this is a wonderful website.
Jamie Harb <Jlynn3217@yahoo.com>
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Even though I never knew Chris personally, I talked to him often and feel as if I really got to know him. He often was there to console me during the many difficult times that I encountered. WE often talked about girls that he liked and interesting new projects that he worked on. I will miss him as if he was one of my best friends. Tyler
Tyler Burton <hersheyskiss20@aol.com>
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I am so sorry.
would rather not say right now.
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It has been an honer being friends with Chris for almost 12 years. I dont think I will ever meat a person who has the imagination and talent he had. Losing him has been the hardest thing I ever had to go through. But now, he is in a place where anything can be achieved. A place where many will be amazed by his work, just as I was. Chris, you will always be remembered.
Caleb Deady <calebdeady@hotmail.com>
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I have only met Chris a few times. His Mom, Frannie, is my cousin & his grandparents are my Aunt Joan & Uncle Bill. The few times we met Chris & Adam, we were always impressed at what fine young men they were. Most recently we had the opportunity at their grandparents 50th anniversary celebration. It it obvious that Chris was a very talented young man, as is clearly shown in his wonderful art work. This is a wonderful tribute to him. To Frannie, Adam, Adam, and the rest of the extended family, please let your memories of this wonderful boy give you peace. Our prayers and love are with all of you.
Bridget Henzler <BHenzler@aol.com>
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Heaven got an early Christmas gift this year in the form of an angel named Christopher. I am Christopher's aunt, and I remember him as a darling baby......who had to be in constant motion to be soothed.....before he was 3 mos old he would move his little body in time with any music that was playing....a definate signal that he possessed a gift in music......Chris was an "out of the box" kind of toddler. He always demonstrated a keen sense of creativity and humor. I remember the day he played SUPERMAN and swung on Grandpa's ceiling fan blade from the bed. He was precocious to a tee and it was this precociousness that made him what he was. From preschool years, his artistic talents were so obvious! He could sit there and look at you, and draw your picture so well! Little did we know that his talents were just beginning. Chris overcame his learning problems when it was revealed that he needed to have a differentiated curriculum to accomodate his learning style. We all have gifts and talents. There are MULTIPLE INTELLIGENCES other than reading and math in the conventional sense. Harvard's Dr. Gardner has made the Multiple Intelligences famous the world over. Chris certainly possessed several of these intelligences as evidenced by his awesome visual and performing arts. I will cherish my memories, photos, and videos of this wonderful child. When I look at the sunrises and sunsets from now on, I know that the Lord has him at work. It is comforting to know that we will one day be reunited in our heavenly family. In prayers for my sister, brother-in-law, and nephew. In His Eternal Lovingkindness, Kathy
Kathy Putnam <MsKateP@aol.com>
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There are some things in life that can make a person happy. I think that Chris was that thing for me. Over the past two years, Chris has been one of my closest friends. It's so hard to believe that he is gone...He was so incredibly talented, I am happy everyday that I got the priviledge of knowing Chris. I am thankful everyday that we made a million memories together, whether it be hanging out at the library, goofing around making movies, watching DVDs & drinking Jones, or going to the bean. I will never forget them. Adam-Thank you.
Cori Smith <curcusenvy@aol.com>
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it's extremely difficult to speak of someone who you know so well, who you have grown up with and shared many key moments with, in the past tense... when i think back and reflect on my childhood, chris and adam played a prominent role... summers were always the best, going to the kempa house, or them going over to mine, to play guns, nintendo, or draw comics... while most people lose the intensity that we are blessed with as young children, chris never let go of that, and that is what made chris chris... although chris would profess to being a dork or a nerd, such is not the case... chris took everything in stride, and when given a challenge, took to it, and conquered it... just looking at his art in the past week is proof of that... there is a definite void left in the the hearts of many of us now... thinking i'll never seen his eyes peer through the blinds on the door to the kempa home when i came to visit is the strangest of all... adam, mr and mrs kempa: you are in my heart and you know you have my deepest sympathy... let us use this website as a glorious indicator of a wonderful wonderful boy...
ryan allen <ryanrawk@hotmail.com>
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I only knew Chris for about a year, I met him through work but he was a great guy who was always happy and very original. He was very sweet also, always trying to cheer me up when I was upset or even looked like I was bordering on being upset. He was really fun to hang out with because he was original in whatever we ended up doing. This is the last thing I would have ever imagined happening to him and it is still hard to believe that I wont run into him and have some amusing conversation about something. He was very talented and very unshy, seeing as he would talk to anyone about anything and I really admired that in him.
Sarah Perelli <megabich9@aol.com>
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Chris was a good good kid. He was very talented and I'm glad I knew Chris pretty well. He tagged along with us to shows all the time and I can still vividly remember the time I saw him sitting up on the big speakers at St. Andrews Hall. Unfortunately I don't remember who went to see. Probably Sloan. Chris will be greatly missed. Hang in there Adam and Mr. and Mrs. Kempa. We are here for anything you need.
Erik <erik@suburbansprawlmusic.com>
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For 16 years, I had the honor and pleasure of being Chris’ Aunt Molly. He was a very colorful and loving boy who brought more joy to others during his short stay with us than many other people are able to over their very long lifetime. Chris always had a hug for me, and he repeatedly would make me feel like he was really glad we were family. He knows he’ll forever have a very special place in my heart !! Our deep loss is truly heaven’s gain !! While he will ALWAYS be very missed, some day we will be with him again. In the meanwhile though, God, in His gentile way, is looking after the newest member of His Rock-n-Roll heaven band, and He has given us all a new guardian angel to talk to.
Molly Vaughan <MEVaughan@AOL.com>
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I met Chris in an chatroom about three years ago...he was looking for someone to help him with Japanese...with that we started a small friendship, and talked about all sorts of things...he was always ambitious and talked of great things he planned to do...it saddens me to hear that his life ended so quickly...my prayers go out to Chris' family and friends...we will all miss him dearly...
Yuhki Fukusumi <Kenshin99@aol.com>
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Though I did not know Chris personally, I'd heard only great things spoken about him. He was obviously a caring, respected young man with an amazing artistic talent. Seeing and hearing closer friends of mine devistated by the loss of such a loved person made me realize what a loss it was for family, friends, and anyone else who knew Chris. To the family of Chris: may my prayers be with you always.
Jaimie Radford <JAiDoLL718@aol.com>
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though i do not know you, adam, nor did i know your brother- i can understand the pain of your tragic loss. this is a wonderful and touching tribute to an obviously talented and gifted young man. i will keep your family in my prayers, and i hope that others can be affected positively by his moving artwork.
amy <amelt@mediaone.net>
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This is a beautiful and touching tribute to Chris. It is obvious that he was a very talented young man who will be sorely missed. Your family is in my prayers, Adam. Betsy
Betsy <smile1680@hotmail.com>
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I haven't been associated with Chris for very long. We met in a chat room one night last year. We started talking about a young lady he was interested in. He seemed to me to be a young man who was in the possesion of a deeply spiritual soul. He often made me laugh. It is very tragic to have to say good-bye to someone so young. Chris will be missed dearly. My mail box will not be the same without him.
Darry <DarryRose2@aol.com>
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We are all very saddened by the loss of a wonderful young man. Uncle Bill and I are proud of all of his accomplishments and will share this website with many people. God Bless...we love you all
JoAnne Vaughan <jgvpri@aol.com>
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Hello, Chris Kempa was a wonderful person who was very artistic, and caring at the same time. He had qualities that many people wish they had. He will be missed and remembered forever.
Megan Discher <BBallGrl1285@aol.com or BBallQt04@yahoo.com>
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This guestbook is here for anything you might want to say about my brother or his work. New pieces will be added daily until we run out.
Adam <adam@kempa.com>
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